studly23 saiddoes it bother you if someone you like is not out of the closet and is bisexual. i met a couple of guys who dont like biu guys because they are scared they will be left for a girl... do you feel that way?... does fem guys bother you or is a turn off?
My experience is that the vast majority of guys who identify as "bi" do it because they're afraid to come totally out - they want people to still think they're a "man" and real men fuck women. Instead of saying "I'm a man and like to fuck guys".
Also a lot of us do fuck around with women before we start up with men, so yeah, sure, technically I'm bi but it doesn't describe what I want or am likely to do.
So someone who's young, says they're bi, is still in the closet, it's not that they'd leave me for a girl, it's that they're still fucked up in their head about it and how can you trust that?
Fem guys, because they've always been that way, are a lot braver and stronger than any of us who could hide it until we wanted to tell people, so I give them a lot of props for that. And when someone goes off on them, says there's something wrong with them, well thats the same shit they get from straight people and it's just fucked up and wrong.
I tend to not be attracted to guys who are too fem, though, but that's not because I don't like them, it's just what my cock responds to.