How do you guys meet other men?

  • brycetippe

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    Sep 13, 2010 2:22 AM GMT
    I mean do you meet them over the internet, through friends, at clubs, etc?
    I'm wondering because I need tips. icon_evil.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 2:26 AM GMT
    iam lost as same as u are ah read my topic named ( new to the usa and i need help ) hehhe i think we share some problems
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    Sep 13, 2010 2:29 AM GMT
    I met the guy I am dating on Grindr! ... icon_eek.gif

    Neither one of us was looking for a hookup. He saw it as speed dating! ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    Anyway, I got lucky!!!!! ... He's a great guy. Very smart! Just finishing writing a book and has just had a book dedicated to him. He knows the most incredible people. And he used to be married into the Sinatra family!!! (I didn't know you could leave The Family. Haha) We've made spaghetti sauce with tomatoes and herbs from my garden using a recipe taught to him by one of the Sinatra women. It was excellent!

    Anyway, the point is Grindr doesn't have to be slutty if you don't want it to be. Not evetyone on there is opposed to a relationship. ... icon_wink.gif
  • brycetippe

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    Sep 13, 2010 2:43 AM GMT
    Caslon15000 saidI met the guy I am dating on Grindr! ... icon_eek.gif

    Neither one of us was looking for a hookup. He saw it as speed dating! ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    Anyway, I got lucky!!!!! ... He's a great guy. Very smart! Just finishing writing a book and has just had a book dedicated to him. He knows the most incredible people. And he used to be married into the Sinatra family!!! (I didn't know you could leave The Family. Haha) We've made spaghetti sauce with tomatoes and herbs from my garden using a recipe taught to him by one of the Sinatra women. It was excellent!

    Anyway, the point is Grindr doesn't have to be slutty if you don't want it to be. Not evetyone on there is opposed to a relationship. ... icon_wink.gif

    Don't you have to have an iphone to be on grindr?
    I don't have an iphone. D:
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:24 AM GMT
    brycetippe saidI mean do you meet them over the internet, through friends, at clubs, etc?
    I'm wondering because I need tips. icon_evil.gif


    You should wear a wifebeater husbandbeater and strut down a crowded market saying, "EYO WHO WANTS DIS HOT PEEZ OF GAY!?!"
  • Delivis

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    Sep 13, 2010 3:26 AM GMT
    on here
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:28 AM GMT
    brycetippe said
    Caslon15000 saidI met the guy I am dating on Grindr! ... icon_eek.gif

    Neither one of us was looking for a hookup. He saw it as speed dating! ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    Anyway, I got lucky!!!!! ... He's a great guy. Very smart! Just finishing writing a book and has just had a book dedicated to him. He knows the most incredible people. And he used to be married into the Sinatra family!!! (I didn't know you could leave The Family. Haha) We've made spaghetti sauce with tomatoes and herbs from my garden using a recipe taught to him by one of the Sinatra women. It was excellent!

    Anyway, the point is Grindr doesn't have to be slutty if you don't want it to be. Not evetyone on there is opposed to a relationship. ... icon_wink.gif

    Don't you have to have an iphone to be on grindr?
    I don't have an iphone. D:

    You don't have an iPhone??? ... icon_eek.gif ... Then what the hell am I talking to you for!!! ... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:28 AM GMT
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  • Vaughn

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    Sep 13, 2010 3:31 AM GMT
    Online rarely works out for some reason for me. Too many closet cases. Going out works better if you're 21. Sometimes when you let guys see you check them out they turn out to be homos.
  • brycetippe

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    Sep 13, 2010 3:34 AM GMT
    JAKEBENSON said
    brycetippe saidI mean do you meet them over the internet, through friends, at clubs, etc?
    I'm wondering because I need tips. icon_evil.gif


    You should wear a wifebeater husbandbeater and strut down a crowded market saying, "EYO WHO WANTS DIS HOT PEEZ OF GAY!?!"

    ROFLLLLL.
    OMG.
    I love you.
    That was hilarious.
  • brycetippe

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    Sep 13, 2010 3:35 AM GMT
    Vaughn saidOnline rarely works out for some reason for me. Too many closet cases. Going out works better if you're 21. Sometimes when you let guys see you check them out they turn out to be homos.

    Well, I'm in Canada so the legal age here is 19. icon_biggrin.gif
    And I turn 19 in like 2 months. icon_biggrin.gif
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Sep 13, 2010 3:38 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo saidbear-trap1.jpg



    its true its how he got me icon_cool.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:53 AM GMT
    Through friends, coworkers, friends of friends...
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:57 AM GMT
    Vaughn saidOnline rarely works out for some reason for me. Too many closet cases. Going out works better if you're 21. Sometimes when you let guys see you check them out they turn out to be homos.


    I'm finding that to be the case too. It works well for guys I'm not into finding me but I haven't had much luck getting any guys I'm into. My personality and beauty just doesn't translate over the internets as well. icon_lol.gif
  • danielek

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    Sep 13, 2010 4:01 AM GMT
    I wish I had some suggestions. A lot of the people on Grindr are looking for hookups, which is annoying, but there's actually some decent people on there. You just need an iPhone or BlackBerry or iPod Touch.
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:03 AM GMT
    I met my boyfriend in line for the bathroom at a bar 9 years ago.

    I think it's a bit about being ready and just letting yourself be available.
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:11 AM GMT
    Space_Cowboy_89 said
    Ciarsolo saidbear-trap1.jpg



    its true its how he got me icon_cool.gif


    Who needs the thrill of the chase when you can have your man trapped and writhing on the ground icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:18 AM GMT
    brycetippe said
    Vaughn saidOnline rarely works out for some reason for me. Too many closet cases. Going out works better if you're 21. Sometimes when you let guys see you check them out they turn out to be homos.

    Well, I'm in Canada so the legal age here is 19. icon_biggrin.gif
    And I turn 19 in like 2 months. icon_biggrin.gif



    Ill see you in two months icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 4:40 AM GMT
    JAKEBENSON said
    brycetippe saidI mean do you meet them over the internet, through friends, at clubs, etc?
    I'm wondering because I need tips. icon_evil.gif


    You should wear a wifebeater husbandbeater and strut down a crowded market saying, "EYO WHO WANTS DIS HOT PEEZ OF GAY!?!"


    icon_lol.gif


    dammit you made me laugh again, you bastard icon_cool.gif
  • brycetippe

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    Sep 13, 2010 5:36 AM GMT
    Agamemnon said
    brycetippe said
    Vaughn saidOnline rarely works out for some reason for me. Too many closet cases. Going out works better if you're 21. Sometimes when you let guys see you check them out they turn out to be homos.

    Well, I'm in Canada so the legal age here is 19. icon_biggrin.gif
    And I turn 19 in like 2 months. icon_biggrin.gif



    Ill see you in two months icon_twisted.gif

    Deal. icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 13, 2010 5:43 AM GMT
    brycetippe said
    Agamemnon said
    brycetippe said
    Vaughn saidOnline rarely works out for some reason for me. Too many closet cases. Going out works better if you're 21. Sometimes when you let guys see you check them out they turn out to be homos.

    Well, I'm in Canada so the legal age here is 19. icon_biggrin.gif
    And I turn 19 in like 2 months. icon_biggrin.gif



    Ill see you in two months icon_twisted.gif

    Deal. icon_twisted.gif



    **checks for flights to canada, hmmmm many deals for sure, but cant beat your deal icon_twisted.gif
  • brycetippe

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    Sep 13, 2010 3:29 PM GMT
    Agamemnon said
    brycetippe said
    Agamemnon said
    brycetippe said
    Vaughn saidOnline rarely works out for some reason for me. Too many closet cases. Going out works better if you're 21. Sometimes when you let guys see you check them out they turn out to be homos.

    Well, I'm in Canada so the legal age here is 19. icon_biggrin.gif
    And I turn 19 in like 2 months. icon_biggrin.gif



    Ill see you in two months icon_twisted.gif

    Deal. icon_twisted.gif



    **checks for flights to canada, hmmmm many deals for sure, but cant beat your deal icon_twisted.gif

    See you then bb. ;)
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    Sep 13, 2010 3:34 PM GMT
    brycetippe saidI mean do you meet them over the internet, through friends, at clubs, etc?
    I'm wondering because I need tips. icon_evil.gif


    you respond to their emails inviting you down the road two hours to the beach,,,,,,duhicon_wink.gif keith
  • DanOmatic

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    Sep 13, 2010 4:01 PM GMT
    I used to meet guys at the gym, or out at social events. Anymore, however, I have to admit that I meet guys mainly online. It's not ideal, since you have to weed through all the flakes and BS'ers, but I've met some really decent guys, too. Sometimes it has led to dating, and in a couple of notable cases, to deep friendships.

    On the downside, as congenial as most of my experiences have been, none of the guys I've met online have turned out to be boyfriend material. I keep thinking that I'll run into someone with BF potential at the gym, while getting my morning coffee or even at the supermarket. Never happens, though. It seems that fewer and fewer guys actually want to meet outside of the parameters of the online world.
  • KepaArg

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    Sep 13, 2010 4:06 PM GMT
    i have met guys online, gym, subway, school, clubs, while shopping, and most recently at a birthday bash.