Aug 24, 2010 3:02 PM GMT
Ok, i'm not usually one to post threads and i'll try to be as diplomatic as possible but i have noticed a trend here, as have other 'mature' men, with an attitude that runs with some of the younger guys on RJ. There appears to be a sort of neuroses about us guys contacting younger guys, as if, as one member put it ' we're tryiing to get into your pants". This site to me, is more than a fuck and suck hookup, it is a site where guys share so many common interests, not just being gay and having sex, age should be no barrier when you want to talk to someone. We all have somethiing to offer, try listening and keep an open mind. I have several young friends on here that are mature beyond their years and are just fun to chat with. Some have offered me invaluable support and advice on coming out and joining the gay side of life. Some like more mature guys. So if you leave your porch lite (IM) on, then expect people to come knocking, otherwise turn the fukken thing off.