Why do most all black dudes want to kick it with white dudes, i donot get it

  • jperfit

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    Sep 20, 2010 11:04 PM GMT
    I donot get why most black dudes want to kick with white dudes, i mean these are the same dudes that complain about discrimination, it doesn't make any sense, i mean their are dudes that are white i think look great but my 1st choice is always a goodlooking,diesel black or latino dude but the black dudes are only interested in hanging with a white guy, not sure what thats about? what do u think?
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    Sep 20, 2010 11:14 PM GMT
    Who complains about discrimination? Please. We're all gay here, we're all discriminated against. The only thing that is more ominous in our society than a black gay is a gay who has a lisp. And quite frankly, people are getting over both and moving onto the Mosque/Muslim acceptance.


    So while I can't answer your questions, it's just their personal preference. Some white guys are really fucking hot.
    And some black guys are ridiculously sexy.

    Who is anyone to question someone's attraction based on skin color? If you find it all beautiful, there shouldn't even be the thought.

    So go find a really hot white guy and date him. If you still prefer a black guy after the date, then that's just who you are. Accept, embrace, live it.
  • natiluv

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    Sep 20, 2010 11:16 PM GMT
    Not really true my man, depends on where you're looking...sure on manhunt/dudesnude and other mostly white gay sites yes, possibly more blacks looking for whites but elsewhere, black gay sites for instance, you'd be hard pressed to find any who prefer or would even consider white...
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    Sep 20, 2010 11:39 PM GMT
    nothing better than a glass of milk and an oreo cookie......icon_cool.gifkeith...iow...sexy is sexy, black, white, latino, lhaso apso...
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    Sep 20, 2010 11:47 PM GMT
    vetteset saidnothing better than a glass of milk and an oreo cookie......icon_cool.gifkeith...iow...sexy is sexy, black, white, latino, lhaso apso...



    Last time i checked blacks were not cookies but human beings.
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    Sep 20, 2010 11:48 PM GMT
    oh chill the fuck out, it was a joke, maybe someone has a chip on their shoulder, eh what? read the rest of the answer.icon_cool.gif
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    Sep 20, 2010 11:58 PM GMT
    jperfit said
    vetteset saidnothing better than a glass of milk and an oreo cookie......icon_cool.gifkeith...iow...sexy is sexy, black, white, latino, lhaso apso...



    Last time i checked blacks were not cookies but human beings.

    I'm pretty sure he didn't mean that in a derogatory sense.

    Bluntly: Cut the defenses. People just have types that they're interested in. Some guys like the average looking guy, others like buff, some like them twink looking... It's the same with color. Look, you've got a bangin' body... don't get too mad if people are semi retarded and mildly intimidated by you. Be nice, approachable and be you. Eventually, someone will really want that, even of your own color if that's what you prefer. icon_biggrin.gif

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    Some of us just like all flavors. icon_cool.gif
  • mizu5

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    Sep 21, 2010 12:16 AM GMT
    Well there. You said it yourself. you would rather chill with latino or black guys. maybe most of the black men you have encountered would rather chill with white guys.

    it's a personal choice.
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    Sep 21, 2010 1:53 AM GMT
    jperfit saidI donot get why most black dudes want to kick with white dudes, i mean these are the same dudes that complain about discrimination, it doesn't make any sense, i mean their are dudes that are white i think look great but my 1st choice is always a goodlooking,diesel black or latino dude but the black dudes are only interested in hanging with a white guy, not sure what thats about? what do u think?



    Absolutely untrue
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    Sep 21, 2010 2:03 AM GMT
    jperfit saidI donot get why most black dudes want to kick with white dudes, i mean these are the same dudes that complain about discrimination, it doesn't make any sense, i mean their are dudes that are white i think look great but my 1st choice is always a goodlooking,diesel black or latino dude but the black dudes are only interested in hanging with a white guy, not sure what thats about? what do u think?

    I didnt know this. Most black dudes want to kick with white dudes. You learn something new on RJ all the time.

    All I can say is that I havent been getting my share! ... icon_evil.gif
  • jperfit

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    Sep 21, 2010 5:15 AM GMT
    vetteset saidoh chill the fuck out, it was a joke, maybe someone has a chip on their shoulder, eh what? read the rest of the answer.icon_cool.gif



    I read your so called response (joke) and it just wasn't funny, the topic is not meant for joking but serious, honest answers.
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    Sep 25, 2010 5:46 AM GMT
    I prefer white guys over black guys like you.

    Relax. Who are you to question the preference of others?


    It's really none of your business what another individuals preferences are.

    That is like a str8 person asking why and how 2 people of the same sex can be attracted to each other.

    If you can answer that question you've found the answer to your own question.
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    Sep 25, 2010 5:58 AM GMT
    If sexual preference is a type of discrimination, I must be one super bigoted fucker because I ONLY have sex with males. Where's the feminists picketing my house?
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    Sep 25, 2010 6:46 AM GMT
    I used to be only attracted to white men but lately i find my head turning more and more for sexy handsome muscled black men...mmmmm
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    Sep 25, 2010 5:05 PM GMT
    I'm attracted to all types/races. Why limit oneself to a smaller pool?icon_biggrin.gif





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    Sep 25, 2010 6:59 PM GMT
    jperfit saidI donot get why most black dudes want to kick with white dudes, i mean these are the same dudes that complain about discrimination, it doesn't make any sense, i mean their are dudes that are white i think look great but my 1st choice is always a goodlooking,diesel black or latino dude but the black dudes are only interested in hanging with a white guy, not sure what thats about? what do u think?



    I think you're seeing it because it's strong on your mind at the moment. The only example I can think of on this. .. when you buy a new car or you're hyped up about your soon to be new car that you've always wanted you start seeing those cars everywhere. I'd have never even known what a Mazda 3 looked like or could have cared less.. but then when I bought one it was like everywhere I went I'm seeing all these Mazda 3's on the road I never saw before.. something like that maybe.

  • ProveMe2010

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    Sep 26, 2010 2:51 AM GMT
    jperfit saidI donot get why most black dudes want to kick with white dudes, i mean these are the same dudes that complain about discrimination, it doesn't make any sense, i mean their are dudes that are white i think look great but my 1st choice is always a goodlooking,diesel black or latino dude but the black dudes are only interested in hanging with a white guy, not sure what thats about? what do u think?


    jperfit, what exactly do you mean by "hanging out" and "kick with white dudes"? I somewhat agree with you if you meant socially like in terms of friendships, I find it kinda odd the ratio of black guys I met and know compared to the white guys I have met and know is like 25:1 (black:white). We gays are pretty segregated IMHO. But, I don't know if this purposely done or just a reflection of U.S. society.

    If you meant sexually, I whole heartily agree with you. I find it odd again that I can find men of all races and/or ethnicities attractive. I truly do not understand how someone can rule out a group based on race and/or ethnicities alone. In my opinion, it shows how much (1) culture defines attractiveness, (2) and how culture shapes one exceptions and preferences-and in order to have a true preference one must try our the object in hand, for example: Some people prefer baked chicken but I prefer honey baroque fried chicken. But how can I "prefer" honey baroque fried chicken over baked chicken if I have never tried bake chicken. So, by previous example, now let us ask how can any particular human being "prefer" one race and/or ethnicity over another with out experience? My answer to this question is that there is a strong possibility his or her "experience" is typically based deep socialization of what is attractiveness and negative stereotypes. And being that blacks-and especially black men-are typically depicted in very negative light (and that is if blacks are depicted at all) by mainstream media does not help at all.

    There was a study done demonstrating that it is more likely for a black man to have sex with another black man and the report stated that observation was NOT due to chance alone. If I can recall correctly this study or another study made the observation that blacks sexual networks are highly interconnected due to segregation and thus this may be why black MSM have a higher prevalence of STDs. Thus, there is evidence to back up your claims, jperfit.
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    Sep 26, 2010 3:55 PM GMT
    Well personally I only will date white guys. It's not that I don't like black guys which is dumb since I myself am black, but I just found that I was more attracted to white guys. Also in my younger years I grew up in an a mostly white private school and started dating white chicks. After a few dates I began to realize my like for guys and I went from white girls to white guys. I'm pretty sure other black guys have their own reasons but that is just mine.
  • rnch

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    Sep 26, 2010 4:00 PM GMT
    choosing one's friends on the basis of a thin layer of outer skin color is some of the most oldest expressions of stupidity and reverse racism that i can imagine.
  • rnch

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    Sep 26, 2010 4:02 PM GMT
    i must say, thought, that watching a gay porno flick of a white and black guy goin' at it is an visually erotic thrill for me. icon_twisted.gif
  • JOCKDEVIL34

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    Sep 27, 2010 5:51 AM GMT
    Why do most all black dudes want to kick it with white dudes? I don't not get it.


    I think its just a personal preference myself. I have only dated and been in relationship with white men and have several black friends has while. I live in Nashville and the problem I experience here is that most of the white men here are still so closeted about dating a black man it is said. Most of the white guys in Nashville will jump in the sake with a black guy in a minute but will turn around and will not admit it to there friends.

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    Sep 27, 2010 6:54 AM GMT
    thats definately not true. i think it has more to do with "where" your looking. most black guys that are into white guys usually arent that cute anyway...
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    Sep 27, 2010 7:39 AM GMT
    well as you say your first choice will be a black man.. why.. we are all people not colours as cliche as they sounds.
  • jperfit

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    Sep 29, 2010 5:46 AM GMT
    chasgo3 saidI prefer white guys over black guys like you.

    Relax. Who are you to question the preference of others?


    It's really none of your business what another individuals preferences are.

    That is like a str8 person asking why and how 2 people of the same sex can be attracted to each other.

    If you can answer that question you've found the answer to your own question.



    It is non of my business but given your response I suspect that the reason this takes place is because some black dudes(like you) have a twisted sense of logic and think that white dudes are some how better.
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    Sep 29, 2010 6:32 AM GMT
    jperfit said
    chasgo3 saidI prefer white guys over black guys like you.

    Relax. Who are you to question the preference of others?


    It's really none of your business what another individuals preferences are.

    That is like a str8 person asking why and how 2 people of the same sex can be attracted to each other.

    If you can answer that question you've found the answer to your own question.



    It is non of my business but given your response I suspect that the reason this takes place is because some black dudes(like you) have a twisted sense of logic and think that white dudes are some how better.


    That's a stretch. And makes no sense. Talk about twisted logic!
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