Obsession With Love. :(:(

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    Sep 18, 2010 1:56 PM GMT
    Its hard to have a boyfriend that has unconditional love/Loyal love towards me. Although I'm young, i have a big heart of a mature men. I have big reasons on why i want to be taken so bad(big personal reasons). Its not that i want to use/manipulate/leech/mooch off that person, I'm not that kind of a person that would do such a thing. Ive been trampled down for my extreme niceness/sweetness, but i do encourage myself to be strong........Ppl these days find Outer beauty rather than Inner beauty, is it too much to ask for a person who would treat me as if i belonged to this world and to him?......Is it just me or am i undateable??.....I don't get it... Post your reply..just don't reply with demeaning quotes/replies, adding insult to injury will only make my mentality worse....
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    Sep 18, 2010 2:29 PM GMT
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    Sep 18, 2010 5:58 PM GMT
    Dude....you need to learn to love yourself before someone will love you back....Your lack of self esteem is written all over your face for other guys to see....You want someone to take care of you....dude your a man not a mouse...Most guys don't want a bf totally dependent on them...it gets old fast....BUD

  • Sep 18, 2010 6:12 PM GMT
    my friend, i can tell from reading your post and profile and looking at your pictures that you are not ready for the kind of relationship that you desire. i highly doubt that you are "undateable", you just haven't found the right one for you at this moment. now, i don't believe there are many out there that will want the kind of relationship that you do. i've never heard of anyone saying "Its not that i want to use/manipulate/leech/mooch off that person, I'm not that kind of a person that would do such a thing". that to me is just a red flag saying that you are.

    if you wish to be taken seriously then you may want to consider a few changes in behavior that will give credence to that desire. one may just be the use of emoticons (and in fact two of them in the title). another may be how you present your profile. of course, there is also the disney version of love you seem to be drunkenly desiring, to me that speak volumes against your case.

    non of this has been said with any spite or malcontent, just observations and honesty.
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    Sep 18, 2010 6:17 PM GMT
    Confidence is the key my friend icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 18, 2010 9:07 PM GMT
    lol some of us just dont have the luck babe.... Thats all there is to it for me =)
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    Sep 19, 2010 2:22 AM GMT
    jackofhearts46 saidmy friend, i can tell from reading your post and profile and looking at your pictures that you are not ready for the kind of relationship that you desire. i highly doubt that you are "undateable", you just haven't found the right one for you at this moment. now, i don't believe there are many out there that will want the kind of relationship that you do. i've never heard of anyone saying "Its not that i want to use/manipulate/leech/mooch off that person, I'm not that kind of a person that would do such a thing". that to me is just a red flag saying that you are.

    if you wish to be taken seriously then you may want to consider a few changes in behavior that will give credence to that desire. one may just be the use of emoticons (and in fact two of them in the title). another may be how you present your profile. of course, there is also the disney version of love you seem to be drunkenly desiring, to me that speak volumes against your case.

    non of this has been said with any spite or malcontent, just observations and honesty.



    Oh, wow, thanks for being honest. Well, u got yourself a new person who said that; me. I'm speaking my mind and heart out here you know, and i don't want my love to be disney related. i deserve my turn in love. I got alot of compliments for being myself. They just want to manipulate me so they get what they want from me. Figures why im still living(been thinking of suicide alot of times). I'm fighting for a will to live/love..still fighting.
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    Sep 19, 2010 2:24 AM GMT
    mybud saidDude....you need to learn to love yourself before someone will love you back....Your lack of self esteem is written all over your face for other guys to see....You want someone to take care of you....dude your a man not a mouse...Most guys don't want a bf totally dependent on them...it gets old fast....BUD



    ???. I'm just fine for who i am, thank you very much. But i thank you for your honesty.. BUD.
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    Sep 19, 2010 2:31 AM GMT
    Devianthero said I have big reasons on why i want to be taken so bad(big personal reasons).


    which ones?
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    Sep 19, 2010 3:15 AM GMT
    BrainyBrainyBrainy said
    Devianthero said I have big reasons on why i want to be taken so bad(big personal reasons).


    which ones?



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