I cannot cum by being given a blow job, Do many guys experience this?

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    Feb 29, 2008 1:28 AM GMT
    I have had guys try it for up to 4 hours, "HENRY" just stands right up to it but will not cum !!! LOL !!! Some have tried intermingling a handjob with the sucking, but still no cum until I fuck or do myself a handjob. Are any of you like this? I have always wondered if there are many like me in this, I've only met one other in all these years.
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    Feb 29, 2008 3:23 AM GMT
    I have never come while being given a blowjob simply because I never wanted to come in someone's mouth. In the days when I was HIV- I would tell the guy to stop before I was about to come then it might happen, but usually with some assistance.
  • Timbales

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    Feb 29, 2008 3:25 AM GMT
    My bf is the same way, he likes it alot but I have to use my hand to get him to cum.
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    Feb 29, 2008 4:31 AM GMT
    I have only cum once by a bj. It has never bothered me because my satisfaction in sex comes by giving head. I love making a guy cum.
  • Sirkit

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    Feb 29, 2008 6:34 AM GMT
    I can't either, it feels amazing but I just can't reach that point of no return with it. I've always been very hard to get off though so it's not that surprising.
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    Feb 29, 2008 8:50 AM GMT
    Perhaps you are wanking too much on your own. If the well's empty then you won't be able to pump any water.
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    Feb 29, 2008 9:00 PM GMT
    redheadedguy I loved what you wrote !!!! LOL !! I'm glad to hear from you guys who experience the same, and like Caslon, I have to agree I get the biggest kick out of bringing some one else to cum, whatever way they want it, I love to see their extacy !!!
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    Feb 29, 2008 9:26 PM GMT
    I don't like receiving blow jobs. It makes me soft...er. LOL

    Seriously.

    Perhaps it destroys the illusion that I'm having sex with a straight guy? I always thought that.
  • kew1

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    Mar 01, 2008 9:48 AM GMT
    seeing as Henry is a type of vacuum cleaner, the original post made me wince.
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  • nv7_

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    Mar 01, 2008 10:47 AM GMT
    Depends on the guy. It's rare. In my hook up years, guys would catch me horny and tell me they'd "give me the best blow job of my life" and/or "make" me cum. One method blow jobs don't work for everyone and I think some guys don't get that and that goes for sex AND kissing. It amazes me that so many men don't get this. You might be great at this or that with one guy and another guy might hate it. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 01, 2008 7:43 PM GMT
    Like another stud commented above, I have trained myself not to cum in another guys mouth since HIV transmission and safer sex made me never want to cum in another guys mouth.

    I'm HIV-neg, but no matter, I just don't do it.

    So oral sex is purely great foreplay. THen just strap on a condom, fuck your partner til no end because you are so, SO, frustrated, or just have your partner jack you off and experience a super cum flow and explosion.

    So don't get frustrated because you don't cum when sucked off. I bet you're getting other pleasure.

    Also, if you are into tit play, maybe that might stimulate you.

    Hope this helps.

    Big hairy muscle hugs. You guys are really caring.
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    Mar 01, 2008 8:09 PM GMT
    I'm too selfish I just love bieng given a blow job so I hold off as long as I can. Flipside of that is now that because I have done that for so long I rarely cum for a BJ.

    But like some of the others I kinda dont like coming in anothers mouth its a kinda respect issue thing.
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    Mar 01, 2008 9:34 PM GMT
    Truthfully, selfish is how I've felt at ending up with my partner trying forever on me, after me getting him off in 20 or 30 minutes. I love it though !!! Sometimes I don't even bother to get off cause I've enjoyed my partners reaction. I can take care of me anytime. LOL !!!
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    Mar 02, 2008 2:12 AM GMT
    I enjoy both getting and giving head... but since I have a "hair trigger" I get more persoanl enjoyment out of GIVING head....I like to go for all the senses and a variety of sensations on my "parter-for-the-moment"....can get kinda extreme and wild!
    Any sure-fire tricks to help me "hold off" and prolong my "BIG Ooooohhhh".....???

    I always warn my partner as fast as possible before I am about to cum, but they have ALWAYS actually held me tighter and want me to cum in their mouth and they swallow...I on the other hand, am not that way...icon_lol.gif
  • GQjock

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    Mar 02, 2008 12:44 PM GMT
    I can take care of me anytime. LOL !!!

    There's the problem right there
    Your "boy" has gotten used to the way YOU DO ITicon_wink.gif

    The answer is...
    forget about cumming
    do you like the way your BF does it? is it fun?
    if so...whats the problem
    if not either help him ... make it so

    ...or maybe find yourself a new BF
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    Mar 02, 2008 5:32 PM GMT
    Well GQjock, what I didn't say is that most of the time he likes me to fuck him, earlier I was only refering to when we just 69. I wasn't being fair to him. TO KEW1 ------ who said -- "Henry is a type of vacuume cleaner" "NOTHING SUCKS LIKE A HOOVER" and its a vacuume cleaner too !!! LOL !!!
  • zakariahzol

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    Mar 02, 2008 11:14 PM GMT
    I have a couple of time. But it take a long time and very tiring. Most guys just dont have the patience for it.

    zak
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    Mar 03, 2008 1:07 AM GMT
    realifedad said I have had guys try it for up to 4 hours, "HENRY" just stands right up to it but will not cum !!! LOL !!! Some have tried intermingling a handjob with the sucking, but still no cum until I fuck or do myself a handjob. Are any of you like this? I have always wondered if there are many like me in this, I've only met one other in all these years.


    Realifedad, have you tried having your balls sucked while you cum? My partner can give me a BJ and it feels really great, but when he starts sucking on my balls I can cum in a flat out minute. If you like your balls sucked give that a try and just stroke yourself while he sucks your balls. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 03, 2008 4:04 AM GMT
    Zak I sure know where your coming from !! and bear I'll give your idea a try !!!
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    Mar 03, 2008 10:28 AM GMT
    never cum being given a blow job, I actually get nothing from a blow job, I can stay hard but I'd prefer something else to be honest.

    BUT, if you really wanna get me off, let me give you a blow job.. then I gotta be careful cause I can cum at a drop of a hat!

    Very odd but oh so freakin hot!
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    Mar 03, 2008 3:01 PM GMT
    I think I have only ever cum 3 times from oral sex. While it feels good, it just doesn't do it for me. I don't know why. I know other people who are like this as well. I think it must be something about the way I am hardwired, 'cuz I'd hate to think there are that many people out there who really, REALLY suck at giving head.
  • BlackJock79

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    Mar 03, 2008 10:20 PM GMT
    It usually takes me a while but yeah, I can cum from getting head.
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    Mar 03, 2008 11:17 PM GMT
    Blowjobs are nice, but they really don't do much for me.

    There was one time I came from one though... the guy had rough hands and was using them at the same time.
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    Mar 06, 2008 3:14 PM GMT
    I didnt cum from a BJ till i was 40. I had pretty much given up any expectation and I think that relaxed me...as well as having someone who really knew what they were doing. After the first time..I have cum everytime since.

    My tip is to dont even thing about it...just relaxicon_lol.gif
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    Mar 06, 2008 4:03 PM GMT
    I am not sure if this happens to anyone else but my cock head is very sensitive so when I get blowned I get to the point of pleasure/pain before I soften-up a little. It's doesn't take much to get me hard again afterwards, but the oversensitiveness does not allow me to get to the point of cumming.