bottoming .... can't get any further?

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    Sep 09, 2010 12:55 AM GMT
    Hello everyone. it's been awhile since I've done bottoming. But let's just say I had an intimate time with another guy recently. All was well as we're both vers, but as soon as he tried to penetrate me, it was difficult. His head was able to go in, but that was it. My rectum seems to always stop the penis from going in and it always slips out. I tried relaxing, but to no vail, it doesn't seem to be going in deeper. There is pain inside, like its stretching the skin off the cliff whenever we tried to go further past the anal opening. Does anyone have any advice for this.

    We use a thick viscous silicone lube, so it should help a little.

    Thank you all
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    Sep 09, 2010 2:50 AM GMT
    Douche out for about 30 minutes. That should loosen you up and also make sure you are clean. Standing, then try using the Wet water based lube and both you and him work your fingers into your ass while you're pulling on your own pud. Once you've got that going, you'll know when you want more. You'll be digging for it. Then, while still standing just back your ass onto the head of his dick and just play with your meat and groove. Take your time. Have fun. Only go as fast as is comfortable for you. Having mirrors around will help the mood as you watch your man grin as you get off on his knob. If you get more of his dick in before you cum, great. If not, still great. The more you do this, the more of his dick you will end up taking because you're going to want it and you'll be more trusting.

    Because that's usually what it is...a trust issue.

    P.S. Forget drugs, poppers, alcohol, etc. That's for wimps. Take it like a man! icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 09, 2010 3:47 AM GMT
    ^ Favorite post on RJ icon_biggrin.gif (Especially the PS)

    And yes, pretty much exactly what he said.
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    Sep 09, 2010 8:33 AM GMT
    Has it always been like that? Could be that your rectum is shaped a certain way and it's not 'compatible' for want of a better word with the shape/angle of his erection. I wouldn't try to force it, but could you maybe warm up with a dildo before he attempts penetration?
  • jgymnast733

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    Oct 05, 2010 11:19 PM GMT
    Pictures pleaseicon_exclaim.gif
    Other than that, maybe your buddy should finger you slowly with one, then two fingers and so on... before you know it you've got the fist in there , then two fists and a foot.....icon_redface.gif
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    Oct 06, 2010 2:27 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    P.S. Forget drugs, poppers, alcohol, etc. That's for wimps. Take it like a man! icon_twisted.gif


    Amen, sir!
  • my8kitso

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    Oct 07, 2010 11:33 AM GMT
    I made a video that I put on xtube for a friend who asked me for help.
    "Ass Play 101 - How to take a dick up your ass AND enjoy it."
    A friend asked me to make a "How to" video on enjoying anal sex. First I explain about "WHY" you would even want to try and put something in your ass! Some etiquette rules about anal sex with guys. Talking about the joys of anal sex and why you may want to try it and how great it can feel if done right, or how it can hurt like a bitch if you don't know what you're doing! Next I talk about hygiene, how to clean and prepare your ass. Then, Lesson 1 on how to start feeling and opening your ass by using your fingers. Next I talk about toys and toy maintenance. Then the actual insertion of a beaded dildo, then a vibrator, then I CUM! I guess I was so horny from the assplay I wasn't even hard and I shot a big load! Last I talk about good positions for fucking.
    http://www.xtube.com/play_re.php?v=DqtMu-G540-&c=myv&page=1
    Good luck!
    Pete
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    Oct 07, 2010 11:37 AM GMT
    NickFit saidHas it always been like that? Could be that your rectum is shaped a certain way and it's not 'compatible' for want of a better word with the shape/angle of his erection.


    hahaha... Really? Come on....
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    Oct 07, 2010 12:14 PM GMT
    my8kitso said
    "Ass Play 101 - How to take a dick up your ass AND enjoy it."


    Something like this should be required viewing for all gays!

    Though, I'm not sure about your pronounciation of 'anus'!