Getting Laid!

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    Sep 20, 2010 8:23 PM GMT
    Has anyone here on the forum, or site ever have sex with a total stranger? How did it happen and where? I have a friend who wants to try this but dont know how to go about it. ny helpers out there?
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    Sep 20, 2010 11:39 PM GMT
    I never have but your friend could always go to manhunt or the craiglist
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    Sep 21, 2010 2:06 AM GMT
    You cruise, you lose!
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    Sep 21, 2010 2:09 AM GMT
    MANHUNT, Grndr, Craigslist, the bar, rest stops, restrooms in parks....

    the list is endless.

    the question is why would he want to? you're right there, help him out.
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    Sep 21, 2010 2:11 AM GMT
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    ... Kids ask the darnest questions!

    OMFG, you're 47! .... Jesus H. Christ! ...47 and you are asking this? ... talk about completely stranger!
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    Sep 21, 2010 2:16 AM GMT
    Last time I did this was in my 20s and it was part of the bucket list that I'm glad I'm done with. I was living in NYC in the1970s and heard through the bar gossip that this guy had a monthly orgy at his apt. I walked up to him, got myself invited and went. Felt dirty right afterwards, as the years go by, memories make it better than it probably was.

    I don't think you can talk your friend out of this. Once you get the 'itch' just let it happen, make sure he plays safe.

    Craigslist is good, hanging out in chat rooms is another, or if he's brave, an adult bookstore with glory holes.

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  • LJay

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    Sep 21, 2010 2:21 AM GMT
    Why, I've never heard of such a thing!

    Is it done?

    Gracious, O my!!
  • Sparkycat

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    Sep 21, 2010 3:35 AM GMT
    adult bookstores with glory holes and video booths big enough for two people

    Craig's list add

    men4sexnow adds

    manhunt

    Don't understand why so many of you have an "ewww....yuck" attitude about anonymous sex. I think it's fun. Of course, when I was the age of most of the guys on this site there were no internet sites, and gay bars didn't exist in smaller towns. Most gay guys were in the closet. Adult bookstores were the place to hang out to meet someone.
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    Sep 21, 2010 8:12 AM GMT
    when you think about it, probably most of your sexual encounters were with strangers. Anonymous sex and sex with strangers are two separate things. You can have a one night stand with someone you meet at the bar, and they could still be considered a stranger. Or you could have sex in a bookstore, or a bathhouse and it could be completely anonymous.

    I prefer to know someone and make a connection with them. It makes sex better, and hotter, when you have some kind of lines drawn between you. Friendship with benefits can be the best.

    Of course, after you've slept with someone, are they still a stranger? or through the process of passion and intimacy do you feel like you might build a connection?