SURVEY: Sex and Relationship

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    Feb 26, 2008 11:11 PM GMT
    Is it true (in general) that as relationship lasts longer the lesser they have sex together?

    I'm an advocate of long and stable same sex relationships and i personally observe that as my relationship with my partner lasts longer, we only make love say once or twice a week, any thoughts?....
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    Feb 27, 2008 1:34 AM GMT
    oh completely agreed!

    sex becomes less important, where else, spending time doing things together, enjoying each others time and so forth becomes more important.

    although I gotta admit, I do miss the bunny rabbit stage!
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    Feb 27, 2008 1:57 AM GMT
    Yes, generally speaking, but in my relationship the sex has gotten more passionate as the emotions have deepened.

    Also as you get older your testosterone levels decrease, so you are less sexually driven anyways.

    Finally, there is something known as "The Coolidge Effect" which basically states that in most male mammals, if you want to keep them constantly interested in sex you need to keep changing the sexual partners. That is one reason why some men have such a hard time with monogamy. One way to combat it is to watch porn icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 27, 2008 7:20 PM GMT
    I think too as your relationship matures you are not in such a rush to have sex every minute. You can take your time and get to it after you work in your garden, take the car in for service, go out for a good meal etc. Foreplay starts in the morning when you prepare breakfast for your partner or when you leave him a sweet little note in his lunch bag. icon_wink.gif
  • GQjock

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    Feb 28, 2008 11:23 AM GMT
    it is true that you don't have sex as often
    but when you're in a committed relationship you know what each guy enjoys and it becomes more passionate and sexy