Post First-Date Etiquette...

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    Sep 23, 2010 10:29 PM GMT
    So, I went on a first date last night with a guy I met online. We got drinks and it went pretty well, we just talked the whole time and it was never awkward. I also thought he was pretty cute. icon_razz.gif And I want to continue things... but I never know what to do after the first date. I hate playing the "game" but it seems like things don't workout unless that's how you start out, i.e. not acting too interested and all that.

    What do you guys do after your first date? How long do you wait to contact the guy, or do you wait for them to contact you? I know people have really different opinions on this... so let me hear it!
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    Sep 23, 2010 11:42 PM GMT
    Does a Firefly ever wonders where his lit gut takes him?

    My dear friend if you feel a sense of wonder, such as the warmth of attraction feels when close to someone you are dating; just let yourself go, be brave and explore the lonely field of this wondering soul!!

    Love is a Harvest Moon that rises on our darken sky "loneliness" once in a while! sometimes you may feel a chill of uncertainties in the air, but I sure hope you learn to rise above those clouds and learn to bath from its glow!

    So don't think too much or wait too long to pick that forbidden fruit because there may just be someone right behind you waiting for his turn!


    Leandro ♥
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    Sep 24, 2010 2:57 AM GMT
    Aww, thanks! What a great response. Trying my best not to think too much about it, I just want to try taking things slower than I usually do, but I guess those two things go hand in hand...
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    Sep 24, 2010 3:19 AM GMT
    My thinking would be give it a day or two to allow the memory to sink in. If by then you still feel the same way, give him a call (unless he has called you already), see if he want to go out again or even plan something casual and see where that goes.

    I wouldn't think of it as a game. It's what your feeling. If it feels right then do it. You may even find he is feeling the same way.

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    Sep 24, 2010 3:38 AM GMT
    First things first, DONT play that stupid game! If you like him and want to do it again, call him! Pussy footing around and playing games leads to silent miscommunication and a missed chance. Be proactive and ask him on a second date!
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    Sep 24, 2010 5:27 AM GMT
    TheUnhingedOne saidFirst things first, DON'T play that stupid game! If you like him and want to do it again, call him! Pussy footing around and playing games leads to silent mis-communication and a missed chance. Be proactive and ask him on a second date if it feels right!


    He'll let you know when you talk to him next in just the way he talks to you if he wants to do it again. icon_smile.gif