Why do most gay guys lie

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    Sep 17, 2010 5:01 PM GMT
    Ok I have been.getting frustrated lately because I am finding out that a lot if guys lie lie lie. For example you say your looking for friends but when u see no.ass is gonna get handed out on the first date you block ignore and hide. Another example you say ur Dick is 9 but when u get to bed its really 7. Honestly telling the truth is far more attractive and fibbing no matter what makes you way less attractive. But, I am curious as to why do most do this. Any one got the answer.
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    Sep 17, 2010 5:03 PM GMT
    Fenix_Stone saidWhy do most gay guys lie
    They're just practicing politics so they can hold public office and fight for gay rights.
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    Sep 17, 2010 5:10 PM GMT
    i think there are a lot of normal, credible guys out there, they are just not into the scene. keithicon_cool.gif
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    Sep 17, 2010 5:38 PM GMT
    Yea I try to.have faith but I hate that all.guys want sex and when they see none is being given they move to the next even after they r like I really like u. I even call some guys out on it and then they get madd lol. But what gets me is the ones I call out forget that they have already tried it with me which is y I called them out lol
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    Sep 17, 2010 5:50 PM GMT
    A lot of str8 guys lie about dick size.... Gimme a break is that your biggest issue? Oh yeah and then there's the issue of a guy saying he wants to be friends but cuts you loose when he See's the candy store ain't open for business.....I thought str8 guys had cornered that market when trying to get some pussy but It's clear gays play the field same way. Is that all you got? I'd be more upset about someone not revealing their health status, criminal background and maybe even financial stress before getting upset about a guy saying he's 9 inches and produces 7.icon_rolleyes.gif be foe real
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    Sep 17, 2010 5:58 PM GMT
    Hillie saidA lot of str8 guys lie about dick size.... Gimme a break is that your biggest issue? Oh yeah and then there's the issue of a guy saying he wants to be friends but cuts you loose when he See's the candy store ain't open for business.....I thought str8 guys had cornered that market when trying to get some pussy but It's clear gays play the field same way. Is that all you got? I'd be more upset about someone not revealing their health status, criminal background and maybe even financial stress before getting upset about a guy saying he's 9 inches and produces 7.icon_rolleyes.gif be foe real



    I take it ur one of the guys huh sorry I read u before knowing u but I don't care about their health until I.start fucking and since I don't do that often and I'm safe I look at stuff that might lead to that and yea str8 guys do that but are u a str8 girl no so bringing str8 dudes up is relevant. if I said men in general it would hold weight but i didn't so chill
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    Sep 17, 2010 6:03 PM GMT
    The question was why do most gay guys lie and my point was that men in general might have a tendency to lie about the very things you ask. So it shouldn't be such a general sweep of gay men when Lot's of men lie about dick size. and a guy trying to get a piece of ass in an non respectful manner has been around since man learned to say" just the tip" So you chill.
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    Sep 17, 2010 6:31 PM GMT
    People are tempted by everything..Sometimes they want this, that. They take help from the technology to qualify enough to be deserving to there desires. You can't blame people who do this either. They are people.
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    Sep 17, 2010 6:51 PM GMT
    Hillie saidThe question was why do most gay guys lie and my point was that men in general might have a tendency to lie about the very things you ask. So it shouldn't be such a general sweep of gay men when Lot's of men lie about dick size. and a guy trying to get a piece of ass in an non respectful manner has been around since man learned to say" just the tip" So you chill.



    If u would of said it in that tone and manner it would of be received better but I agree with this statement
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    Sep 17, 2010 7:04 PM GMT
    It's not just gay men who lie. Any straight man who answers his wife's question, "Do you think this dress makes me look fat?" the wrong way is in deep trouble. Better to tell a white lie to prevent world war III from starting.
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    Sep 17, 2010 7:35 PM GMT
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    Fenix_Stone saidOk I have been.getting frustrated lately because I am finding out that a lot if guys lie lie lie. For example you say your looking for friends but when u see no.ass is gonna get handed out on the first date you block ignore and hide. Another example you say ur Dick is 9 but when u get to bed its really 7. Honestly telling the truth is far more attractive and fibbing no matter what makes you way less attractive. But, I am curious as to why do most do this. Any one got the answer.


    Fibbing??? ... Srsly? ... They fib to you. icon_lol.gif ... Where do you meet these guys...on the playground? ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    Maybe they're just not into whiny-ass bitches. ... Just saying.
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    Sep 17, 2010 8:19 PM GMT
    They lie for many reasons. Based on my experience, it has been due to massive insecurities, need to fit in, need for attention, and that sort of thing. One guy actually told me he owned a line of health/beauty product, only to find him behind the counter in the shoppers drug mart cosmetics section.

    The other reason (most people i find who lie) are simply degenerate fucktards. Don't waste your time dude, move on and let them stew in their own filthy lies and fuckery.
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    Sep 17, 2010 8:25 PM GMT
    Achillesblade saidThey lie for many reasons. Based on my experience, it has been due to massive insecurities, need to fit in, need for attention, and that sort of thing.

    The other reason ... people i find who lie... are simply degenerate fucktards. ...

    Is one of those reasons why you have your profile age as 88? ... icon_wink.gif ... My guess is degenerate fucktard. Am I right? ... How's the stew coming, btw?
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    Sep 17, 2010 8:36 PM GMT
    Well whadda ya know, I've met my very first RJ douchebag. In the interest of not hijacking this thread, I will leave you with some advice. The health/fitness section of this site is GREAT, I suggest you read it icon_wink.gif

    Go get 'em tiger!
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    Sep 18, 2010 12:10 AM GMT
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    Fenix_Stone saidOk I have been.getting frustrated lately because I am finding out that a lot if guys lie lie lie. For example you say your looking for friends but when u see no.ass is gonna get handed out on the first date you block ignore and hide. Another example you say ur Dick is 9 but when u get to bed its really 7. Honestly telling the truth is far more attractive and fibbing no matter what makes you way less attractive. But, I am curious as to why do most do this. Any one got the answer.


    Fibbing??? ... Srsly? ... They fib to you. icon_lol.gif ... Where do you meet these guys...on the playground? ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    Maybe they're just not into whiny-ass bitches. ... Just saying.



    Look dude act mature u don't know me to insult me and I'm not whining so go to hell with ur tired ass fake alpha male syndrome u don't look cool or hip u look like a bitch just saying.
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    Sep 18, 2010 12:13 AM GMT
    Achillesblade saidWell whadda ya know, I've met my very first RJ douchebag. In the interest of not hijacking this thread, I will leave you with some advice. The health/fitness section of this site is GREAT, I suggest you read it icon_wink.gif

    Go get 'em tiger!



    O go ahead he has no life with a post count that high. I guess all the young boys won't pay him attention so he has to be a asshole to feel special
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    Sep 18, 2010 12:40 AM GMT
    LOL I have a funny feeling you're right Fenix icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 18, 2010 11:16 PM GMT
    Fenix_Stone saidOk I have been.getting frustrated lately because I am finding out that a lot if guys lie lie lie. For example you say your looking for friends but when u see no.ass is gonna get handed out on the first date you block ignore and hide. Another example you say ur Dick is 9 but when u get to bed its really 7. Honestly telling the truth is far more attractive and fibbing no matter what makes you way less attractive. But, I am curious as to why do most do this. Any one got the answer.


    Bad habit?
    Lack of integrity and the value of one's own word.
    Insecurity?
    No moral compass.
    The end justifies the means.
    Fear of the truth and its consequences/ramifications.
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    Sep 20, 2010 12:28 PM GMT
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    Fenix_Stone saidOk I have been.getting frustrated lately because I am finding out that a lot if guys lie lie lie. For example you say your looking for friends but when u see no.ass is gonna get handed out on the first date you block ignore and hide. Another example you say ur Dick is 9 but when u get to bed its really 7. Honestly telling the truth is far more attractive and fibbing no matter what makes you way less attractive. But, I am curious as to why do most do this. Any one got the answer.


    Bad habit?
    Lack of integrity and the value of one's own word.
    Insecurity?
    No moral compass.
    The end justifies the means.
    Fear of the truth and its consequences/ramifications.



    Yea had one dude cuss me out cause I could read him. He flipped and juss told me nvr talk to him again but o well his lost
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    Sep 20, 2010 1:45 PM GMT
    Good grief, Caslon has a point about stating an age on a profile as 88 when clearly the person isn't, then calling others dishonest.

    As for SB saying, " Because most gay guys are insecure and emotionally handicapped (not to mention just plain dumb). "

    Well, he should talk, himself being one of the most glaring examples of what he's describing. icon_lol.gif




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    Sep 20, 2010 1:47 PM GMT
    Hello,

    I believe it is a human thing to stretch the truth. Everyone does or has done it in one form or another. But not all gay guys do this, and for the most part, it's an insecurity issue. So, it's important not to generalize that all guys are like that.

    Consider these 4 ideas:

    1. Why am I attracting these types of men into my life?

    2. Where am I meeting them?

    3. How can I meet a different class of guys?

    4. Is there something inside of me that needs some attention?

    We attract people, not by accident, but by what's going on inside our own minds and hearts.

    Greg

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    Sep 20, 2010 5:13 PM GMT
    TheGayGuysLoveCoach saidHello,

    I believe it is a human thing to stretch the truth. Everyone does or has done it in one form or another. But not all gay guys do this, and for the most part, it's an insecurity issue. So, it's important not to generalize that all guys are like that.

    Consider these 4 ideas:

    1. Why am I attracting these types of men into my life?

    2. Where am I meeting them?

    3. How can I meet a different class of guys?

    4. Is there something inside of me that needs some attention?

    We attract people, not by accident, but by what's going on inside our own minds and hearts.

    Greg




    I somewhat agree most guys prey on what they deem is weak to get what they want, me I look weak but I know the ropes and I look at guys in other states and areas and it seems like all guys well most think alike. I know str8 guys the same way its a lie for that booty and to me is downgrading to the person
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    Sep 20, 2010 5:18 PM GMT
    meninlove said Good grief, Caslon has a point about stating an age on a profile as 88 when clearly the person isn't, then calling others dishonest.

    As for SB saying, " Because most gay guys are insecure and emotionally handicapped (not to mention just plain dumb). "

    Well, he should talk, himself being one of the most glaring examples of what he's describing. icon_lol.gif




    -Doug



    But he is doing it as a joke. It's obvious that he is not 88 so yea its a joke but if he was like I'm 19 but really 28 then that would be suspicious
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    Sep 20, 2010 6:17 PM GMT
    TheGayGuysLoveCoach saidHello,

    Consider these 4 ideas:

    1. Why am I attracting these types of men into my life?

    2. Where am I meeting them?

    3. How can I meet a different class of guys?

    4. Is there something inside of me that needs some attention?

    We attract people, not by accident, but by what's going on inside our own minds and hearts.

    Greg



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