I like the way you think.
I'm gay because I find men sexually arousing; other than that one slight difference, I am like any other human being. But being that we are human, some will take any difference and play it up to extreme levels.
Talking and spending time with a guy, in a non-sexual way, is one of the simplest joys of being gay; talking with an attractive man and laughing and having fun is like nothing else.
Yes it is, I experienced it for myself just the other night on my way to a planned date! the planned date went well but the unexpected one turned out to be ten times better. I was on the train for just about an hour with this guy who approached me earlier as I was waiting for the next train to NYC! we had a nice and friendly conversation on the train, and yes he was very attractive!!
The planned date was a little over two hours but he was very cold, and I felt as if he was judging my every gestures, words, and at the end of the night I just didn't feel any sparks even thou he didn't do anything wrong. Gosh as we talk he didn't even have eye contact with me! the other guy and I while on the train did, and he was very sweet, strangely enough we both felt a non-sexual connection, but promising nonetheless!!