"HE JUST GRABBED MY ASS!"

  • JESIE

    Posts: 1616

    Sep 15, 2010 9:59 PM GMT
    In ANY NORMAL CASE, if some complete stranger grabbed your ass, what would you do?

    Does the reaction change if the

    1) the person doing it is Attractive ?

    2) the person doing it is NON-Attractive (to your preference)

    3) the person is younger (over 18 of course)

    4) Older?

    5) Your type?

    6) Would you find it a form of Flattery?

    I asked my co-workers (straight)

    The women said its offensive no matter what (single or in a relationship)
    The men, however, had different reactions:

    One said if they were single they wouldn't mind
    the other said even if they were single they have no right (if a woman grabbed their ass)
  • commoncoll

    Posts: 1222

    Sep 15, 2010 10:58 PM GMT
    Slap their hand. Children need to be taught how to be adults and how to keep their hands to their own selves.
    It's only happened to me in a party-where I just give them a look.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 15, 2010 11:06 PM GMT
    I usually have the same reaction, "What the..." and just smile.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 10:40 AM GMT
    When a stranger grabs my ass, it's an instant turn-off for me.
    But I totally welcomed the dancer dude the other night who walked over, asked me to flex, and started groping my biceps. icon_biggrin.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 12:40 PM GMT
    i wish i could say that just once.....sigh icon_lol.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 1:14 PM GMT
    I think I look too scary for this to happen. Or I just don´t go to the right places

    icon_rolleyes.gif
  • LuckyGuyKC

    Posts: 2080

    Sep 16, 2010 1:24 PM GMT
    Does this happen after College years? This happen to me in College and it was a great ice breaker no matter what the girl looked like (no guy ever did this to me). I have a better now than I did in college.

    I've never been to a gay bar so I don't know what happens in these settings.
  • turtleneckjoc...

    Posts: 4685

    Sep 16, 2010 1:30 PM GMT
    jim_e saidi wish i could say that just once.....sigh icon_lol.gif


    You and me both......Hey, how about if you grab mine, I'll grab yours? icon_smile.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 2:35 PM GMT
    Thank heavens I turned around to quickly walk away after this guys rude "sweaty fuck" comment or he would have gotten a hand full of my junk instead. We've all seen the sign in the grocery store - PLEASE DON'T SQUEEZE THE FRUIT
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 2:37 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidI think I look too scary for this to happen. Or I just don´t go to the right places

    icon_rolleyes.gif


    You don't look scary to me. icon_biggrin.gif
  • d_1M

    Posts: 598

    Sep 16, 2010 2:40 PM GMT
    it all depends

    to many more factors for this to be offensive or a form of flirting but women does not like this because they not as slaty as us guys.

    i dont like my ass to be grabbed for more then 3 seconds i mean an instant.

    i did it once to a guy in a club and he turn around and gave me a huge smile so i rubbed it for the longest time and didnt even got his name lol

    proves that some guys really like that.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 2:54 PM GMT
    Depends on who did it. If it was my boyfriend I would enjoy it. Anyone else, be offended by it.
  • rnch

    Posts: 11524

    Sep 16, 2010 4:08 PM GMT
    D_ONEMEX saidit all depends

    to many more factors for this to be offensive or a form of flirting but women does not like this because they not as slaty as us guys.

    i dont like my ass to be grabbed for more then 3 seconds i mean an instant.

    i did it once to a guy in a club and he turn around and gave me a huge smile so i rubbed it for the longest time and didnt even got his name lol

    proves that some guys really like that.


    woiks feaux meh! icon_wink.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 4:20 PM GMT
    Well i would be shocked too, but i will end up smiling too...lol..but again the smiling part depends on the guy.


  • mybud

    Posts: 11821

    Sep 16, 2010 5:07 PM GMT
    I think it would depend on if I was attracted to him....if he was a troll I'd be pissed....if he was hot I'd let it slide....Truthfully I think 90% of gay guys would feel this way....BUD
  • rnch

    Posts: 11524

    Sep 16, 2010 5:19 PM GMT
    the few times this has happened to be/been done by me; i find that a gentle, slow caress, starting at the top of the cheeks in the "tramp stamp" area and a low pressure, slight squeeze at the "lift and separate region" at the bottom of the natural glute curve give the best results. icon_wink.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 5:20 PM GMT
    kscott6671 saidDepends on who did it. If it was my boyfriend I would enjoy it. Anyone else, be offended by it.


    Even if it were someone as unscary as me? icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 5:25 PM GMT
    it has happened to me at a gay club. I took it as a compliment and now, about one year later, we are good friends icon_smile.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 5:35 PM GMT
    P.S. Usually it's not guys who do it to me, so I can just smile. lol.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 6:05 PM GMT
    mybud saidI think it would depend on if I was attracted to him....if he was a troll I'd be pissed....if he was hot I'd let it slide....Truthfully I think 90% of gay guys would feel this way....BUD


    Yeah, I'd feel the same way. Even if its somewhat shallow.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 6:16 PM GMT
    I don't like being touched inappropriately and that is pretty inappropriate. Just that simple. I wouldn't care if the person was exactly my type, attractive or not. It's just rude. I'm not a prude but if I'm approached in that way I can't take person seriously and I won't be giving out any such courtesy or respect since clearly I wasn't shown it. People are always welcomed to look. Just don't touch.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 6:23 PM GMT
    that happened to me last sunday afternoon when I was out, I liked it, but was pretty drunk at the time. He looked kinda like the guys you see getting blown apart in a quentin tarantino vampire flick icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 16, 2010 6:24 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidI think I look too scary for this to happen. Or I just don´t go to the right places

    icon_rolleyes.gif



    you're not scary, quite the opposite infact
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 17, 2010 3:08 AM GMT
    it doesn't matter if he is hot or not...it's still sleezy, but i'll smile inside to know that i still got it icon_biggrin.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Sep 17, 2010 6:58 AM GMT
    turtleneckjock said
    jim_e saidi wish i could say that just once.....sigh icon_lol.gif


    You and me both......Hey, how about if you grab mine, I'll grab yours? icon_smile.gif


    done icon_biggrin.gif