what do you guys think

  • baldone

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    Aug 30, 2010 11:29 PM GMT
    ok so here is my question....i am a service manager for a buick dealership and this morning this guy comes in...incredibly well put together, incredibly handsome, same age as me, and divorced.....needed to go on road test with him as he has new buick regal and had couple issues....while he is driving, i am in passenger seat we are talking about car, life, he just relocated here from michigan and all the time while talking every so often would touch my leg, or shoulder, but still carrying on conversation....i asked if he would ever re marry and he said no and he asked same question and i said no....meanwhile the gaydar is pegging into the red.......invited me over to his apt for a beer tonight because we fixed the problems he was having with his car and he was so greatful
    my question is.....again the gaydar was pegged i am thinking he is gay
    and i seriously would like to pursue this, am going over to his place tommarow night after work
    perhaps all wrong and he is just a really really nice guy who perhaps just doesn't know many people around here
    opinions????
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    Aug 30, 2010 11:53 PM GMT


    Oh my! I would say if he invited you out for a drink at a neutral location bar/restaurant 50/50 odds. Inviting you to his crib....You know wassup!
    Jk. Go w/out anticipation of anything you'll be more relaxed and what happens happens. Full details in the aftermathicon_biggrin.gif Have a great time
  • baldone

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    Aug 31, 2010 12:05 AM GMT
    i have to add that he had christine agulara in his cd player, and on final road test with him after repairs done i was driving and just to see what would happen, i asked if he was happy with results of repairs and put my hand on his leg....tacky i know but wanted to see what would happen...he didn;t flinch...again..gaydar pegged
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    Aug 31, 2010 5:02 AM GMT
    Like mentioned, go without expectations. As time goes on, there are more stag hags out there fucking up gaydars daily. Nonetheless, I find it highly suspicious that he invited you over to his house for a beer just for fixing the car.

    Good luck (keep us posted)
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    Aug 31, 2010 5:20 AM GMT
    SInce you're going over anyway, the next move would have to be his. If he is gay an not merely grateful, then let him act on it if he's going to. You have already responded by accepting the invitation.

    If it is only gratitude (a virtue on the verge of extinction) then enjoy the beer, the conversation and possibly a new friendship.

    You only lose if you place specific expectations on a grateful gesture.
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    Aug 31, 2010 5:59 AM GMT
    I just checked out your profile and it says you are online... shouldn't you be busy sucking face with this guy? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 31, 2010 6:04 AM GMT
    As for the Christina Agulera cd, I wouldn't say that was an indicator. I caught one of my straight friends jamming out to Lady Gaga.

    As for touching your leg multiple times and inviting over random people from the car dealership for a beer, I'm pretty sure he wants your cock or ass. It's possible that he's only looking for friends, being as he just moved there and all, but come on... This guy wants it.
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    Aug 31, 2010 8:01 AM GMT
    my old instincts kicking in, just make sure you have a bit of a background on this guy first, like from other members of the service dept..just a thought and not to burst your bubble, cause i hope all the best...just do your homework first....keithicon_cool.gif