Can Anyone Else Name Any Benefits Of Having A Small Dick?

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    Aug 29, 2010 3:31 PM GMT
    I have a smaller than average penis. Not microscopic but maybe about 3 inches soft and a little over 5 inches hard. I've only been with one guy smaller (just slightly) than me; that was great, I liked being the big guy for a change! lol

    I used to be really embaressed  about my size and sort of cringed inside anytime someone saw me naked for the first time.  Thankfully, none of the guys I've been with ever said or did anything to make me feel worse about my size.  Being in a long term relationship has also made it less of an issue for me.

    In coming to terms with being smaller than average, I've tried to think of some of the benefits of being smaller. Some examples

    If a guy is blowing me, it isn't a problem for him to take my full length. 


    If I'm topping a guy, I'm able to go balls deep without hurting him.

    I can wear the new slimmer cut dress pants without feeling uncomfortable or having a big bulge create too much of a distraction for a workplace appropriate look.

    I've  never had to worry about a condom not being able to fit.

    No one has ever been scared to have sex with me - at least not because of my dick size!

    Since support isn't such a big deal for a smaller guy, I can wear briefs or boxers depending on my mood that day.

    I don't have to worry about "shrinkage" after swimming in cold water.  It doesn't make much difference either way.

    Ok, I'm sure other guys can come up with other benefits of being smaller.  Let's post them - funny or serious.
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    Aug 29, 2010 7:28 PM GMT
    I can have erections in public and nobody knows! haha
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    Aug 29, 2010 7:38 PM GMT
    sashaman saidOk, I'm sure other guys can come up with other benefits of being smaller.  Let's post them - funny or serious.

    Serious -- guys like me like to blow smaller guys, because you're "bite-size" and I can use techniques on you I can't with the monster dicks. Plus I don't get a dislocated jaw, and so can suck you almost indefinitely without discomfort. (If I were single again, that is)

    Also, smaller guys are usually more grateful for appreciating them, more willing to please, acting less like they're doing me a favor by having sex with me.

    Similarly, I was always glad my more serious competition fought over the big dicks, because that left the ones I wanted for myself. And while I wouldn't say that made them easy, they certainly didn't put up much of a fight if I showed them some honest attention, because so many other guys turned them down.

    Plus just to endorse one you already mentioned: anal. I much prefer a smaller dick up my ass. I'll bottom, but I'm not a power bottom. You can take your giant dick and stick it up your own ass, for all I care, you aren't getting mine.

  • Aug 29, 2010 7:43 PM GMT
    5 inches is average, not small. 3 inches is small!

    I've never been a HUGE cock admirer. I like them, but get equally turned on by a guy's looks, arms, ass, thighs etc. Cock is just one part of it. You still cum in the same way and wank in the same way.
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    Aug 30, 2010 1:29 AM GMT

    You will make your lovers' hands seem bigger.
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    Aug 30, 2010 4:05 AM GMT
    You take the time to know how to use it, you don't have a bunch of fake ass guys after you just because your packin, no one assumes it's not real,,,and it can fit in my mouth. oh and there are some guys,,namly me, that think small cocks are sexxy as hell
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    Aug 30, 2010 4:59 AM GMT
    Im with you guys. Makes me feel better im not the only one.
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    Aug 30, 2010 3:26 PM GMT
    conscienti1984 saidI can have erections in public and nobody knows! haha


    Never thought of that one but you're right! Unless you're wearing baggy sweats or going cammando, you can have a woody without anyone else being the wiser!
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    Aug 30, 2010 3:27 PM GMT
    flieslikeabeagle said
    You will make your lovers' hands seem bigger.


    That's why I look for guys with small hands!icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 30, 2010 3:30 PM GMT
    @ art_deco and hotguyxxx, I thank the heavens for guys like you! It's nice to know there are guys that don't mind a man being a bit on the small side! Hugs to both of you!
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    Aug 30, 2010 3:33 PM GMT
    GigoloAssassin saidIm with you guys. Makes me feel better im not the only one.


    Nope, your not the only one buddy! I was hesitant to start this topic. Then I figured the worst that could happen is that it ruins my ability to post in the is the guy above you packing thread. Maybe it will help some smaller guys feel better about themselves!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 30, 2010 4:35 PM GMT
    sashaman said@ art_deco and hotguyxxx, I thank the heavens for guys like you! It's nice to know there are guys that don't mind a man being a bit on the small side! Hugs to both of you!

    Thanks, you're welcome! But let me clarify -- "don't mind" isn't correct. I PREFER a smaller dick. That is, I'll choose it over a really big one.

    Average to a little under is my ideal range. But neither do I want a midget he can't get up my ass.

    But I'll tell you where I do have a strong preference: hardness. I like a guy to get good 'n stiff, and I was surprised when I first started having gay sex how few guys could get really hard. Certainly not hard like I still do.

    I don't know the reason, maybe most guys normally only get to be what I consider semi-hard. I had never played with other guys' dicks before, only my own. I wondered if many of them were on medication (seemed like EVERYONE was taking anti-depressants when I came out), or due to smoking, another thing very common in our community. Or maybe I was picking guys who weren't as crazy about gay sex as I am, or just not crazy about me.

    But whatever a guy's size, I want him hard, not soft and pliable. Especially when he's in my hand or mouth, I wanna feel something solid there I can work with, not a mass of Jell-O. So that's my own prejudice about dicks.
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    Aug 30, 2010 4:37 PM GMT
    well, I'll chime in: yeah...there are some definite benefits to having a smaller sized one....for all the reasons that sashaman named....although i'm perfectly fine with having a smaller one....not much I can do about it really, just once...I'd like to be the one of the pair with the bigger weenie....just once....always wondered what that would be like ;P
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    Aug 30, 2010 5:43 PM GMT
    Unfortunately it's why your b/f is all over that dancer's jock-not being mean just the facts.

    I heard a female stand up comedian say dicks are like fish-"the little ones you throw back the big ones you mount" icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 30, 2010 10:33 PM GMT
    oaktownguy saidwell, I'll chime in: yeah...there are some definite benefits to having a smaller sized one....for all the reasons that sashaman named....although i'm perfectly fine with having a smaller one....not much I can do about it really, just once...I'd like to be the one of the pair with the bigger weenie....just once....always wondered what that would be like ;P


    I've only been with one guy smaller than me. Not only was it fun to get to be the big guy for once, but this guy had all sorts of tricks up his sleeve. He could do things with his tongue that none of the other guys could.

    So maybe one of the benefits is that smaller guys have better oral skills!
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    Aug 30, 2010 10:49 PM GMT
    MikemikeMike saidUnfortunately it's why your b/f is all over that dancer's jock-not being mean just the facts.

    I heard a female stand up comedian say dicks are like fish-"the little ones you throw back the big ones you mount" icon_lol.gif


    Good joke but I think you've got it wrong when it comes to my partner and me. We wouldn't be together for over ten years if size was that much of an issue. Besides, it is the two of us on vacation in the mountains this week, not him and the dancer.
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    Aug 30, 2010 11:35 PM GMT
    Your dick size is perfectly average. Like, top of the bell curve average.
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    Aug 31, 2010 5:23 AM GMT
    if a guy is only interested in your cock size then they r not worth it in the end. there r more inportant things like his heart soul the inside things that matter most. so dont worry about the size becuase there r more improtant things.icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 31, 2010 8:06 AM GMT
    the theory of small hands = small dick is not true, i am 5'6'' and have small hands but happily have a 7'' dick, my partner has a slightly larger hand but is shorter and only 5 '' .... my ex used to tell me i must have lined up twice when they were handing out dicks, hence he called me a pocketrocket icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 31, 2010 9:39 AM GMT
    Comparison is a root of unhappiness.

    If your root makes you happy, then why bother comparing?

    I've met guys with dicks big and small who might as well not have one they're such terrible lovers.

    I've met guys of all kinds of dick and body types who have been hot as shit and have pleasured me to, uh, well, "sauce".
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    Aug 31, 2010 10:26 AM GMT
    *chuckles

    If you ever need to feel big about yourselves, think of us who are transguys.
    I'm at about 2.5 inches, and for a transguy, that's pretty big. Course I'm happy I've got that now, as opposed to, previously, nothing.

    And as others have already posted, the guys I hook up with love being able to get all of me in as a big mouthful. (And it feels pretty damn good from my end, too!)

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    Aug 31, 2010 6:31 PM GMT
    sashaman said
    MikemikeMike saidUnfortunately it's why your b/f is all over that dancer's jock-not being mean just the facts.

    I heard a female stand up comedian say dicks are like fish-"the little ones you throw back the big ones you mount" icon_lol.gif


    Good joke but I think you've got it wrong when it comes to my partner and me. We wouldn't be together for over ten years if size was that much of an issue. Besides, it is the two of us on vacation in the mountains this week, not him and the dancer.


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    Dec 05, 2010 6:04 AM GMT
    Well, some guys are really turned on be the sensation of having your dick in the hole their balls dropped from (the inguinal canal).
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    Others find it uncomfortable, but either way it's impossible to do with an above average sized cock. Experiment and have fun! icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 05, 2010 3:22 PM GMT
    To the OP, I think you are an awesome guy for posting this as it definitely will help others and it's very admirable of you.

    Just my opinion.
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    Dec 05, 2010 3:36 PM GMT

    I've always liked average to small, for the reasons the OP mentioned and Art and hotguy's posts as well.

    Many years ago I had a one nighter w/one of Harry Belafonte's backup singers. We undressed, I saw his gigantic baseball bat and thought, "what the hell am I going to do with that without getting injured?"

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    -Doug