How do you date?

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    Sep 07, 2010 2:44 PM GMT

    I have a few part question that is spawned by but not driven by my single status:

    how do you date?

    1. Besides the Internet and bars, what are some other and perhaps interesting ways you have met guys/girls for dating?

    2. Are you a serial dater? (multiple people pre-commitment) or do you start each dating series focused on one person?

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    Sep 07, 2010 3:00 PM GMT
    For me it was always one at a time. Id meet someone date them and only them seeing where it goes. I normally took some time away from dating after a breakup. I didn't date for a year after the first bf and I broke up. I use to have a friend that dated allot. All of his first dates were coffee dates. He figured he could meet anyone for coffee. If the coffee date went well he proceeded with a longer date next time. He once went on 32 coffee dates in one month.
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    Sep 07, 2010 3:19 PM GMT
    1. Internet and bars are the two most common places to find gay dates...found a couple here and there out in public or at work, but that's extremely time consuming and requires the whole closet DL shit which I hate.

    2. Serial dating is nothing but justification for being a slut. Every person I know who does serial dating ends up having sex with more guys per period of time than I did when I was clubbing and hooking up regularly.
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    Sep 07, 2010 3:33 PM GMT
    Iv know a few people that labeled themselves as serial monogamist. A person who has many sexual partners in his or her lifetime, but only ever one at a time. Constantly always having to have a bf