NEW TO THE USA AND I NEED HELP

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    Sep 13, 2010 2:09 AM GMT
    MY NAME IS IHAB AND IAM AN IRAQI MALE 22 YEARS OLD I USED TO BE A MEDICAL STUDENT I CAME TO USA BEFORE 2 WEEKS AND I WAS VERY HAPPY ABOUT IT BECAUSE IAM GAY AND IN MY COUNTRY I WAS HAVIN A HRAD TIME BEING WHAT IAM AND I WAS AFRIAD FROM SAYING IT CAUSE THERE ARE SO EXTERMIST PEOPLE BUT NOW I FEEL SECURE AFTER LONG TRAVEL AND FINALLY I CAN BE WHAT IAM AND NOT TO PRETEND BUT IAM HAVING HARD TIME FINDING FRIENDS AND IAM VERY LONLY IAM LOOKING FOR REAL AND ROMANCE WITH A MAN THAT GONNA BE MY SOUL MATE BUT I DONT THINK I WILL EVER FIND SOMEONE AH I WISH I CAN JUST HUGE SOMEBODY ,, WHY IAM HAVING SUCH HARD TIME TO FIND A GAY FRIEND IN MY CITY TUCSON/ARIZONA IS IT BECAUSE IAM AN IRAQI BOY OR FROM MIDDLE EAST OR MUSLIM OR MAYBE NOT WHITE OR MAYBE I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY OR HOW I CAN JUST START .....I NEED HELP
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    Sep 13, 2010 2:15 AM GMT
    Last night at the club, there was a really hot bartender wearing a shirt that read "I'm A Proud Israeli." Nobody seemed to care, except for the fact that they flirted with him more because of it.

    But that's just Miami. There are lots of people from different cultures here.

    As for Arizona, that state has developed a bad reputation for hating people from other countries.
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    Sep 13, 2010 2:21 AM GMT
    REALLY WELL I THINK NOBODY WILL LIKE TO TALK TO ME THEN BECAUSE IAM FROM IRAQ AH IAM GETTING MORE DESPERATE
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    Sep 13, 2010 2:47 AM GMT
    Ihab saidREALLY WELL I THINK NOBODY WILL LIKE TO TALK TO ME THEN BECAUSE IAM FROM IRAQ AH IAM GETTING MORE DESPERATE

    Now, don't even start thinking like that! There are lots of American guys on this site who can't find boyfriends. Finding a boyfriend is hard. There will be people who won't like you cuz you are Iraqi, Muslim, etc. But there are people who don't like others for every reason. You just have to ignore them and just pay attention to the ones who want to be friendly. Tucson is a beautiful place. You should be able to have a wonderful time there doing many things. But don't let yourself just cry, Oh woe is me! That will get you nothing and win you no friends.

    Oh, by the way, "I am" is two words. ... icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 2:56 AM GMT
    thanks for the info , iam i mean i am heheh sorry about that , my english is not good its my second language , anyway thank you for caring and do u know any gay male in tucson???, and yes it is very hard to find gay friend ah i wish i just can huge somebody who is gay and feel what i feel i will try to be optimistic in the future ,,
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:05 AM GMT
    Ihab saidthanks for the info , iam i mean i am heheh sorry about that , my english is not good its my second language , anyway thank you for caring and do u know any gay male in tucson???, and yes it is very hard to find gay friend ah i wish i just can huge somebody who is gay and feel what i feel i will try to be optimistic in the future ,,

    Search on here for members who live in Tucson. Email them here and see if they want to be friends or can tell you how to meet other gays in the area.

    Also, Middle Eastern men are often considered very handsome by Americans. Your black hair and golden skin is very attractive and masculine. ... icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:08 AM GMT
    really handsome ???ah i dont find my self handsome or the middle eastern guys i find the american guys very very cute anyway thank you for the info i will try contact them i mean the guys in tucson and see what will happen
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:22 AM GMT
    Ihab saidMY NAME IS IHAB AND IAM AN IRAQI MALE 22 YEARS OLD I USED TO BE A MEDICAL STUDENT I CAME TO USA BEFORE 2 WEEKS AND I WAS VERY HAPPY ABOUT IT BECAUSE IAM GAY AND IN MY COUNTRY I WAS HAVIN A HRAD TIME BEING WHAT IAM AND I WAS AFRIAD FROM SAYING IT CAUSE THERE ARE SO EXTERMIST PEOPLE BUT NOW I FEEL SECURE AFTER LONG TRAVEL AND FINALLY I CAN BE WHAT IAM AND NOT TO PRETEND BUT IAM HAVING HARD TIME FINDING FRIENDS AND IAM VERY LONLY IAM LOOKING FOR REAL AND ROMANCE WITH A MAN THAT GONNA BE MY SOUL MATE BUT I DONT THINK I WILL EVER FIND SOMEONE AH I WISH I CAN JUST HUGE SOMEBODY ,, WHY IAM HAVING SUCH HARD TIME TO FIND A GAY FRIEND IN MY CITY TUCSON/ARIZONA IS IT BECAUSE IAM AN IRAQI BOY OR FROM MIDDLE EAST OR MUSLIM OR MAYBE NOT WHITE OR MAYBE I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY OR HOW I CAN JUST START .....I NEED HELP


    Some advice:

    1. No all caps
    2. Learn to make paragraphs instead of run on sentences.
    3. Make sure you have your GREEN CARD or legal working permit, otherwise Arizona asshole police will raid you and try to export you back to your shithole Iraq country where you'll likely get tortured for being gay
    4. No one like's you anyway in Arizona because it's full of pretentious racist white pricks and Mexicans who don't speak Engrish.
    5. Come to LA. Plenty of Middle Eastern people here, plenty of gays, and plenty of diversity. (Also plenty of idiots but who cares).
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:35 AM GMT
    omg, no body gonna like me in arizona ,,ah thanks man for the tips , ah why u r so ..........ah never mind thank you anyway for replying, and i will try to remember it
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:38 AM GMT
    ah and by the way i already have my I-94 which is a legal document with working permit i came here by the help of UNHCR and IOM ,i am not illegal immigrant ,, ah and i am not a scum , i am a well educated person,(medical student ), and polite and never had a problem with police not here and not in my country and please dont say shitthole again please, it is my country after all,,and thank you
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:47 AM GMT
    Ihab saidah and by the way i already have my I-94 which is a legal document with working permit i came here by the help of UNHCR and IOM ,i am not illegal immigrant ,, ah and i am not a scum , i am a well educated person,(medical student ), and polite and never had a problem with police not here and not in my country and please dont say shitthole again please, it is my country after all,,and thank you

    Please, pay no attention to Jake. He us only pleasant when he is full of alcohol. Isn't that sad?

    When he is not full of alcohol, he speaks very nastily.
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:47 AM GMT
    yes it is
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:55 AM GMT
    go west, Ihab. icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:58 AM GMT
    Do you belong to a gym in Tucson, Ihad? There is a nice new LA Fitness there (near Broadway and Wilmot) And a much older Gold's Gym (on Speedway, between Craycroft and Wilmot)
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:00 AM GMT
    how the hell you knew that i am interested in a gym?????????, i am already a member of Randolph gym and yes i hope that i can get membership in Golds gym , thank you , and why i should go west ????
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:00 AM GMT
    BuckYou saidgo west, Ihab. icon_smile.gif

    Ah, you must not be familiar with Tucson, Arizona. There isn't much farther west he can go before he is back east! Hahaha icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:04 AM GMT
    Welcome lhab icon_smile.gif Im not in the US, but I know how impossible it is back in Iraq, I wish you the best out here in the West icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:04 AM GMT
    Ihab saidhow the hell you knew that i am interested in a gym?????????, i am already a member of Randolph gym and yes i hope that i can get membership in Golds gym , thank you , and why i should go west ????

    The Golds Gym on Soeedway is old! The men's locker room is old and ugly! The workout room had lots of equipment, but the ceiling is painted BLACK!!!! ... icon_eek.gif ... Very shocking when you first walk in. But after a couple of weeks you can get used to it.
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:05 AM GMT
    Welcome lhab icon_smile.gif Im not in the US, but I know how impossible it is back in Iraq, I wish you the best out here in the West icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:08 AM GMT
    Ihab saidand why i should go west ????


    Life is peaceful there,
    In the open air,
    Where the skies are blue,
    This is what we will do.
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:09 AM GMT
    well for starters lets stop screaming and use not all capitol words. And I will be back with more after I get through the yelling.
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:10 AM GMT
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    BuckYou saidgo west, Ihab. icon_smile.gif

    Ah, you must not be familiar with Tucson, Arizona. There isn't much farther west he can go before he is back east! Hahaha icon_wink.gif


    i was referring to California

    as the song says: "Go west young man, your future is untold. You can find your dreams on the California coast!" icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:12 AM GMT
    okay, Lots of guys will find you hot you just need an iphone and to download grinder and you're all set icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:14 AM GMT
    Caslon thank you for those info and , amar thank you for ur welcoming note , i really hope that i can find my other half here in USA,,
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:16 AM GMT
    dude i am from a third world country and i have been here for just 14 days , its true i am a medical student and educated but am sorry i dont know what is the iphone and grindr can u help me with that ???