How can i know if he is interested?

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    Aug 29, 2010 2:00 PM GMT
    Well, the story start like this. I met this guy on Facebook, and at the end he is kinda cute, i text him, and he almost never answere it, and i know he have the time to do it. My fist date was to the movies, he was cool, ok, i know him since a month allready, and i had see him like 6 times only. He barely call me, and yesterday he waned to see me on a disco. Ok, he alwais go every week to the disco...i am like, i love the disco, but i dont go every week. Now, he got mad because i didnt went to the disco, ok, i live 50 min from his town, and from the disco, like 1:10 . I am like...i alwais have to go down there? why he dont call me and tel me, lets go umm...i dunno, somewere where we can have a good time. I dunno if i am like his boyfriend allready cuz i acepted to have a relationship with him. i am confused....i dunno what to do, i wont call him, i ill wait until he "apoloyaise" << Sorry, dont know how to tipe it xD >>
    and he dont ever care to text me, i am done with him today.
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    Aug 29, 2010 3:12 PM GMT
    I would just ask him if he is interested or not. Sounds to me that he is not, so I would just move on. A guy that was interested in you would show you that he was and not play all the games.
  • rnch

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    Aug 29, 2010 3:29 PM GMT
    sound like he is "just not that into you".

    sorry.

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    Aug 29, 2010 3:35 PM GMT
    OK, let's see if I got this right.

    You BOTH decided to have a relationship, right? So then you are boyfriends.
    He wants you to go see him every week where he lives, at the Disco about an hour from where you live. He won't go anywhere else.


    You said, "why he dont call me and tel me, lets go umm...i dunno, somewere where we can have a good time."

    This is NOT a good idea.
    You want to do something else so you should make the suggestion and plan something nice. If you want him to be a certain way it's a good idea to show it by your example.

    -Doug
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    Aug 29, 2010 3:37 PM GMT
    He can read your Poker Face, but you can't read his.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Aug 29, 2010 3:56 PM GMT
    christian201 saidWell, the story start like this. I met this guy on Facebook, and at the end he is kinda cute, i text him, and he almost never answere it, and i know he have the time to do it. My fist date was to the movies, he was cool, ok, i know him since a month allready, and i had see him like 6 times only. He barely call me, and yesterday he waned to see me on a disco. Ok, he alwais go every week to the disco...i am like, i love the disco, but i dont go every week. Now, he got mad because i didnt went to the disco, ok, i live 50 min from his town, and from the disco, like 1:10 . I am like...i alwais have to go down there? why he dont call me and tel me, lets go umm...i dunno, somewere where we can have a good time. I dunno if i am like his boyfriend allready cuz i acepted to have a relationship with him. i am confused....i dunno what to do, i wont call him, i ill wait until he "apoloyaise" << Sorry, dont know how to tipe it xD >>
    and he dont ever care to text me, i am done with him today.
    dude, he is not into you like that. i think he just wants to be friends with you. stop stressing over this matter because he is clearly not into you
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    Aug 29, 2010 4:17 PM GMT
    Learn proper grammar first!
  • DCEric

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    Aug 29, 2010 4:20 PM GMT
    frenchatheart saidLearn proper grammar first!


    icon_evil.gif His first language isn't English. Tumi gude!
  • mybud

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    Aug 29, 2010 5:47 PM GMT
    I read what you wrote.....Dude..... He's not interested.....Man up and move on....BUD
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    Aug 29, 2010 7:13 PM GMT
    christian201 saidWell, the story start like this. I met this guy on Facebook, and at the end he is kinda cute, i text him, and he almost never answere it, and i know he have the time to do it. My fist date was to the movies, he was cool, ok, i know him since a month allready, and i had see him like 6 times only. He barely call me, and yesterday he waned to see me on a disco. Ok, he alwais go every week to the disco...i am like, i love the disco, but i dont go every week. Now, he got mad because i didnt went to the disco, ok, i live 50 min from his town, and from the disco, like 1:10 . I am like...i alwais have to go down there? why he dont call me and tel me, lets go umm...i dunno, somewere where we can have a good time. I dunno if i am like his boyfriend allready cuz i acepted to have a relationship with him. i am confused....i dunno what to do, i wont call him, i ill wait until he "apoloyaise" << Sorry, dont know how to tipe it xD >>
    and he dont ever care to text me, i am done with him today.

    You are so cute (and so is your English) that you dont need him.
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    Aug 29, 2010 7:18 PM GMT
    frenchatheart saidLearn proper grammar first!


    Give him break. Who caresicon_wink.gif
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    Aug 29, 2010 7:38 PM GMT
    Sorry dude, but its time you had an honest chat with him about how you feel and then move on if that is turns out to be.
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    Aug 29, 2010 7:54 PM GMT
    frenchatheart saidLearn proper grammar first!



    Why do people find the need to be pricks?
  • Joeyphx444

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    Aug 29, 2010 8:17 PM GMT
    I have asked guys straight up if they were interested or not and they get an attitude with me, like "Yeah I am, sorry I am jut busy or something" or they just say yah I'm not sorry. Why is it so hard for people to tell the truth?? You are all saying MAN UP AND MOVE ON!!! But I bet you guys wouldn't MAN UP and tell someone the truth because you are trying to be nice and not hurt their feelings. Well people's feelings get hurt and it sucks!!

    So what does it even mean to be interested? What does a guy have to do? I have never really experienced this. I guess I have always been the aggressor and I guess that means the other guy just sits back and lets me do all the work but that's not right isn't it?
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    Aug 30, 2010 11:31 PM GMT
    I had read everything guys, Well, my main language is spanish, i am traying my best on english...and i dont use a translator...it comes all from my mind, besides, i alwais talk in spanish. i dont live in USA...

    Well, today he never answere me today, i am so sad.....but i gues i will have to tell him that we can only be friends, well, i never told him ( do you want to be my boyfriend) ,

    At least someone answere me, i feel better now. i talked to my cuzin, and my couzin sister, they told me the same, i will let him to call me, i wont call him now. or send him a text message, i sound like desesperate, i know he is my first person i have a relationship, but...only for 4 days? wow....that sux, i cant count that as a BF.

    Now...how i tell him i dont want a relationship with him...in good words. I just want him to be my friend. thats all.
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    Aug 31, 2010 2:40 AM GMT
    If there was something between us, i finished it like 1 hour ago...i feel wierd, like...dam...i am alone...-.-

    he was my first guy i was together.
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    Aug 31, 2010 5:02 AM GMT
    dont feel weird, you did the right thing. there will be others and they'll be a lot better than him icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 31, 2010 1:13 PM GMT
    Wow thanks bro. I feel better now. by the way, your cute heheh. icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 31, 2010 1:20 PM GMT
    christian201 saidI had read everything guys, Well, my main language is spanish, i am traying my best on english...and i dont use a translator...it comes all from my mind, besides, i alwais talk in spanish. i dont live in USA...

    Don't worry about anyone making any negative comments about your English. Those guys who make comments I think usually speak only their own language. Those of us who speak several languages appreciate the difficulties because we have been in the shoes of those who have struggled with a different language.
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    Aug 31, 2010 3:16 PM GMT
    Oh, thanks icon_exclaim.gificon_smile.gif