Just venting

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    Aug 22, 2010 11:21 PM GMT
    Don't you people hate when certain people get mad over baby shit and stop talking to you completely? Like wtf. And like the shit wasn't even all that big to be mad over. Okay I understand being mad for 5 minutes, an hour the most, but like a few days! Damn niqqa, smh. People get me so pissed off like honestly, tell me if your mad at me if anything, don't just stop talking to me. I hate that shit with a passion. Stop being a 5 year old when you're nearly an adult. People these days. SMH

    My friend invited me to go to one of his friend's pool a couple days ago. I politely declined because I had other plans. Friend just up and leaves my house and walks toward the door. I was surprised that my decline to go to the pool made him just wanna up and leave, i wasn't rude or anything when i said I can't i have other plans. So as he opening the door and starts to walk out i say "byyye" and he leaves.

    silence, haven't heard from him in days. I couldn't help that I already had plans, its not like i was being rude when i declined his request to go to his friend's pool. I didn't even know the the guy with the pool anyway and besides I dont even like swimming that much. I dont lay out and tan so wtf? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 23, 2010 12:10 AM GMT
    Just a guess....something else is going on here...some context is missing from your story.

    For example, you'd told him you'd do something with him, and he's upset that you backed out.

    Or, you always have excuses for not doing things with him, and this last one was the "last straw."

    Or, what?

    Something.

    It's because that what you describe would be an irrational response on his part. So I suspect there's a context you've left out.
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    Aug 23, 2010 4:39 AM GMT
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    Aug 23, 2010 5:11 AM GMT
    He probably has feelings for you. You're playing dumb, and he's getting sick of it. You should confront these feelings head on, if he hasn't.

    This is just in case it isn't as previous posters mentioned. It's easy to only present your side of the story because you may simply be seeking validation, no matter how hollow.