I actually just cited this book today and quoted from it in another thread here -- Gay Society and Self-Image (http://www.realjock.com/topic/110009/
). You're absolutely right: a great little book. It helped me understand a great deal about my own conflicts due to the internalized homophobia and shame I absorbed when I was growing up. It was kind of like, "That's just what was happening to me."
It's the kind of book you always find yourself referring back to. It stays with you.
Kori, I'd be interested in knowing which things in the book are jumping out at you the most.