How do you define "hot" when meeting new men in your life?

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    Aug 28, 2010 4:41 PM GMT
    When I was younger I defined hot mainly on his physical appearance.icon_smile.gif But now I have three or four criteria:

    !) Confidence

    2) Positive attitude

    3) handsome smile

    Although it doesn't hurt to be physically fit, I tend to gravitate towards guys who carry a few extra pounds, or what I call beefy. .icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 28, 2010 4:47 PM GMT
    Body/looks is only a part of being hot and not the biggest part. To qualify as hot you have to be at least semi-intelligent, engaged in the meeting (if you text someone else during our date you ARE the weakest link, goodbye NEXT) and able to make conversation (preferably witty and amusing). If you´re really hot then we may just be transferring electricity through our eyes before I grab you and pull your clothes off.
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    Aug 28, 2010 4:59 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidBody/looks is only a part of being hot and not the biggest part. To qualify as hot you have to be at least semi-intelligent, engaged in the meeting (if you text someone else during our date you ARE the weakest link, goodbye NEXT) and able to make conversation (preferably witting and amusing). If you´re really hot then we may just be transferring electricity through our eyes before I grab you and pull your clothes off.


    I agree with you buddy. Liking that last bit! Its been my experience if someone behaves confidently with a great attitude there's some thought processes went into making that a reality for him, which implies to me he is most likely nominally intelligent. Not always the case, but in general it's usually a good starting barometer.
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    Aug 28, 2010 8:41 PM GMT
    Good looks for sure, physically fit, am not into overweight guys or way too skinny. Also sense of humor is very important, else the hotness fizzles into thin air within seconds.
    Met a really handsome guy once but he just couldn't hold a conversation and barely had any sense of humor, that counts as one of the most boring dates I ever had.
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    Aug 28, 2010 9:24 PM GMT
    My list.....

    1) Got to be funny....finding something funny even in the worst of situations.
    2) Strongly held beliefs ...even if they don't match mine....I don't want a clone of myself....
    3) Someone that's comfortable and confident in his own skin...but isn't cocky about it...
    4) A guy that doesn't complain and bitch about every day life and occurrences..Man's up to his mistakes and sees those mistakes as learning experiences...
    5) A man that has compassion for handicapped people....stray or abused animals...those for no fault of their own suffer...
    6) A man to lives a healthy lifestyle....Who enjoys working out and sports and doesn't bitch about working out....I hate that....
    7) A guy who can see past my walls...break me down...See that gift which is me...For him to believe he's the luckiest fucker in the world to have me by his side.....

    Brah.......I know your out there....and I'm here waiting patiently.....show yourself soon cause I need ya....Now more than ever.....BUD.....Steve
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    Aug 28, 2010 10:32 PM GMT
    mybud said

    Brah.......I know your out there....and I'm here waiting patiently.....show yourself soon cause I need ya....Now more than ever.....BUD.....Steve


    Dude, stop the whining, go out and find him!! icon_redface.gif LOL!! Seriously though, Your list is awesome and I couldn't have said it any better. Enjoy the rest of your weekend. Peace to you bro.
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    Aug 28, 2010 10:43 PM GMT
    Ive no idea, it just clicks in my mind, yes or no
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    Aug 28, 2010 10:46 PM GMT
    1) Handsome face
    2) Cute smile
    3) Deep Voice

    (Not needed to be hot, but do add to the hottness)
    4) Type A
    5) Great Legs , thick, muscular
    6) Could care less what others think
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    Aug 29, 2010 12:09 AM GMT
    I believe the concept of what is really hot has been decided for us by our ancestors. How to explain how our tastes are so uniform? Our tastes converge at the ones we find the most attractive. A Marco Dapper kind of guy will match almost almost all replies in this thread, how surprising.

    On the other hand, if you ask people what is the minimum checklist of a dateable person, then you're going to see more diverging (and useful) answers, after all, most of us will never end up with a Marco Dapper type. icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 29, 2010 12:51 AM GMT
    it's in a constant state of flux. couldn't narrow it down to constant specifics.
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    Aug 29, 2010 1:37 AM GMT
    alwbuckland saidHow do you define "hot" when meeting new men in your life?
    100% body. If his body gives me a boner, the dude is hot.
    Whether or not I'd pursue him for more than sex depends on attitude and personality.
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    Aug 29, 2010 6:12 AM GMT
    Hot: A man between the ages of 18 and 127,( yes the one's suppose to be there) That has a great mind, can think and speak for himself, knows what he wants, knows drama is an evil thing, will dance with me, makes no differents if he can dance or not, just that he will. Thinks a hard fast fuck is hot, but KNOWS making love slow and soft is the most amazing think in the world, can melt every defense with a great kiss, and most important.......will bring my soup when I'm sick icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 01, 2010 3:51 AM GMT
    it is all about confidence attitude and just being a sweet guy period. what is on the inside is what matters most. has to like going out haveing a few drinks doing some dancing then going home and cuddling watching a movie and then either making love or going for a quick fuck with attitude behind it. the most important is he has a heart and is real.