DO u have to have certain personality traits to be in a relationship?

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    Aug 24, 2010 1:59 AM GMT
    Some ppl were born to be tied down to one person.
    Or
    Some people can never seem to hold down a successful relationship....



    What u people think?
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    Aug 24, 2010 5:40 AM GMT
    I think PFFFFFFF
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    Aug 24, 2010 5:59 AM GMT
    oh for sure, theres relationship people and non relationship people. Most will end up in a relationship, but it really comes down to those who can be out of one and still survive and those who can't. If you started early, dating that is, your most likely a relationship person.
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    Aug 24, 2010 6:03 AM GMT
    maturity and compromise. but a give and take type of compromise.
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    Aug 24, 2010 6:07 AM GMT
    pat3rob saidoh for sure, theres relationship people and non relationship people. Most will end up in a relationship, but it really comes down to those who can be out of one and still survive and those who can't. If you started early, dating that is, your most likely a relationship person.


    I have to say thats not true in my case, i dont date jsut because I never meet anyone to date.. when I did have a relationship, I was completely committed to it
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    Aug 24, 2010 6:10 AM GMT
    UnforgivenBanshee said
    so_authentic saidSome ppl were born to be tied down to one person.
    Or
    Some people can never seem to hold down a successful relationship....



    What u people think?


    Personality TRAITS you want to work towards having??? GIVE ME A BREAK... Don't CHANGE yourself for somebody else... You already have personality traits that are part of your little stake in life right now!!! FUCK THE REST!!!!! Live as who you are and if someone else comes along down on his hands and knees because of it.... THEN CHANGE. How can you be happy in life if you are anything other but YOURSELF???


    Our personalities are determined partially by genetics, partially by developmental environment, and are partially just the constellations of behaviors we have voluntarily adopted to get what we want out of life. The concept that everything about your personality is immutable is simply not true, and is used to excuse lack of development. Now, there may be a few traits about someone that are hardwired... but that doesn't excuse someone if they're just an asshole.

    In the context of relationships, I think the question is overly broad. There are as many types of monogamous relationships as there are couples. I personally have swung wildly between rigid monogamy and laissez-faire random sex. Currently, I'm in a monogamous phase, and abstaining from having sex unless I'm in a relationship.
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    Aug 24, 2010 6:46 AM GMT
    UnforgivenBanshee said
    redheadedryan said
    UnforgivenBanshee said
    so_authentic saidSome ppl were born to be tied down to one person.
    Or
    Some people can never seem to hold down a successful relationship....



    What u people think?


    Personality TRAITS you want to work towards having??? GIVE ME A BREAK... Don't CHANGE yourself for somebody else... You already have personality traits that are part of your little stake in life right now!!! FUCK THE REST!!!!! Live as who you are and if someone else comes along down on his hands and knees because of it.... THEN CHANGE. How can you be happy in life if you are anything other but YOURSELF???


    Our personalities are determined partially by genetics, partially by developmental environment, and are partially just the constellations of behaviors we have voluntarily adopted to get what we want out of life. The concept that everything about your personality is immutable is simply not true, and is used to excuse lack of development. Now, there may be a few traits about someone that are hardwired... but that doesn't excuse someone if they're just an asshole.

    In the context of relationships, I think the question is overly broad. There are as many types of monogamous relationships as there are couples. I personally have swung wildly between rigid monogamy and laissez-faire random sex. Currently, I'm in a monogamous phase, and abstaining from having sex unless I'm in a relationship.


    Don't mind my philosophy here but... DO YOU like the movie Matrix???? It was interesting but I personally do not believe you can sample the statistic...


    It was OK. I don't know what you mean by "sample the statistic."
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    Aug 24, 2010 7:01 AM GMT
    i dont like picky people....prefer easy going and kind guys