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    Sep 22, 2010 6:36 AM GMT
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    Sep 22, 2010 1:08 PM GMT
    not an easy one.

    I didn’t wait till i was in love to have sex for the first time. If I have to do it over again, i think I will make the same decision... The nice thing of being young if the experimenting phase of ones life...I see too many young people depress because they haven’t found the "one" yet at 19....for goodness sake grow up..how on earth will you know who the "one" is if you only met 2 people?

    Yes anal orgasms exits. Had it once or twice myself, but they are very uncommon.. don’t expect to experience them every time....but boy if you do they are great.

    When you start out you might want to do the versatile thing since it sets you on the same foot as your man and doesn’t make you any more venerable than your friend. Later you will settle into a top or bottom more….or stay versatile

    Experience your youth my friend, it doesn’t last long…just make sure you are always safe.
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    Sep 22, 2010 1:15 PM GMT
    I think from what you've said that your friend sounds like a nice guy, and maybe you are right to wait until you are in love to lose your virginity, but you could do a lot worse than lose it to someone you like and trust, who is attractive and patient and willing to show you the ropes so to speak.

    You'll know yourself when the time is right, don't let anyone else pressure you into something you'll regret.

    Just make sure when you do it, you clean yourself properly and you use protection and LOTS of lube. Also bear in mind that you might not have the best sex the first time - it does take practice and some getting used to, especially bottoming. I have never been a huge fan of bottoming but my first time I didn't really enjoy at all, it wasn't painful but I was quite nervous and couldn't really relax. Subsequent experiences were better though! Topping is a lot easier really, as you will be much more familiar with how your dick works compared to your butt.

    As for anal orgasms, I've never experienced it personally although I think I've come close, I'm interested in expanding my anal play a little more (even though I know I will remain predominantly a top, it's just how I'm wired) so I'm thinking about getting some prostate massagers and other toys - that might be a good starting point for you on your quest, plus it might be a good idea to experiment with dildoes and butt plugs to get used to the feelings of anal sex.
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    Sep 22, 2010 1:27 PM GMT
    From health perspective - you should STRONGLY consider getting the HPV vaccine. Anal cancer is a real health concern that does not get alot of media attention - in part - because gay men are the group that its rates are increasing most rapidly in (my opinion). The more commonly known vaccine name is Gardisil - it is most effective in boys/adolescents who are "virgins" are .............................Anyway, do your homework and read about it. If not, 10-20 years down the road, you might regret it.
    BTW - it is no substitute for condoms