How does your partner or you initiate sex?,

  • PBLH

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    Sep 07, 2010 1:23 AM GMT
    Hey guys, just curious as to how you and your partner initiate sex...is it more romantic or do you guys just bluntly say lets have sex.

    Just curious as to whats common.
  • CMScarBro

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    Sep 07, 2010 1:27 AM GMT
    Sometimes we do it in subtle, romantic ways, but usually one of us just says, "Baby, I'm in a mood. You want to do something?" icon_redface.gif
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    Sep 07, 2010 1:31 AM GMT
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  • Kage

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    Sep 07, 2010 7:19 AM GMT
    I am the initiator...icon_cool.gif


    My favourite....
    After a hot shower...dripping wet, walking down the stairs to where he is sitting and handing him the towel to dry me.
    Wearing only a t-shirt, sitting behind him on the couch, massaging his back.




  • rnch

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    Sep 07, 2010 1:54 PM GMT
    usually either he or I will lean in close to the other and say "why don't we get outta here, go home and fuck". icon_cool.gif
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    Sep 07, 2010 11:00 PM GMT
    NOW. okay no, but that would be kinda hot. always kinda random
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    Sep 08, 2010 12:38 AM GMT
    Great question, actually. For years my partner figured that since I was the older one in the relationship... I should be the one to initiate. (Normally he's brighter than that.) Then we talked about it but patterns are patterns. We're also different in that he prefers verbal communication where as I prefer spontaneous body language.
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Sep 13, 2010 8:09 AM GMT
    starts with kissing then slowly take off eachothers clothes and then let the foreplay begin.
  • commoncoll

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    Sep 15, 2010 11:08 PM GMT
    Good topic. I'm curious about this as well.

    Usually we're already in bed when it happens. Hands just start lingering and lips start traveling. Then it happens.
    Otherwise, it might be right after we wake up. Everything's still slow and dreamy and warm in the mornings. Naturally, we just gravitate towards the warmth.
    One of us leans into the other and hands on me tell me all I need to know.
  • Socalnewbie

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    Nov 08, 2010 10:10 PM GMT
    I finally have a bf that matches my sexdrive. He usually initiates...sometimes its as simple as a look he gives me. Most often, he wakes me up and attempts to get me on top of him...I'm still half-asleep, so I resist and he ends up hopping on top of me. Lol. Eventually I'm wide awake and can take over. I love aggressive bottoms :-)