over pefect lover...

  • lukas23

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    Sep 18, 2010 6:41 PM GMT
    i simbolically married a guy six years older than i am,some how i find him too perfect for me, he is always honest,never makes mistakes(i never found him doing wrong),alway kind to people,and he is dedicated to his work that he would go beyond working hours to see patients.....i would be the one to cause a problem and eventually would break up with him and he always forgives me a we get back together he says i am the love of his life he treats me like a prince...but i feel like i am over loved...is there anything like beeing over loved?
  • Neon_Dreams

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    Sep 18, 2010 8:32 PM GMT
    If you feel you are "over-loved", why is that? THAT is the Question.
  • mybud

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    Sep 18, 2010 8:54 PM GMT
    Your a moron.....
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    Sep 18, 2010 9:05 PM GMT
    ^ THIS!!!!
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    Sep 18, 2010 9:06 PM GMT


    I think you're bored. This has been too easy for you, which is tragic because there are many men who would gratefully reciprocate gladly and happily for less love than you say you're getting. Perhaps he's happy with someone who can't appreciate his love. Perhaps you have reached a point of expecting your lover to always be the one to make things right.

    This is a dangerous place to be;

    Every day bucket go to well; one day bottom drop out.

    Here's an exercise for you:

    Make a list of what you do to make the relationship great.

    -Doug
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    Sep 18, 2010 9:06 PM GMT
    Give him to me.
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    Sep 18, 2010 9:07 PM GMT
    You have a problem because you are not as good as he is and so either you feel inferior to him or you want him to play a little hard to please.
    Most of us would love to have a guy like him in our life, so if you feel over loved talk with him and try to sort out the problem before you loose him for good.
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    Sep 18, 2010 9:26 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidGive him to me.


    What ever you do, don't do that. icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 19, 2010 12:00 AM GMT
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  • wellwell

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    Sep 19, 2010 12:06 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
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    He is waiting 4 you 2 GROW UP !
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Sep 19, 2010 12:21 AM GMT
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    Sep 19, 2010 12:35 AM GMT
    wellwell saidHe is waiting 4 you 2 GROW UP !

    you poor thing
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    Sep 19, 2010 12:45 AM GMT
    lukas23 said...he treats me like a prince...but i feel like i am over loved...is there anything like being over loved?


    No, there is no such thing as being "over-loved". There is, however, "love that isn't returned," and "one-sided relationships." You are in one of those.

    I doubt that you really love this fellow. And by love I mean that you do not feel a feeling of addiction when you're with him (or without him).

    Somewhere along the way you were convinced that love was some rational contract. It is not. You cannot reason with yourself to love someone. Either it sticks or it doesn't, and you're obviously one of the doesn't variety. It doesn't make you a bad person; he's just not the guy for you.
  • lukas23

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    Sep 19, 2010 4:47 AM GMT
    asnextdoor saidYou have a problem because you are not as good as he is and so either you feel inferior to him or you want him to play a little hard to please.
    Most of us would love to have a guy like him in our life, so if you feel over loved talk with him and try to sort out the problem before you loose him for good.


    its not that i am inferior to him but i guest if u mix a little of evry thing u get a equlibrium in life....actually i decided to divorce him a month ago, just because i felt guilty of my self beeing too bad for him..(i am like susan to mike in desperate house wives season5) but he is always willing to acept me bak with lots of love....i guest i dont apeciate wat i have but i jut need a little challenge in the relationship to make me feel like i am like others with a liitle jelousy, little fightes debates, make up and life goes on ..........
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    Sep 19, 2010 4:52 AM GMT
    So you'd rather feel berated and be stuck with a dirtbag who treats you like crap?
  • lukas23

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    Sep 19, 2010 4:56 AM GMT
    wellwell said
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    He is waiting 4 you 2 GROW UP !


    you know some thing it may sound like i am a moron ,but guess wat a perfect life sucks. i guest life with a litle of both good and bad maybe more tasty and may not result in a routine as i guest mine was...too good is too bad, the scale must be balance and trust me thats when i feel like i am living a comon life ......
  • lukas23

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    Sep 19, 2010 5:00 AM GMT
    NoSuchPerson saidSo you'd rather feel berated and be stuck with a dirtbag who treats you like crap?


    thats going to the extreme, i said equilibrium.......
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    Sep 19, 2010 5:02 AM GMT
    You want miss your well until it has ran dry--especially if you are the cause of its demise.
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    Sep 19, 2010 5:02 AM GMT
    You want miss your well until it has ran dry--especially if you are the cause of its demise.
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    Sep 19, 2010 6:01 AM GMT
    lukas23 saidi simbolically married a guy six years older than i am,some how i find him too perfect for me, he is always honest,never makes mistakes(i never found him doing wrong),alway kind to people,and he is dedicated to his work that he would go beyond working hours to see patients.....i would be the one to cause a problem and eventually would break up with him and he always forgives me a we get back together he says i am the love of his life he treats me like a prince...but i feel like i am over loved...is there anything like beeing over loved?


    you have an amazing man and you still make a problem out of this. indeed you are the one creating problems lol

    enjoy the relationship. don't you like to be a prince?
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    Sep 19, 2010 6:21 AM GMT
    To the original poster, I don't think that you're being overloved - it seems like your guy is just about perfect. I guess maybe there is something to be said about appreciating things more if you have to work hard for them. Maybe your partner has been too easy going and generous with his love so you don't realize how good you have things? Maybe, even if he loves you in a romantic way, you don't feel the same about him; nothing wrong with that - you can't force it. If you do love him in a romantic way, then I think you should reread your posts - especially using the phrase a "perfect life". Maybe you'll realize just how good you really have it; drama in a relationship is way overrated.
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    Sep 19, 2010 6:28 AM GMT
    sashaman saidTo the original poster, I don't think that you're being overloved - it seems like your guy is just about perfect. I guess maybe there is something to be said about appreciating things more if you have to work hard for them. Maybe your partner has been too easy going and generous with his love so you don't realize how good you have things? Maybe, even if he loves you in a romantic way, you don't feel the same about him; nothing wrong with that - you can't force it. If you do love him in a romantic way, then I think you should reread your posts - especially using the phrase a "perfect life". Maybe you'll realize just how good you really have it; drama in a relationship is way overrated.

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    This. And have fun. Make and bicker over nothing, then give him a kiss and be like, "That was fun". Hahahaha. It might create something stupid, but at least you'll realize he means it. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 19, 2010 6:29 AM GMT
    i guess the saying speaks the truth: "you don't know what you have until you lose it"
  • lukas23

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    Sep 19, 2010 8:48 AM GMT
    sashaman saidTo the original poster, I don't think that you're being overloved - it seems like your guy is just about perfect. I guess maybe there is something to be said about appreciating things more if you have to work hard for them. Maybe your partner has been too easy going and generous with his love so you don't realize how good you have things? Maybe, even if he loves you in a romantic way, you don't feel the same about him; nothing wrong with that - you can't force it. If you do love him in a romantic way, then I think you should reread your posts - especially using the phrase a "perfect life". Maybe you'll realize just how good you really have it; drama in a relationship is way overrated.



    thank bro...for all u guys i guest i am in a rite place to learn facts for life..
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    Sep 19, 2010 3:51 PM GMT
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    paulflexes saidGive him to me.


    What ever you do, don't do that. icon_twisted.gif
    Don't be jealous, dude. We're not dating...yet. icon_twisted.gif