The Handsome Older Gentleman With His Life in Order.

  • Little_Spoon

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    Sep 24, 2010 5:33 AM GMT
    So damn attractive.

    You seem them more at social gatherings that don't involve alcohol and they're just beautiful.
    The way they walk, talk, even smile.

    Sometimes I just go coco for them.

    Oldest guy that has picked me up was 46-years-old. He was amazingly dominant and looked as if he were in his late 20s.

    He was a doctor and boy did he know how to work a guys body.

    I moved away before we were able to go all the way, but darn...

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    Still, like a guy more my age. Just every once in a while...I get swept off my feet by these smooth talkers.
  • Bunjamon

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    Sep 24, 2010 10:43 AM GMT
    I know exactly what you mean...
  • 4travel

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    Sep 24, 2010 10:50 AM GMT
    And then one day, next thing you know you are now one of those guys icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 24, 2010 1:59 PM GMT
    I understand. Older men do have that certain something that makes me go crazy at times.
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    Sep 24, 2010 2:05 PM GMT
    Good to know as I become one of those guys. I still mainly notice younger guys 25-35 and have been with someone nine years my junior for going on seven years. Would hate to be seen as creepy.
  • laxdude25

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    Sep 24, 2010 2:08 PM GMT
    Hey, I always love these threads that show appreciation for older guys. Thanks!
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    Sep 24, 2010 2:10 PM GMT
    I have to agree with all of the things you pointed out but not the prefer a guy my age. The mature gentleman is the best lover and friend any guy could have. My best relationship was with a 48 year old gentleman and boy did he know how to love!!!
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    Sep 24, 2010 2:20 PM GMT
    Have at me! ;)
  • rioriz

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    Sep 24, 2010 2:22 PM GMT
    I agree with all said here and wish some of the qualities found in older men were abundant in younger ones. Sadly they seem not to be
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    Sep 24, 2010 2:26 PM GMT
    rioriz saidI agree with all said here and wish some of the qualities found in older men were abundant in younger ones. Sadly they seem not to be


    I agree. Older men, more often than not, are more down to Earth, friendlier, more 'human,' and care about more than just the superficial things. Besides, they've been through things we can' even begin to think about and they have an amazing amount of knowledge and wisdom to pass along to us.
  • swimbikerun

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    Sep 24, 2010 2:32 PM GMT
    cmhoh1985 said
    rioriz saidI agree with all said here and wish some of the qualities found in older men were abundant in younger ones. Sadly they seem not to be


    I agree. Older men, more often than not, are more down to Earth, friendlier, more 'human,' and care about more than just the superficial things. Besides, they've been through things we can' even begin to think about and they have an amazing amount of knowledge and wisdom to pass along to us.
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    Sep 24, 2010 2:33 PM GMT
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  • rnch

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    Sep 24, 2010 3:33 PM GMT
    4travel saidAnd then one day, next thing you know you are now one of those guys icon_razz.gif


    (sigh)... yes. icon_eek.gif
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    Sep 24, 2010 4:11 PM GMT
    Check over at the cemetery. All very orderly and neatly groomed.
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Sep 24, 2010 4:11 PM GMT
    My friends told me all younger guys were either looking for a Father or a sugar Daddy.

    So I broke my no men under 30 rule just once and sure enough less than 6 weeks later he was back asking if me or any of my friends were looking to become a sugar daddy.

    I'm glad it works out for some guys. But for me I like the confidence and maturity of the mind that usually comes with age.

    Oh well two great nights of sex - I guess I can deal with it.

  • rnch

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    Sep 24, 2010 4:17 PM GMT
    mindgarden saidCheck over at the cemetery. All very orderly and neatly groomed.
    which is where your attitude should be!
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    Sep 24, 2010 4:52 PM GMT
    Bunjamon saidI know exactly what you mean...


    Mmmhmmm...*sigh*

    Hey GuyNextDoor, where you at darlin? icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 24, 2010 4:57 PM GMT
    Thinking back on when I was single, I always dated guys five to ten years older than me. A guy having his life together and being at least a little more mature was a big turn on. Funny - I guess these days I'd be considered an older guy too!
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    Sep 24, 2010 5:02 PM GMT
    LanceKC saidMy friends told me all younger guys were either looking for a Father or a sugar Daddy.


    I dunno, I'll gladly go for someone who isn't bat-shit-crazy.

    But yeah, the more mature guys definitely have it going on icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 24, 2010 6:27 PM GMT
    amen. Silver foxes with tight bodies that beat most guys my age... yes please
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    Sep 24, 2010 6:34 PM GMT
    In my experience they are fickle, however, and leave as soon as they get what they want. Lately I can stand without being a disposable trophy.
  • scorpiodncr

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    Sep 24, 2010 7:10 PM GMT
    rnch said
    mindgarden saidCheck over at the cemetery. All very orderly and neatly groomed.
    which is where your attitude should be!


    ^5 rnch. Let's blow this pop stand.
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    Sep 24, 2010 7:47 PM GMT
    LanceKC saidMy friends told me all younger guys were either looking for a Father or a sugar Daddy.

    So I broke my no men under 30 rule just once and sure enough less than 6 weeks later he was back asking if me or any of my friends were looking to become a sugar daddy.

    I'm glad it works out for some guys. But for me I like the confidence and maturity of the mind that usually comes with age.

    Oh well two great nights of sex - I guess I can deal with it.




    Yes! The younger ones are good to look at, but the 40-something man is a great lover!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 24, 2010 7:50 PM GMT
    Ciarsolo saidIn my experience they are fickle, however, and leave as soon as they get what they want. Lately I can stand without being a disposable trophy.


    I kinda agree with you on this one Ciarsolo... i mean, if older men are so great (mature, stable, compassionate), then why would one of them want to date a young 20 something who's still going through the growing pains of figuring out life: who they are, what they want, and who they want to share it with?
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    Sep 24, 2010 7:57 PM GMT
    Matty_WIP said
    Ciarsolo saidIn my experience they are fickle, however, and leave as soon as they get what they want. Lately I can stand without being a disposable trophy.


    I kinda agree with you on this one Ciarsolo... i mean, if older men are so great (mature, stable, compassionate), then why would one of them want to date a young 20 something who's still going through the growing pains of figuring out life: who they are, what they want, and who they want to share it with?


    Sometimes nice NOT to fuck yourself, eh? Someone different in whatever way, as long as there are things in common . . .