Well honestly Lucky, I think its like anything in life.. you have some people willing to take the initiative and others don't. Here, there are probably a variety of reasons why we have a limited forum presence. Look at the total number of guys registered on RealJock (over 100,000) and you know many of them came here to hook up or thought it was a hot site, then realized it wasn't something that trips their trigger.. and while the profile remains, they don't come in .. much.
Others who are online may want to remain almost invisible for a variety of factors. There are many who read, but don't post. Maybe a few see the squabbling and just want to pass on getting criticized.
Some just don't want to do it and aren't comfortable.
My view is, there are a large number of topics we talk about here and I find it (mostly) a positive thing.
The wide variety of topics creates possibilities for others who haven't posted (and their interests) to say something.
I'm glad we have the input from those who do post