paulflexes saidThere's only one way to find out.
And, people will stay closeted until a few people have to balls to un-closet themselves.
In 2002 my late partner & I were planning to move to Fargo, North Dakota (don't ask why, long story). I was already living nearby, my partner still down in Houston, when a lesbian couple sued the Fargo Y Family Center to allow them to have a family membership, which represented a savings for 2 or more people.
So the Y held a public meeting, that the local media attended, with TV news cameras taping. I signed up to speak, and when I came to the podium I identified myself as a retired US Army Colonel, Military Police Corps, who had used YMCAs around the country for many years (actually since I was a child). And I saw some of the audience, those whom I took to be gay & lesbian, cringe at what they thought was coming. Most didn't know me at that point.
First I complemented the YMCA Board for having this meeting, all the members seated at the long table facing the audience. Then I proceeded to make my case for support
of opening family memberships to "non-traditional families" as the proposal was worded.
When I finished I got a standing ovation from about two-thirds of the audience, the gays & lesbians who were there. I think I kinda surprised them, this Army Colonel on their side. It was later broadcast that night on the local TV.
The proposal did pass, BTW, a remarkable gay rights achievement for a Y in Fargo, of all places. I don't know if it remains in place today, with all this right-wing, conservative and Teabagger activism. I'm sure they've tried to reverse it, most US Republicans hating gays.