Your Idea of Masculinity...

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    Sep 06, 2010 12:05 AM GMT
    How would you describe masculinity and do you believe it's possible to change ones level of masculinity? Either more masculine or less...
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    Sep 06, 2010 1:19 AM GMT
    Everything I used to use to describe masculinity (strength, courage, boldness, deep voice with no listhp, etc) has been stolen by the butch lesbians, so I gave up. icon_razz.gif
  • alphatop

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    Sep 06, 2010 1:22 AM GMT
    My idea of masculinity? Remember late Chinese actor and kung fu master Bruce Lee? or Japanese writer and samurai Yukio Mishima? If u don't know them, google them. That is my definition, as they are super hot, fit, truly ripped, and not bulk or with huge muscles ( btw, I think that guys who have extremely huge muscles, they have a problem with something, and by building muscle they think that they can solve the problem ...only the problem or insecurity stays, and muscles are growing. Until they stop taking fucking anabolic or stereoid or whatever shit they r taking ). Have u ever seen a guy who is not working out anymore, and was on all that shit? That is sad and pathetic. Instead, only natural way of building muscles is normal, the way those two Asian guys did.
  • jarhead5536

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    Sep 06, 2010 1:49 AM GMT
    Masculinity is not something that can be forced or put on like an affectation. It is natural and innate, and attempting to display it when it really isn't there just looks and feels fake. Masculine men, gay or straight, are completely comfortable in their own skins, not threatened by sexual aggression directed at them, and have an easy, uncomplicated approach to life and relationships. They don't act like they have anything to prove because they don't...
  • alphatop

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    Sep 06, 2010 1:57 AM GMT
    jarhead5536 saidMasculinity is not something that can be forced or put on like an affectation. It is natural and innate, and attempting to display it when it really isn't there just looks and feels fake. Masculine men, gay or straight, are completely comfortable in their own skins, not threatened by sexual aggression directed at them, and have an easy, uncomplicated approach to life and relationships. They don't act like they have anything to prove because they don't...


    Totally right!
  • cityguy39

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    Sep 06, 2010 2:05 AM GMT
    Maculinity differs for each male. There are so many factors thay play into it, like race, socioeconomic status, environment etc.
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    Sep 06, 2010 2:08 AM GMT
    cityguy39 saidMaculinity differs for each male. There are so many factors thay play into it, like race, socioeconomic status, environment etc.


    ditto that's why I really couldn't put down what I thought.
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    Sep 06, 2010 2:12 AM GMT
    my idea of masculinity is being so confident that it doesnt matter what i thought of you at first glance, you /make/ me like you icon_biggrin.gif

    i dont think its possible. you can put on the appearance of being more masculine, and do quite well putting on a show, but wanting to change yourself in the first place makes you a fem in my books.
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    Sep 06, 2010 2:20 AM GMT
    jarhead5536 saidMasculinity is not something that can be forced or put on like an affectation. It is natural and innate, and attempting to display it when it really isn't there just looks and feels fake. Masculine men, gay or straight, are completely comfortable in their own skins, not threatened by sexual aggression directed at them, and have an easy, uncomplicated approach to life and relationships. They don't act like they have anything to prove because they don't...



    that's all for show . Scratch the surface off and you'll find the same
    complexity of emotions , confusion about one's own existence, anxiety,
    incoherence and plain silliness as any suburban wife's whining on her shrink's recamier.
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    Sep 06, 2010 2:21 AM GMT
    either you are masculine or you or not, period. Very simple.
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    Sep 06, 2010 2:29 AM GMT
    Why can't people just be happy with who they are? There is nothing wrong with being a little feminine as a guy or even being completely feminine as a guy.

    Only women care what others think about them.

    Only women obsess about their looks.

    That's what my father told me when I was younger
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    Sep 06, 2010 2:31 AM GMT
    nycusa05 saideither you are masculine or you or not, period. Very simple.
    It's more fluid than that, and based largely on culture.
    One of my boyfriends was a flamer who bitched about breaking nails, yet swore he was just as manly as anyone else. I didn't hold it against him, but I sure thought it was highlarious. icon_lol.gif
  • MuscleComeBac...

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    Sep 06, 2010 2:38 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidThis......

    http://www.realjock.com/brianmid


    Yup. That'll do.
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    Sep 06, 2010 2:40 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidThis......

    http://www.realjock.com/brianmid
    Too manly. He might break fragile little old me.
  • BeingThePhoen...

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    Sep 06, 2010 2:42 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TheGuyNextDoor saidThis......

    http://www.realjock.com/brianmid
    Too manly. He might break fragile little old me.

    Then scoot the fu@k over and make room for me!
    *Primps*
  • 2PecanDeBeurr...

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    Sep 06, 2010 2:54 AM GMT
    i believe masculinity is a man loving and encompassing his created sculpture of maleness.
    from an infant, life's adventures and experience place each in several levels dependent on the previous one.
    childhood, teenager, young adult, adult, 20's, 30's 40's 50's 60's until this earthly adventure is no longer needed.
    adjusting/adapting to one's present environment emotionally,physically, mentally, and spiritually.
    ability to review previous levels for development of one's fulfillment as a male.
    j.c
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    Sep 06, 2010 3:01 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said... and THIS...O_O !

    http://www.realjock.com/Neomuscle


    all night long!

    MONTH!!! icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 06, 2010 3:08 AM GMT
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    Sep 06, 2010 3:08 AM GMT
    ^^ this ^^ is how you become more masculine icon_biggrin.gif
  • mybud

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    Sep 06, 2010 3:35 AM GMT
    Innate maleness....done.......BUD
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    Sep 06, 2010 3:35 AM GMT
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    Win! icon_lol.gifborat.gif
  • stee99

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    Sep 06, 2010 3:39 AM GMT
    masculinity isnt a look or a chest size,
    its something that comes from within..
    is the essence of manlyness, personified.
    as a result its entirely subjective and relative.
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    Sep 06, 2010 3:41 AM GMT
    id fucker cause she looks masculine

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    same goes for this btch

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    Sep 06, 2010 3:43 AM GMT
    charlitos saidid fucker cause she looks masculine
    You just like the size of her gun. icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 06, 2010 3:44 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    charlitos saidid fucker cause she looks masculine
    You just like the size of her gun. icon_razz.gif


    got me icon_redface.gif