I cant find a guy.

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    Sep 20, 2010 4:17 AM GMT
    Someone help me, I live in Florida and its hard for me to find a guy. Whats going on please help.
  • mcwclewis

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    Sep 20, 2010 4:18 AM GMT
    That's vague.


    Where in Florida do you live?

    What efforts have you tried that aren't working?

    What kind of guy are you looking for?
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    Sep 20, 2010 4:24 AM GMT
    Im in Jacksonville. Ok im new to the whole be with a guy thing so i really dont know how to get a guy.
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    Sep 20, 2010 4:46 AM GMT
    You could always decide for a little while to let a guy get you. (that way you give yourself a breather while you get familiar with this kind of thing)

    -Doug
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    Sep 20, 2010 5:27 AM GMT
    Join the club. icon_confused.gif

  • Webster666

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    Sep 20, 2010 5:33 AM GMT
    mgcamara saidSomeone help me, I live in Florida and its hard for me to find a guy. Whats going on please help.





    A) He's probably right where you left him.
    B) Provide a description. Maybe someone has seen him.
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    Sep 21, 2010 12:59 PM GMT
    Chaaxwvn saidJoin the club. icon_confused.gif



    Ha that brought me smile yet that is true...hhmm
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    Sep 23, 2010 1:40 PM GMT
    Step 1) Take your phone number off your public profile.

    Step 2) Only give it out to people you're interested in having call you.

    Step 3) You should be getting calls from guys soon, cause I just used your phone number to put up a sexy ad on Craigslist for you. Answer your phone. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 26, 2010 4:03 PM GMT
    I feel like I'm in the same boat as you..I just want to find a guy to have a relationship with but most guys want sex..I don't know where else to look other than a4a
  • somedaytoo

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    Sep 26, 2010 4:11 PM GMT
    Finde a few, then send one my way.
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    Sep 26, 2010 4:12 PM GMT
    mgcamara saidIm in Jacksonville. Ok im new to the whole be with a guy thing so i really dont know how to get a guy.


    What? Youre in Florida, there are hot guys everywhere!
    Go to the beach while its still warm, take your shirt off, and wait.
    Oh, and make eye contact and smile. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 26, 2010 5:34 PM GMT
    mgcamara saidSomeone help me, I live in Florida and its hard for me to find a guy. Whats going on please help.


    First I think you are too young to be looking for something super serious. If you are new to the game—then try and keep your guard up there are SOOO many tragically damage gay men out there. My best advices is focus on you—go to school, keep your nose, body CLEAN, build a great life for yourself and men will be falling out of the tree’s for you in a couple years.

    You are not going to meet a guy for a LTR on a sex site. However sometimes hook ups when they are good and turn into a relationship so always be upfront about that if you are looking for that.
    Also avoid ad's that say NSA--no string attached--it just means I want sex I am a whore.

    The beach idea is a good place, the gym, and volunteer for some kind of gay support organizations. Usually you will find well connected power gays who are more interested in relationships. Also the good karma might bring you a stud you stud!
    ~R