How do I tell?

  • RogerW19

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    Feb 26, 2008 8:28 PM GMT
    I have had an account with realjock for about six months hoping one of my friends would find it. That way they can ask me if i'm gay. But no one invades my privacy(I have good friends lol). So I have decided I need to let them all know that i'm gay. Especially the girl that is like in love with me and I have accidentally been leading on. So how do i do it? What did you do or would you have done? Any suggestions will be much apprieciated. Please and thank you!
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    Feb 26, 2008 8:28 PM GMT
    Try this: "Babe, I'm gay."
  • GQjock

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    Feb 26, 2008 10:17 PM GMT
    It'll also help if you had a picture
    and what would your str8 friends be doing looking at a gay men's site for?
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    Feb 26, 2008 11:01 PM GMT
    wear this t-shirt

    http://www.foulmouthshirts.com/gay-t-shirts/Queer-As-Fuck-T-shirt-GAY-T-SHIRTS.htm

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    Feb 26, 2008 11:08 PM GMT
    Sit her down and tell that you two have something in common on a sexual nature. LOL.

    As for hoping your male friend would notice you on here? Do he even have a profile on here? You've been on here for like 6 months so if he was on here and you made things easy to figure then I doubt it would be hard unless he's just not interested.

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    Feb 27, 2008 1:26 PM GMT
    Coming out is not easy for everyone. Its great that you have already made up your mind about coming out to your friends. However posting your profile over here and hoping for chance to 'out' you is not going to work. You'll have to out yourself. I think nobody over here knows your friend better than you. You'll intuitively figure out the appropriate, time, place, etc. to come out to your friends.

    Be careful about the girl. Don't lead her, unwittingly or otherwise.
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    Feb 27, 2008 1:34 PM GMT
    Are you sure you're ready now?

    Then good for you! icon_biggrin.gif Try reading a few of the coming out threads on here.

    The girl... at least she's not your girlfriend, which is cool. Sadly, we gay guys seem to attract girls a lot. icon_sad.gif I don't suggest coming out to her if you're not ready, but you do have to try your best to let her know you're not interested so she can move on.

    Anyway. Don't take my advice seriously as of yet, LOL. Since I'm still waiting for my coming out date myself. icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 27, 2008 3:38 PM GMT
    Real Jock doesn't sound gay at all, does it? icon_cool.gif