I am just looking for some no strings hookup aka fuck fun.
I am in an open relationship and we both have our fun on the outside but neither of us require anything other than that.
Thanks munching zombies.
I try to avoid games...but the games people play will have you playing along by choice or not.
He sounds all lusty and hot over the phone but when it comes to actually meeting up, there is always "something" that comes up and it is not his cock.
Or when you have a guy after your ass and make it clear not while he has a boyfriend and then when he is actually single (they broke up...
) he is looking for something more than just an nsa hookup...wtf?
Or the guy that is all randy for you and likes the profile and the pics and everything and then he says, yeah sure we'll hookup later today and he'll confirm in the afternoon of the time and address and the time comes and goes and there is no confirmation and then you ask him what happened and his reply to you is "I was busy."
I then ask myself: "What the fuck happened to common courtesy?"
Or the lame excuse guys where you meet a hot guy at the gym, great body, cock etc.
Meet in the parking lot afterwards, liked me and I liked him, a couple of gropes and a hookup time was set...I phoned to confirm (courtesy call) he is going to a wedding........did he not know about the wedding 3 days ago?
Then there are the no-strings-but-looking-for-love guys.
The sex was great the 1st time and then the 2nd time it was even better, you're both comfortable and you both chat and chill together and then you message for a 3rd round because this might be a great fuckbuddy and...nothing.
Not even a reply to your message or calls...
Then weeks later you run into a friend and this friend tells you that he met a guy that knows you and that he wanted a lot more than what you were willing to give...and the description is the guy that never returned your message or calls.
I am assuming from this history that:
A) Games will be played and you will play them whether you want to or not.
B) NSA might not always stay NSA.
C) All of the above.