Aug 26, 2010 12:05 PM GMT
A couple of weeks ago my bf and I were a bit tipsy and I asked him when was he "gonna do me" as in when was he gonna top me. We've been together for 6 months and were casually hooking up before that.
He said he didn't no I was into that and we didn't really have the right tools ie condoms, lube, so I was like fair enough. I then asked if he actually wanted to and he said yes so I left it at that.
Three weeks later we still haven't done it. I wanna spice it up a bit; take the next step.
How do I bring it up? In normal convo or during sex?
Usually I let him take charge ie instigate when we are gonna have sex and i asked him if this annoys him a little and he said yes - I wished he had told me earlier. He said he would love it if i just ripped off my pants one day and went for it.
Anyways, when it the best time to bring this up and what kinda wording would you use?
cheers
He said he didn't no I was into that and we didn't really have the right tools ie condoms, lube, so I was like fair enough. I then asked if he actually wanted to and he said yes so I left it at that.
Three weeks later we still haven't done it. I wanna spice it up a bit; take the next step.
How do I bring it up? In normal convo or during sex?
Usually I let him take charge ie instigate when we are gonna have sex and i asked him if this annoys him a little and he said yes - I wished he had told me earlier. He said he would love it if i just ripped off my pants one day and went for it.
Anyways, when it the best time to bring this up and what kinda wording would you use?
cheers