My mom called me fat...what a bitch...lol

  • bennyboo

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    Sep 24, 2010 12:29 AM GMT
    So the other day...i was trying to get something from on top of the fridge at my moms house.... and my moms saids out of no more... dam you need to start going to the gym your getting fat....icon_eek.gif So i said your so lucky i have good self esteem or id go cut my wrist my right now.....lol..... I thought your moms were to tell you that your beatiful not tell you your fat and ive only gained 15 pounds which is i dont think is a lot but appently going from a 30 to a 32 is like a huge differene because everyone at work also tells me that my ass has gotten a whole lot bigger.... but i thought that was a good thingicon_wink.gif
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    Sep 24, 2010 12:34 AM GMT
    But you are getting fat. icon_neutral.gif
  • bennyboo

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    Sep 24, 2010 12:37 AM GMT
    well since i hate the gym i guess ill just become bulimic ok i cant stick my finger down my thoart or better yet not eat...or just go get sukced out
  • mcwclewis

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    Sep 24, 2010 12:44 AM GMT
    Dude thats what moms are for, to be brutally honest.
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    Sep 24, 2010 12:49 AM GMT
    My mom's never sugar coated a damn thing in my life. I have no one in my life as near brutally honest. And I love her for it.
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    Sep 24, 2010 12:51 AM GMT
    Iv gained 15lbs in the last year too and my mothers made those comments. I tell her to shut the hell up and stop criticizing me.
  • GQjock

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    Sep 24, 2010 12:53 AM GMT
    Geez ....... What's Christmas like at Your House icon_confused.gif
  • bennyboo

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    Sep 24, 2010 12:53 AM GMT
    I guess i just didnt think it looked that bad...ive been the same size for the last 5 years so i guess when you change a little bit it makes a big difference... some guy at the club last week asked me if i got butt implants....i was like o ya i just got them...lol and im getting a boob job next week
  • bennyboo

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    Sep 24, 2010 12:55 AM GMT
    josephga saidIv gained 15lbs in the last year too and my mothers made those comments. I tell her to shut the hell up and stop criticizing me.


    did you lose the weight??
  • bennyboo

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    Sep 24, 2010 12:56 AM GMT
    GQjock saidGeez ....... What's Christmas like at Your House icon_confused.gif


    No one gets anything from me....lol
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    Sep 24, 2010 1:03 AM GMT
    iv lost 6 of it from walking 4 miles a day. I don't care for the gym either
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    Sep 24, 2010 1:17 AM GMT
    A colleague of mine years ago told me that I was gaining weight. I never noticed it until then. I surveyed the situation, thanked her for her observation and made it a point to loose that weight. Although it originally seemed mean of her, her observation helped prevent a more substantial problem. I look back on it and am very very appreciative.
  • bennyboo

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    Sep 24, 2010 1:22 AM GMT
    BuddyinNYC saidA colleague of mine years ago told me that I was gaining weight. I never noticed it until then. I surveyed the situation, thanked her for her observation and made it a point to loose that weight. Although it originally seemed mean of her, her observation helped prevent a more substantial problem. I look back on it and am very very appreciative.


    Im sure she didnt just go up to and dam your getting fat you need to go the gym..lol
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    Sep 24, 2010 1:23 AM GMT
    ok and u are gay? good luck boo
  • bennyboo

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    Sep 24, 2010 1:26 AM GMT
    worstjock80 saidok and u are gay? good luck boo


    whats being gay got to do with being gaining weight....but thanks for the luck
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    Sep 24, 2010 1:34 AM GMT
    You lost me at lol icon_confused.gif
  • bennyboo

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    Sep 24, 2010 1:36 AM GMT
    reppaT saidYou lost me at lol icon_confused.gif


    my mommy said im a fat
  • d_1M

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    Sep 24, 2010 1:39 AM GMT
    well what is worse....

    calling your son fat in private or calling your mom a bitch on public?
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    Sep 24, 2010 1:41 AM GMT
    bennyboo said
    GQjock saidGeez ....... What's Christmas like at Your House icon_confused.gif


    No one gets anything from me....lol


    Maybe that's why she called you fat...
  • bennyboo

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    Sep 24, 2010 1:43 AM GMT
    D_ONEMEX saidwell what is worse....

    calling your son fat in private or calling your mom a bitch on public?
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    none of you know my mother so calling me fat is worse
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    Sep 24, 2010 1:44 AM GMT
    bennyboo saidSo the other day...i was trying to get something from on top of the fridge at my moms house.... and my moms saids out of no more... dam you need to start going to the gym your getting fat....icon_eek.gif So i said your so lucky i have good self esteem or id go cut my wrist my right now.....lol..... I thought your moms were to tell you that your beatiful not tell you your fat and ive only gained 15 pounds which is i dont think is a lot but appently going from a 30 to a 32 is like a huge differene because everyone at work also tells me that my ass has gotten a whole lot bigger.... but i thought that was a good thingicon_wink.gif


    I went something similar with my Dad, he actually had not seen me in 4 years due to we being in opposite coasts, I had a very challenging job and actually had gained a lot of weight, not going to the gym, etc. When he saw me he could not believe it because in his mindset and concern as a parent, they always visualize their kids the last time they saw you. Additionally, in our family we had always been very active in sports. I explained my job and situation and he was understanding, but overall he wanted for me to take care of myself...so I saw it more of a healthy criticism and concern rather than putting me down. In essence, when I got back to the West Coast, I prioritized my goals and work schedule. When I went last year to visit him, he could not believe the progress and the change, so I would take it as a concern parent that is all.
  • bennyboo

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    Sep 24, 2010 1:44 AM GMT
    MeOhMy said
    bennyboo said
    GQjock saidGeez ....... What's Christmas like at Your House icon_confused.gif


    No one gets anything from me....lol


    Maybe that's why she called you fat...



    Im gonna ask her she what she saids...icon_biggrin.gif
  • bennyboo

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    Sep 24, 2010 1:45 AM GMT
    uombroca said
    bennyboo saidSo the other day...i was trying to get something from on top of the fridge at my moms house.... and my moms saids out of no more... dam you need to start going to the gym your getting fat....icon_eek.gif So i said your so lucky i have good self esteem or id go cut my wrist my right now.....lol..... I thought your moms were to tell you that your beatiful not tell you your fat and ive only gained 15 pounds which is i dont think is a lot but appently going from a 30 to a 32 is like a huge differene because everyone at work also tells me that my ass has gotten a whole lot bigger.... but i thought that was a good thingicon_wink.gif


    I went something similar with my Dad, he actually had not seen me in 4 years due to we being in opposite coasts, I had a very challenging job and actually had gained a lot of weight, not going to the gym, etc. When he saw me he could not believe it because in his mindset and concern as a parent, they always visualize their kids the last time they saw you. Additionally, in our family we had always been very active in sports. I explained my job and situation and he was understanding, but overall he wanted for me to take care of myself...so I saw it more of a healthy criticism and concern rather than putting me down. In essence, when I got back to the West Coast, I prioritized my goals and work schedule. When I went last year to visit him, he could not believe the progress and the change, so I would take it as a concern parent that is all.


    ya but ive gained the weight like 2 months ago and she barely notices it now...i see her all the time
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    Sep 24, 2010 1:50 AM GMT
    Man, if you are pitying on weight at 24, you had better jump on that NOW!

    Examine your eating habits right away. Change your life style pronto! It is hard to get the weight off.
  • bennyboo

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    Sep 24, 2010 1:53 AM GMT
    Caslon15000 saidMan, if you are pitying on weight at 24, you had better jump on that NOW!

    Examine your eating habits right away. Change your life style pronto! It is hard to get the weight off.


    well i noticed that since i stated working over nights that my weight went up.... maybe i should tell my mgter to put me back in the daytimeicon_idea.gif