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    Sep 21, 2010 1:50 PM GMT
    Ok, i have been out to mainly friends for a year now and things were going great. Till recently i seem to attract athletic/muscular bottoms, and im looking for a top/versatile. Is it because i act masculine? Or my ethnicity?
  • mcwclewis

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    Sep 21, 2010 2:47 PM GMT
    Its probably just bad luck. I'd offer to switch problems if it were possible.


    But no I wouldn't blame it one your mannerisms or your ethnicity, just keep looking
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    Sep 21, 2010 5:22 PM GMT
    lol it sucks..ive even tried wearing tighter jeans to show my ass more which helps, but the bottoms still approach me...
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    Sep 21, 2010 5:26 PM GMT
    Tell the bottoms to pull out their dick and learn to use it. icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 21, 2010 5:27 PM GMT
    I have never ran into this problem...

    However there are a lot of guys who seem to have it stuck in their mind that for some unknown reason, every black guy is a top in some form. And there's not an abundance of porn to prove otherwise... but here is my advice.


    Find a guy YOU want to attract, talk to them and don't even bother with the Top/Bottom stuff until you're ready to reach that point. This is more of long term advice, but I'm sure if you wanted a hook up it wouldn't be long until he asked you anyways. If you end up both being bottoms, just say your peace, say that you were attracted to them anyways and attempt to move on. icon_biggrin.gif