Sep 17, 2010 9:04 PM GMT
I'm straight and married and I have a very close friend (probably my best friend) who is also married, and when we've been drinking, he'll often make comments to me like, "I want to sleep with you" or "I want to sleep with you before I die," and he does it with a smirk on his face. I never think anything of it because we tend to do a lot of homo-erotic teasing with each other anyway, even when sober. But anyways, do you think any of it is displaying his true feelings (not that I would care), or is just purely in jest? He's an attractive guy, but I don't want to sleep with him. I do find it flattering when he says stuff like that, but I think that's pretty standard among guys.