Guys say they are picky when it comes to forming a relationship. What does that mean?

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    Sep 11, 2010 3:04 AM GMT
    If you say you're picky when it comes to men, especially in forming a relationship, what are you picky about?


    Is saying I'm picky a psychological cover to fend off having to confront not being able to find someone to form a relationship with?
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    Sep 11, 2010 3:26 AM GMT
    I feel that I'm extremely picky at this point in my life.

    I.E. I refuse to date anyone that wears American Eagle, Abercrombie, Hollister, etc....C'mon I know it's Indiana but get a clue.

    I also kind of have developed a standard of things that bring passion. I'm extremely passionate about my music and my career; I expect the same out of a lover. I don't care what you are passionate about but just be passionate about something. There's too many people out there just going through the motions in life. I won't put up with it.

    From what I've came from I feel that I have every reason to never settle for less. If that means I'm single then I'm single. I'll connect with someone again someday.
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    Sep 11, 2010 3:37 AM GMT
    I'd guess that it means the idea of "not settling for less" has been blown way out of proportion.
  • jgymnast733

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    Sep 11, 2010 5:08 AM GMT
    Well, when i say i'm being picky its because i know what i dont want...
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    Sep 11, 2010 5:15 AM GMT
    I will fuck just about anyone.

    But date? That requires a significant amount of time.
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    Sep 11, 2010 5:39 AM GMT
    Caslon15000 saidIf you say you're picky when it comes to men, especially in forming a relationship, what are you picky about?


    Is saying I'm picky a psychological cover to fend off having to confront not being able to find someone to form a relationship with?



    yes

    it's also a way out of any other structured commitments of any kind. take note of hauptstimme's comments about clothing labels. that is ridiculous. it is an easy way out of not committing to someone who may like him, and it also serves as an excuse to not be bothered if someone he's interested in doesn't return the affirmation.
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    Sep 11, 2010 5:54 AM GMT
    It's like a salad bar:
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    Some of us can be very picky:
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    Sep 11, 2010 5:59 AM GMT
    dancerjack said
    Caslon15000 saidIf you say you're picky when it comes to men, especially in forming a relationship, what are you picky about?


    Is saying I'm picky a psychological cover to fend off having to confront not being able to find someone to form a relationship with?



    yes

    it's also a way out of any other structured commitments of any kind. take note of hauptstimme's comments about clothing labels. that is ridiculous. it is an easy way out of not committing to someone who may like him, and it also serves as an excuse to not be bothered if someone he's interested in doesn't return the affirmation.


    Sorry, I'll clarify that. It's very, very "cookie cutter" seeing someone wear the exact same thing as someone else. Boring. That's really what I mean. Basically I need a man that has a mind of his own.

    Maybe this comes from just moving back to the midwest and everything is so overly corporate america. I can never justify pouring money into such horrible companies.
  • nv7_

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    Sep 11, 2010 6:34 AM GMT
    If you want an exact copy of yourself, it's better you stay single, because you are the only person who will please you.
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    Sep 11, 2010 6:45 AM GMT
    cold said
    nv7_ saidIf you want an exact copy of yourself, it's better you stay single, because you are the only person who will please you.


    ... mutual masturbation with a mirror? My mirror only shows me a disembodied asshole who tells me I'm not pretty.
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    Oh, tell my stepmother I said "hey". icon_cool.gif