Sexual history before dating?

  • Desmondlug

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    Sep 21, 2010 2:13 AM GMT
    For how many of you is it important to know someone's sexual history before considering dating them. I met this guy Im really interested in, and hes been hurt before greatly and is very guarded. I wanna be good friends first and hopefully date. But I wanna be totally honest with him first, considering hes been hurt, i want him to trust me. I gonna write him a letter first telling him my history, not that I sleep around everywhere with everyone lol. I have had sex only once, but when he asked I told him i never did. Mostly because I regret it, but I wanna tell him the trust....... Hes very religious and has a clean history, I just fear being prejudged. How should i go about it, and is it a good idea, would you want someone you were interested in to write you a letter such as this?
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    Sep 21, 2010 2:20 AM GMT
    If you have to be careful about having had sex before, but in a responsible manner... then is that really the guy you want to date for a prolonged period of time?

    My relationship was like, "I had sex before, once, unprotected and will get a test to prove to you that before we ever do anything, we're clean." Then there and that easy. Nonchalantly worked for me...but I guess I don't see it working for everyone.

    Just one day when you're opening up for each other you ask. If he's open to questions and getting to know you, he should be able to lay out everything on the table too. icon_smile.gif