A guy being too good for you?

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    Aug 31, 2010 2:54 PM GMT
    I met some amazing guy over vacation hes smart, funny and is a model. He is extremely into me so much so that he's spending 250 dollars to come see me in a week and its only been 2 weeks after I left the vacationing spot. He is also from the dominican republic and will be going there right after he stays a few days with me.

    I don't know anyone who has been this into me in a while.My problem is that I feel that hes too good looking for me, I consider myself a good looking guy but this guy is gorgeous I have never dated someone that much better looking then me and I feel it'd make me insecure. How do you guys feel about that? What would you guys do?

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    Aug 31, 2010 3:09 PM GMT
    First, I think you're cute, and yet distinctive. Never argue about what another guy sees in you. Maybe it's your eyes, or maybe you subconsciously remind him of his father, or you are simply his "type." You don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

    If he tires of you, or you of him, you'll find out soon enough. That's what first dates are all about. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. (Gawd, I feel like Ponious in Hamlet) Unless you have lots of money, I wouldn't worry about him being a gold digger, either.

    I've been in your shoes. Not thinking myself ever the equal of hunky guys, I'd often say there were "out of my price range." Yet some would pursue me, and being stupid enough to question them, some would tell me they liked my personality, or my eyes, or my wit, or my distinctive looks, especially when I had a beard, like you.

    So go with the flow, my man, and don't doubt yourself. It's his call, not yours. And he'll like you better if you're comfortably confident & assured, but not arrogant & vain, either, so enjoy the experience. We all envy you.
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    Aug 31, 2010 3:12 PM GMT
    I would enjoy it and not worry about whether he is better looking than you or not! He obviously sees something in you and wants to spend time with you, so don't spoil it by worrying that he's better looking.
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    Aug 31, 2010 3:21 PM GMT
    I just spent $367.20 a few minutes ago for a plane ticket to go to a different country and see someone I met here in the forums.
    For some people, spending a few hundred bucks on travel to see someone is no big deal. Just go with the flow and have fun. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 31, 2010 3:48 PM GMT
    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. This guy's attraction to you isn't about how attractive you find yourself. But if you allow your insecurities to get the best of you, I'd guess it won't be long before he's looking for greener pastures.