"HE JUST GRABBED MY ASS!"

• JESIE
  
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  Sep 15, 2010 9:59 PM GMT

  In ANY NORMAL CASE, if some complete stranger grabbed your ass, what would you do?
  
  Does the reaction change if the
  
  1) the person doing it is Attractive ?
  
  2) the person doing it is NON-Attractive (to your preference)
  
  3) the person is younger (over 18 of course)
  
  4) Older?
  
  5) Your type?
  
  6) Would you find it a form of Flattery?
  
  I asked my co-workers (straight)
  
  The women said its offensive no matter what (single or in a relationship)
  The men, however, had different reactions:
  
  One said if they were single they wouldn't mind
  the other said even if they were single they have no right (if a woman grabbed their ass)

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• commoncoll
  
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  Sep 15, 2010 10:58 PM GMT

  Slap their hand. Children need to be taught how to be adults and how to keep their hands to their own selves.
  It's only happened to me in a party-where I just give them a look.

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  Sep 15, 2010 11:06 PM GMT

  I usually have the same reaction, "What the..." and just smile.

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  Sep 16, 2010 10:40 AM GMT

  When a stranger grabs my ass, it's an instant turn-off for me.
  But I totally welcomed the dancer dude the other night who walked over, asked me to flex, and started groping my biceps.

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  Sep 16, 2010 12:40 PM GMT

  i wish i could say that just once.....sigh

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  Sep 16, 2010 1:14 PM GMT

  I think I look too scary for this to happen. Or I just don´t go to the right places
  
  
  

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  Sep 16, 2010 1:24 PM GMT

  Does this happen after College years? This happen to me in College and it was a great ice breaker no matter what the girl looked like (no guy ever did this to me). I have a better now than I did in college.
  
  I've never been to a gay bar so I don't know what happens in these settings.

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• turtleneckjoc...
  
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  Sep 16, 2010 1:30 PM GMT

  jim_e saidi wish i could say that just once.....sigh

  
  
  You and me both......Hey, how about if you grab mine, I'll grab yours?

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  Sep 16, 2010 2:35 PM GMT

  Thank heavens I turned around to quickly walk away after this guys rude "sweaty fuck" comment or he would have gotten a hand full of my junk instead. We've all seen the sign in the grocery store - PLEASE DON'T SQUEEZE THE FRUIT

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  Sep 16, 2010 2:37 PM GMT

  Lostboy saidI think I look too scary for this to happen. Or I just don´t go to the right places
  
  
  

  
  
  You don't look scary to me.

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• d_1M
  
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  Sep 16, 2010 2:40 PM GMT

  it all depends
  
  to many more factors for this to be offensive or a form of flirting but women does not like this because they not as slaty as us guys.
  
  i dont like my ass to be grabbed for more then 3 seconds i mean an instant.
  
  i did it once to a guy in a club and he turn around and gave me a huge smile so i rubbed it for the longest time and didnt even got his name lol
  
  proves that some guys really like that.

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  Sep 16, 2010 2:54 PM GMT

  Depends on who did it. If it was my boyfriend I would enjoy it. Anyone else, be offended by it.

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• rnch
  
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  Sep 16, 2010 4:08 PM GMT

  D_ONEMEX saidit all depends
  
  to many more factors for this to be offensive or a form of flirting but women does not like this because they not as slaty as us guys.
  
  i dont like my ass to be grabbed for more then 3 seconds i mean an instant.
  
  i did it once to a guy in a club and he turn around and gave me a huge smile so i rubbed it for the longest time and didnt even got his name lol
  
  proves that some guys really like that.

  
  
  woiks feaux meh!

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  Sep 16, 2010 4:20 PM GMT

  Well i would be shocked too, but i will end up smiling too...lol..but again the smiling part depends on the guy.
  
  
  

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• mybud
  
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  Sep 16, 2010 5:07 PM GMT

  I think it would depend on if I was attracted to him....if he was a troll I'd be pissed....if he was hot I'd let it slide....Truthfully I think 90% of gay guys would feel this way....BUD

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• rnch
  
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  Sep 16, 2010 5:19 PM GMT

  the few times this has happened to be/been done by me; i find that a gentle, slow caress, starting at the top of the cheeks in the "tramp stamp" area and a low pressure, slight squeeze at the "lift and separate region" at the bottom of the natural glute curve give the best results.

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  Sep 16, 2010 5:20 PM GMT

  kscott6671 saidDepends on who did it. If it was my boyfriend I would enjoy it. Anyone else, be offended by it.

  
  
  Even if it were someone as unscary as me?

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  Sep 16, 2010 5:25 PM GMT

  it has happened to me at a gay club. I took it as a compliment and now, about one year later, we are good friends

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  Sep 16, 2010 5:35 PM GMT

  P.S. Usually it's not guys who do it to me, so I can just smile. lol.

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  Sep 16, 2010 6:05 PM GMT

  mybud saidI think it would depend on if I was attracted to him....if he was a troll I'd be pissed....if he was hot I'd let it slide....Truthfully I think 90% of gay guys would feel this way....BUD

  
  
  Yeah, I'd feel the same way. Even if its somewhat shallow.

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  Sep 16, 2010 6:16 PM GMT

  I don't like being touched inappropriately and that is pretty inappropriate. Just that simple. I wouldn't care if the person was exactly my type, attractive or not. It's just rude. I'm not a prude but if I'm approached in that way I can't take person seriously and I won't be giving out any such courtesy or respect since clearly I wasn't shown it. People are always welcomed to look. Just don't touch.

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  Sep 16, 2010 6:23 PM GMT

  that happened to me last sunday afternoon when I was out, I liked it, but was pretty drunk at the time. He looked kinda like the guys you see getting blown apart in a quentin tarantino vampire flick

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  Sep 16, 2010 6:24 PM GMT

  Lostboy saidI think I look too scary for this to happen. Or I just don´t go to the right places
  
  
  

  
  
  
  you're not scary, quite the opposite infact

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  Sep 17, 2010 3:08 AM GMT

  it doesn't matter if he is hot or not...it's still sleezy, but i'll smile inside to know that i still got it

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  Sep 17, 2010 6:58 AM GMT

  turtleneckjock said

  jim_e saidi wish i could say that just once.....sigh

  
  
  You and me both......Hey, how about if you grab mine, I'll grab yours?

  
  
  done

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