Keep him or move on!!

  • just4metoo

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    Sep 14, 2010 7:51 PM GMT
    Ok I really don't have anyone to talk about this so what the hell here we go!
    I have been with my partner 4 years. We both came into the relationship that it was just us two nothing open.
    We started at the beginning with a bumpy ride he was still keeping in contact with old hookups he says they were just friends icon_wink.gif ,I put a end to that.
    Time passes now presently he messed around with some one that he just met. Says it did not mean anything and it just happen. Well his emails say diffrently. yea I read them,! He was planing to meet up with this dude again.
    Of course now he says that was never going to happen.
    As I write this it really sounds bad, anyway he wants to stay together say he will never do it again that he really loves me and does not want to give us up.

    Do I just put up with it because I feel must gay partnerships always have this or do I move on with my life without him?
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    Sep 16, 2010 12:56 PM GMT
    If he's emails say that he was planning to meet up again and he said to you that he wasn't going to, I'd move on. He might need a break in the relationship because it seems he's looking for something he's not getting in the current relationship and maybe you both might reconnect again.

    But how would you feel if you stay with him and he did it again?