falling for straight guys

  • Hunter9

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    Sep 12, 2010 8:37 AM GMT
    i wish i could just not fall for these guys... but some of them are just so cute and so friendly and so awesome... how can you not?
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    Sep 12, 2010 8:40 AM GMT
    Easy..... They are straight... You are not.... Grass aint green over there cause you ain't going to graze
  • jgymnast733

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    Sep 12, 2010 8:51 AM GMT
    I know its hard resisting them, even if you happen to TURN ONE OUT and get him in bed WATCH OUT.. In my case, it was a co-worker whom i just had to have and once he got good n drunk at a party he asked to come home with me...I thought--Oh thankfully my hinting worked....and let me tell you,,this was a fine mother fucka.
    BUT,
    I couldnt get rid of him afterwards, i mean the guy was everywhere and even showed up at my spot,[ i told him where i hung out] not thinking for a minute he'd show up but he did........He also wouldnt stop calling to begg for more., i was turned off because he was very small and didnt know how to fuck AT ALL... SO, be careful what you wish for........icon_exclaim.gif
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    Sep 12, 2010 8:52 AM GMT
    Hunter9 saidi wish i could just not fall for these guys... but some of them are just so cute and so friendly and so awesome... how can you not?


    Well hey aren't you in luck, I'm secretly straight, but I'm on the DL. Gotta keep it hush, hush. icon_cool.gif
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    Sep 12, 2010 8:54 AM GMT
    I don't understand the whole straight guy obsession? Is it because they are impossible to get or is it some secret desire to be like them??
    Yes, sometimes I find straight guys hot but that's not because they're straight... it's because they're hot icon_rolleyes.gif Why would I complicate my life with a straight man? Like there aren't enough gay guys...
  • Hunter9

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    Sep 12, 2010 8:54 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidEasy..... They are straight... You are not.... Grass aint green over there cause you ain't going to graze


    i think you misunderstood... im not interested because he is straight, im interested because he is amazing... im sorry if i cannot resist that
  • Hunter9

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    Sep 12, 2010 9:01 AM GMT
    fulldelight saidI don't understand the whole straight guy obsession? Is it because they are impossible to get or is it some secret desire to be like them??
    Yes, sometimes I find straight guys hot but that's not because they're straight... it's because they're hot icon_rolleyes.gif Why would I complicate my life with a straight man? Like there aren't enough gay guys...


    please read above post... jeez guys, so quick to jump to conclusions
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    Sep 12, 2010 12:15 PM GMT
    Well heteros are not completely off the market, there's this guy I know who was 100% straight and was a play boy at collage, he told me that the thought of doing it with a man has never even crossed his mind until he turned 29 and fell in love with a male coworker and got into a 2 years monogamous relation with him
    Now he's a pure mans man
    I have a straightie friend who turned 100% gay after he had sex with a guy when he was 23.
  • alphatop

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    Sep 12, 2010 12:58 PM GMT
    Dude, go for it, I hear ya...It doesn't matter if he is str8, bi or gay, what matters is that each person is sexual on the scale of 100% hetero to a 100% homo. Now, some men like us, they are more gay, but it's only a matter of percentage...For me, at least I like to think so, it's 70 % gay and 30 % str8...So, u can call me bisexual if u like, or just SEXUAL or PANSEXUAL (google that term if u r not familiar with it). Of course, that scale can be different in each part of your life...Let's say that u r 90 % gay and 10% str8...or 10% gay and 90 % str8...or ....u got the point? Same goes for that gay that u like, or any other person for that matter, it is only a matter of percentage in a certain phase in life...
    I also like str8 man more than gay. I know this will sound weird, but TRUST me, I scored in a str8 world more than once...with married guy, or guy with a gf, or those who never had anything with a guy, but would like to, or bi-courious guys...My experience tells me that EVERY person, regardless of sex, can be your lover / partner / fuck buddy / even bf / or just a good friend if u r smart enough to wait for his first move...If he goes for it, that is what u wanted and what HE wanted, cause he made the first move. If not, whatev, u can always stay friendsicon_biggrin.gif
    These days, I met fabulous 19 year old guy, who is Gypsy ( for me, extremely hot, I like that middle eastern look, the way Gypsy are ), who claim that he is str8, only he fucks man for money (gay for pay type)...I didn't pay a dime, and we had sex recently...and not only that, we became very close with each other ( he lives 5 minutes away from my home ) and we started to go out 2gether, to hang out and stuff. Male bonding plus friendship plus sex, that sounds like a fucking relationship to me...Not to mention some other str8 hotties from my past that I am still connected with via Facebook or Internet...And the best part is you will always be their FIRST and therefore most of them will have a special bond and feelings for you...and they will never, ever go around the city and talk about your sex...it's a private thing for them, and for me as well.
    So, u go figure what to do, but for me seducing a str8 guy is challenge and I am good at it. To seduce a gay guy is way too easy ( for me, at least ) and I like to fight for my man...I don't even go to a gay bars anymore, cause they are boring and predictable to me...My fav. playground is so called str8 or gay friendly clubs....
    PS. Check out my profile pic, that is one hot and str8 German guy with me...He wasn't very str8 that night in that club...
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    Sep 12, 2010 3:28 PM GMT
    Hunter9 saidi wish i could just not fall for these guys... but some of them are just so cute and so friendly and so awesome... how can you not?


    I'm with you Hunter9. Happens to me all day long. I happen to race, train, and hang out with a number of really amazing straight guys. They're all married or coupled, sexy, fit, and great men. I don't fawn over them but I do meet a lot more of them than I meet of gay men I'm as attracted to.

    C'est la vie.

  • Hunter9

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    Sep 12, 2010 3:42 PM GMT
    oldboy - im happy that you've had success with straight guys but i just have this feeling that it would end as a shit ton of work with little to nothing to show for it. ultimately im looking for a bf, so even if i somehow got the guy to sleep with me, the pleasure would be fleeting, at best.

    very cool, though, that you bagged yourself a gypsy. i used to go to a gay club in Budapest that was known for having a heavy Roma presence. they weren't all gay (just there for cheap drinks/entertainment, i believe) but they sure were hot!
  • mybud

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    Sep 12, 2010 5:41 PM GMT
    If your a guy who enjoys....disappointment...your feelings hurt go for it....Falling for str8 leads nowhere....Trust me I have had my run ins with a str8 drunk guy.....fucking like apes....the next day...he say's....I was so drunk I can't remember what I did last night.....Fuck that....BUD
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    Sep 12, 2010 6:49 PM GMT
    Hunter9 saidi wish i could just not fall for these guys... but some of them are just so cute and so friendly and so awesome... how can you not?


    It's the story of my life! I agree with you completely. They are cute, friendly, and just fucking awesome. There isn't a day in my life that I don't see a guy who I happen to like but happens to be straight!
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    Sep 12, 2010 7:13 PM GMT
    Hot is hot...whatever the sexual orientation.
    I, however, only respond sexually to guys who know and embrace their sexual orientation with other men.
    I also only respond sexually to men who are single and emotionally available.

    I can always look at and enjoy what's "on the menu". icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 12, 2010 7:28 PM GMT
    Hunter9 saidi wish i could just not fall for these guys... but some of them are just so cute and so friendly and so awesome... how can you not?


    I know what you mean. Been there done that~ In the end you'll end up getting hurt, or lose w.e relationship you have with this guy.
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    Sep 12, 2010 7:50 PM GMT
    I know how you feel, man, I really do, however, I have one piece of advice for you to save you a lot of longing, anguish, and heartbreak:

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    Sep 12, 2010 8:04 PM GMT
    Straight guys can be had, I've had a few, all it takes a one or two sentences. Straight guys are attractive because they don't have any attitude toward other guys, they don't see gay men as sexual objects. I've been with a few straight guys by simply saying... It doesn't make you gay to get your dick sucked! But only because there were no other gay guys around. So working with what you have can work. But don't expect anything outside of sex.
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    Sep 12, 2010 8:48 PM GMT
    Clones

    "They operate on the principle that to find their great dark man, they must first look like him, since clones are exclusively attracted to other clones it is impossible to rope one in without first becoming one, but which of these clones are the original, the archetype and how many of these are pretenders, clone admirers in disguise?

    Quentin Crisp From "An Englishman in New York"
  • Hunter9

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    Sep 13, 2010 2:43 AM GMT
    niet10 said Clones

    "They operate on the principle that to find their great dark man, they must first look like him, since clones are exclusively attracted to other clones it is impossible to rope one in without first becoming one, but which of these clones are the original, the archetype and how many of these are pretenders, clone admirers in disguise?

    Quentin Crisp From "An Englishman in New York"


    can you please provide some context and explain how this fits into my plight?
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    Sep 13, 2010 2:55 AM GMT
    I hate that, when you think there all cute and they act all nice towards you.
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    Sep 14, 2010 1:36 PM GMT
    LOL I was 100% straight till one night I met a guy in a club who had the audacity to push me up againast a wall and kiss me... he became my first boyfriend...

    Maybe i was in denial, gay people just didn't exist in my world at all, maybe it was the time, maybe the place i grew up in, all i know is he took me to a place i remain to this day... he opened my eyes and whilst we're not still together and he lives in London now, he's one of my best mates...

    Unless they are aggressively homophobic, I say put it out there, love is a risk, you have to give 100% to get 100% back...
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    Sep 14, 2010 3:23 PM GMT

    Falling for a guy that is straight, gay or otherwise is permitted.

    I'll wait to see what you did with them in the next chapter of your book but just remember I probably don't have more then 20 or 30 years to wait to to read it. icon_eek.gif
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    Sep 14, 2010 10:17 PM GMT
    Pffft. You know how many "straight" guys I have met that are curious.


    Gonna let you in on a little secret...
    Some of them aren't your friend because they want to be your genuine friend. icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 14, 2010 10:39 PM GMT
    DON'T!!!!
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    Sep 14, 2010 11:27 PM GMT
    ShinyToyTrev saidPffft. You know how many "straight" guys I have met that are curious.


    Gonna let you in on a little secret...
    Some of them aren't your friend because they want to be your genuine friend. icon_razz.gif


    Ive had a tryst with a straight friend, were still good friends, jsut curiosity on his part

    But I wouldnt say he should "fall" for them, because most of the time, they are only curious for fun