MR. LONELY

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    Sep 15, 2010 12:39 AM GMT
    once,far away and long ago was a tale, my daddy told me.He said there's a land of fantasy,there's a prince who'll fight for me,till the end.This isn't how i thought it was suppose to be,you were the one who i imagine next to me.But sometimes love fell in the hands of the wreckless,this is no fairytale,and im no prince,

    does anyone else feel lonelyicon_cry.gif
  • tazzari

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    Sep 15, 2010 1:00 AM GMT
    I often feel lonely: family and partner all passed away.

    Hang in there. In the end, everyone is alone, even when you're with someone. Once you realize that, you're stronger. But finding that someone sure helps!

    Hope you find someone!
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    Sep 15, 2010 1:55 AM GMT
    Learn to enjoy your own company.

    If you happen to end up partnered in life, great.

    But if you don't, and you don't learn to love life with yourself, you'll end up missing the greatest love of all.

    Keep seeking, Tony.
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    Sep 16, 2010 6:15 AM GMT
    I just got out of my marriage and realized I gay. Cum check out my pic on my facebook site and leave some comments. Bya
    http://www.facebook.com/people/Dennis-Futrell/100000480644363
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    Sep 16, 2010 6:20 AM GMT
    There are moments when I feel lonely and think damn how nice would it be to be in a relationship. Then I remember I'm too focused on my goals to have any time for a relationship. Anyone I end up with currently would just end up leaving me for not giving them enough attention. icon_sad.gif

    Point is yeah, it can be nice, but like everyone else said if you can enjoy your own company then it isn't really that bad. (wouldn't really know since I've never been in a relationship:rollicon_smile.gif
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    Sep 16, 2010 6:41 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidLearn to enjoy your own company.

    If you happen to end up partnered in life, great.

    But if you don't, and you don't learn to love life with yourself, you'll end up missing the greatest love of all.

    Keep seeking, Tony.

    I agree with Tony but even if with a partner, you need to reconnect with yourself. I cannot stress that enough.

    Remember, you came into the world alone and will leave the world alone but you are never alone. You always had yourself.

    Now go give your long-lost self a good ol' hug and a long heart-to-heart talk.
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    Sep 16, 2010 6:43 AM GMT
    Sometimes solitude is a much to be desired state, it is in these spaces that we find ourselves.
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    Sep 16, 2010 6:57 AM GMT
    Nope I did for a while, and I still sometimes do when people talk about their partners.. but I realise for me sofar its only been headaches, and really Im never alone, I have tons of family and friends, and they need attention.. so why feel lonely? The only thing Im missing is sex really icon_cool.gif and I hear thats not all its cracked up to be most of the time ;) Dont know if its true lol icon_redface.gif
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    Sep 16, 2010 10:49 AM GMT
    Sometimes I feel lonely; sometimes I don't. It just depends on my mood.
    But, being myself and feeling alone are two completely separate things.
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    Sep 17, 2010 9:00 PM GMT
    yeah man, i think everyone feels lonely sometime or another if they were honest... regardless of partner, friends or family... its just natural to have down days, periods where you question whether you really get the people around you and them you

    its human nature to crave companionship and to relate to other people and we all have times when we doubt our place in the world ....
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    Sep 17, 2010 9:31 PM GMT
    Somebody told me that we all come into the world alone and we all leave it alone. I like to be alone some times, but don't like to be lonely.
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    Sep 17, 2010 9:58 PM GMT
    I'll admit I haven't quite figured it out (yet).

    Yes, I'm lonely, but when I'm with other people I always catch myself thinking how I'd rather be alone by myself. Some people are just loners. I'm one of them.

    If you really don't wanna be alone, keep searching and thou shall find. Or at least that's what they say.
  • Brded1dr

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    Sep 17, 2010 10:34 PM GMT
    When you wallow in loneliness, it only gets worse. Turn your energy outward. Do something selfless for others. Seek out ways to help those less fortunate than yourself. Your loneliness will shrink as you become more aware of the hurt around you rather than the hurt within.
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    Sep 17, 2010 10:43 PM GMT
    niet10 saidSometimes solitude is a much to be desired state, it is in these spaces that we find ourselves.


    Agreed. I found out more about myself in the months, spent losing my mind as a hermit, than I ever did in the company of friends and family. Don't recommend it to everybody. It took a lot out of me to get my Best to come to the surface. Now I only want to be around people, put what I got to use and help somebody, anybody.
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    Sep 18, 2010 3:36 AM GMT
    I'm often alone, but really never feel lonely. I highly enjoy the company of myself and frequently take myself on dates and such.

    Maybe I'll connect with someone again someday; Maybe I won't. I'm kind of a bitch to be around.
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    Sep 18, 2010 3:40 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidLearn to enjoy your own company.

    If you happen to end up partnered in life, great.

    But if you don't, and you don't learn to love life with yourself, you'll end up missing the greatest love of all.

    Keep seeking, Tony.


    Best advice.
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    Sep 18, 2010 3:47 AM GMT
    thanks guys its just that i have so much stressed in my life right now,my dad hates me cause im gay,i fucked with my friends family,college and where and what to do,living on my own,paying bills,my job,so much stress and it gets to you.Sometimes i do feel lonely because i hardly have friends good friends i mean,anyways thanks
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    Sep 18, 2010 3:52 AM GMT
    costaki said
    GAMRican saidLearn to enjoy your own company.

    If you happen to end up partnered in life, great.

    But if you don't, and you don't learn to love life with yourself, you'll end up missing the greatest love of all.

    Keep seeking, Tony.


    Best advice.


    What they said.

    Hang in there. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 18, 2010 3:53 AM GMT
    He loves you but he doesn't understand you. He wants the best for you. Trust me i am going through the same thing with my dad. I don't see him much maybe 4 times a year which is very many at times maybe 2 times a year. Cheer up! You are young, alive, healthy and handsome. Fairy tales do exist, you have to make them. See it as right now you are in the tower waiting for him to come get you.
  • bryjeepguy

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    Sep 18, 2010 3:54 AM GMT
    good luck man, I am lonely most days of my life but somewhat by design I tried to be very social and was disappointed in the results in that a lot of people are self absorbed assholes, so I cut that back to genuine good people which left me with a lot of free lonely time in my life which is sad but somewhat by design. But each day the sun rises and the sun sets, and life goes on.
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Sep 18, 2010 4:03 AM GMT
    I love being alone with no one around, I used to really hate myself and the alone time lets me get to know myself and lets me make up for all the years that I spent having people that were poison and bad to be around just so that I didn't have to be alone for more than a few moments at a time.
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    Sep 18, 2010 4:05 AM GMT
    thanks yeah i guess we all feel lonely at times,pero es bien duro cuando uno esta solo y sin nadien con quien platicar,enveses llamo a mi mamma pero mi conesta mi papa y le cuelgo.