Interesting, in all these services some of the anti gay arguments were
a) you weren't sure they would back you up in a fire fight
b) you didn't want to take a shower with them because they might look at you
c) they probably wouldn't use their weapon/deadly force if required to do so
d) who would want to be in a fox hole with them.
Any others that you 've come across? When i was in the police force, there was never a doubt in anyones' mind that if i was on watch , the first guy to back up was me. When i was outed,many guys seem to have forgotten that. Other experiences in harm's way??