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They can be so playful and fun.

They can make you see familiar things in new ways.

They can make you see past the limits you've gradually placed on yourself.

- The gay ones seem less neurotic and more comfortable with themselves and being gay then my generation was;

- They care more about society and world issues then mine did, we were too worried about finding a half decent job (mind you we had bad recessions in the 70's, early 80's and early 90's).

- They can climax and then are ready to go about 30 minutes later.

- Every thing seems new and exciting to them, little cynicism or bitterness (especially in those younger than 21).

- They are handy with computers and technology.

- They don't feel compelled to sleep around to make a political statement, unlike some gays in my generation who thought that being monogamous meant you wanted to be straight

- They are not obsessed with going to the gym and working out, taking steroids etc.. Fewer S&Ms in gay bars then in my generation (that is Stand & Model not the other one).

- Fewer TWAs (Twinkies With Attitude) in bars. You know the guys who act like Leona Helmsley in bars, with their noses stuck up in the air, when they don't have a pot to piss in!

Do we need to have a RealJock group hug?

They fancy older men like me!

MunchingZombie saidDo we need to have a RealJock group hug?

Haha, as long as it is before 11 PM and my bedtime, otherwise someone will have to prop this old gay fart up!

They have a fresh perspective.
They are interested in so many subjects.
They have a quest for knowledge.
They're prurient more often than many guys my own age.

Um... guys younger than me are illegal. No comment. LOL

Ummm....

That they're young?

Aww, this thread makes me feel all warm and good inside.

MunchingZombie saidDo we need to have a RealJock group hug?

Can I get in on that?

They ask the silliest questions

Ooops..........sorry.............the great thing, your looking for. Hmmmmmmmmm I'm thinking.

I love younger men.

AMT87 saidCan I get in on that?

There is more than enough love at RealJock to get in on that.

They like to have us older guys "PUSH THEIR BUTTONS" LOL !!! They are always ready for some new adventure !!! they like to experiment !!! They are constantly coming up with something to Liven up their surroundings !!! and they seem to like me !!!! LOL !!!

Well i'm 18 and i read this and I do not agree with everything.. ofcourse ;P

I'm not out yet, which is why i dont have any pictures on my profile. I'm really into muscles which lead me to this site, older people on this site, most of the time say im too young, i even had a 25 year old say to me that im too young?? Anyway I'm still a virgin and I am really curious about how it is...
I did do camming, and i still do which is exciting for me allready, but still curious.... Anyway Not every older (25-50) likes younger guys, which is is most cases too bad

MikePhil saidThey ask the silliest questions

Ooops..........sorry.............the great thing, your looking for. Hmmmmmmmmm I'm thinking.

Aw cmon mikey being silly is a good thing. We all need to be silly sometimes. Taking life so serious all the time makes us old on the inside even if we are technically 18 or 19.

jbedwards said
- They can climax and then are ready to go about 30 minutes later.

THIRTY minutes?! pshhh...what kind of young guys have you been dating? more like 3 - 5 minutes

jbedwards said
- They can climax and then are ready to go about 30 minutes later.

txguy1605 saidTHIRTY minutes?! pshhh...what kind of young guys have you been dating? more like 3 - 5 minutes

Sounds like me, haha! Does this make me a "younger" guy then?

Yep, 37 or 27 all cubs to me!

txguy1605 said[quote][cite]jbedwards said[/cite]
- They can climax and then are ready to go about 30 minutes later.

THIRTY minutes?! pshhh...what kind of young guys have you been dating? more like 3 - 5 minutes[/quote]

Haha, I have been monogamous for over 10 years, I am going from memories from the early 90's. Three to five minutes still seems a bit optimistic to me though, maybe I was just unlucky with the young guys I hooked up with.

wow its great to read something positive about life rather than moaning and bitching! such a great environment

[quote]
- They can climax and then are ready to go about 30 minutes later.[/quote]

Yup. Don't stay over if you need to rest, 'cuse it ain't happening, ha, ha! The guy I'm dating stayed over last week...poor him. Didn't let him sleep all night long. Just kept waking him up...and he had to be up at seven in the morning to go to work .

P.S. This thread is awesomeness!

i feel much better now

- They care more about society and world issues then mine did, we were too worried about finding a half decent job (mind you we had bad recessions in the 70's, early 80's and early 90's).

Depends ^^ I find most people in, at least my generation, rather apathetic... the environmentalists are the ones in the early 80's imo :3 or maybe I just befriend people who're equally apathetic to everything?

They get drunk quicker?

Kharlo109 said[quote]
- They can climax and then are ready to go about 30 minutes later.

Yup. Don't stay over if you need to rest, 'cuse it ain't happening, ha, ha! The guy I'm dating stayed over last week...poor him. Didn't let him sleep all night long. Just kept waking him up...and he had to be up at seven in the morning to go to work .

P.S. This thread is awesomeness![/quote]

Really? Humph.

Kharlo109 said[quote]
- They can climax and then are ready to go about 30 minutes later.

Yup. Don't stay over if you need to rest, 'cuse it ain't happening, ha, ha! The guy I'm dating stayed over last week...poor him. Didn't let him sleep all night long. Just kept waking him up...and he had to be up at seven in the morning to go to work .

P.S. This thread is awesomeness![/quote]

I have talked to one youn guy on the internet who says he once had 11 orgasms in 2 hours. I thought to myself "if you could bottle that you would a billionaire in about six months".

jbedwards said
I have talked to one youn guy on the internet who says he once had 11 orgasms in 2 hours. I thought to myself "if you could bottle that you would a billionaire in about six months".

Ha, ha! Well I don't know it has to do with age, but if I'm into a guy and he decides to stay over, he's just not gonna get much sleep. I can't help it. You get nightwood and it's like: "I have a hot guy I'm into right next to me! Why let it go to waste?"

I have a really high sex drive. I just happen to have enough self-control to where I can keep myself from just sleeping around randomly. But if I had a relationship and he was around often, I'd probably have sex at least three times a day (okay, so I've actually tested the theory, and that "probably" should be changed to "definitely," LOL).

Now if only I could do as you said and just bottle it...LOL...

Moudi saidi feel much better now

Awwwww.

Atlazeia saidAww, this thread makes me feel all warm and good inside.

Me too

Squarejaw saidThey can be so playful and fun.

They can make you see familiar things in new ways.

They can make you see past the limits you've gradually placed on yourself.

Only down side to pushing an older lover past their limits they have placed on him self is he may become somone else.

Still fun tho

I recently started dating a guy 15 years my senior... I enjoy it it beacuse I am needed...

Well needed to teach him how to use his iPod... DVR...his TV in general


Last week I taught him how to use the self check out at the grocery!

...they think they're straight.

epedx saidI recently started dating a guy 15 years my senior... I enjoy it because I am needed...

Well needed to teach him how to use his iPod... DVR...his TV in general


Last week I taught him how to use the self check out at the grocery!

oh my gosh! this sounds just like mine ...

my boyfriend is 14 years older than me ...

obviously, i teach my boyfriend how to use a digital camera ...

or download photos to a computer ...

etc ... etc ...

but i love teaching my boyfriend ... because it's a very romantic thing ever ...

its one way of showing how much i love my boyfriend ...

cheers !!!

ok, so i defntly like this post...except i dont want a younger guy haha....someone needs to post a "why I like older guys post"

The great thing about younger guys is... they get older!

It's like that line in Dazed in Confused.

dr_jackl said[quote][cite]Atlazeia said[/cite]Aww, this thread makes me feel all warm and good inside.

Me too [/quote]

Me three, i didnt know young guys were seen so positively. some older fellows i encountered seemed to want me to be like a doll to them, or was otherwise too young and dumb to know anything

... they still can avoid making the mistakes you have made, provided that you gently take their hand and lead them to walk on the "right" path.

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- They are not obsessed with going to the gym and working out, taking steroids etc.. Fewer S&Ms in gay bars then in my generation (that is Stand & Model not the other one).

[/quote]

Some of them are...

txguy1605 said

jbedwards said
- They can climax and then are ready to go about 30 minutes later.

THIRTY minutes?! pshhh...what kind of young guys have you been dating? more like 3 - 5 minutes

Yeah.. that's true..

Youngguy24 saidWell i'm 18 and .... Anyway Not every older (25-50) likes younger guys, which is is most cases too bad

On the rare occasions when I get hit on by an 18-year-old, I always turn them away. I'm happy to talk, interact, etc., but won't have sex just because I have no way of knowing that they really are 18 or older.

...they offer fresh perspectives, aren't afraid of showing vulnerability, are in general much more pragmatic than we were at those ages, and value human relationships in deeper and more surprising ways than they're given credit for.

so there are advantages to dating youngins then.

Yes. Especially when they realize they like having someone with a different perspective than most of their peer group around, and not to mention other things to show them they weren't expecting.. ;)

Squarejaw saidThey can be so playful and fun.

They can make you see familiar things in new ways.

They can make you see past the limits you've gradually placed on yourself.

Are you becoming a chicken hawk?

muchmorethanmuscle said

Squarejaw saidThey can be so playful and fun.

They can make you see familiar things in new ways.

They can make you see past the limits you've gradually placed on yourself.

Are you becoming a chicken hawk?

Buk buk?

FitExecutive said

Youngguy24 saidWell i'm 18 and .... Anyway Not every older (25-50) likes younger guys, which is is most cases too bad

On the rare occasions when I get hit on by an 18-year-old, I always turn them away. I'm happy to talk, interact, etc., but won't have sex just because I have no way of knowing that they really are 18 or older.

Ask them to bring their ID, obviously lol. As weird as that sounds...

P.s. I LOVE this forum. Ha ha.

Hi, haha

i'm 18, i definately like older guys but there's obviously a cutoff, i probably would never in my life date someone that was 15+ years, it's just too much...but i'm glad older guys like us youngin's

In general gays are "ageists"( They Only like younger looking guys) basically anyone that's not a younger ripped guy is commonly over looked its all about the body and superficial BUT The ones that like older guys or at least are open to the idea, are usually more psychologically mature with less issues. And lets face it they are eager to learn how to please you and explore all options lol its hot as hell to have a sexy eager younger guy looking to make you shoot!
Nothing makes my dick hard more than a hot kid looking up at me from his knees and saying yes sir!!! lol

SurrealLife said

MunchingZombie saidDo we need to have a RealJock group hug?

Haha, as long as it is before 11 PM and my bedtime, otherwise someone will have to prop this old gay fart up!

early to bed and early to rise, makes your boy go out with other guys.. ahhaha sorry had to put that in

When you are young you look you best! I know I looked my best when I was 19 model good looks and so on. Most young guys have model good looks when they are like 18-early 20 something. You are at or near your prime in Strength, Health, fitness, stamina, speed, and so on
. When you are young you also have smooth skin, soft to the touch and usually lean muscles underneath. I am 38 and I LOVE wrestling. I like private matches the best. I prefer my opponent to be as young as 18, maybe a little older. I always prefer to wrestle younger legal aged guys, esp if the are cocky and need an attitude change. I LOVE working quick submissions on a strong smooth skinned 18 or 19 yo teenager if he is a real punk all the better. I love wrestling younger stronger guys too, but love to dominate skinny good looking young guys too! The strongest wrestler I dominated was a 23 yo 235-240 lb bodybuilder wrestler. He was pure muscle. While I weighed at only 169 lbs, I out wrestled him and won 3 submissions on him in a 5 minute match! I get more satisfaction and sense of accomplishment wrestling and winning matches against stronger (Or even weaker) younger guys. Slightly older more experienced wrestlers are meant to dominate younger good looking ones, is that not the way of the world?

... that they are fun!

I have had the good luck of finding/dating some very mature guys who are 18-19, and just enjoy someone who has as much energy and enthusiasm as I do...

I like "their fresh perspective"

they like the attention of an older guy (me)

I don't like going out with guys around my age (I'm 1. They are so fuckin childish... I can't stand it usually.
I suppose what's better about younger guys is that they (sometimes) look better. But that's not the thing I need (what do I need though?)

Is the age of gay consent in the US 18 years old?