Hate days like this :(

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    Sep 25, 2010 12:40 AM GMT
    Not sure what am looking for with this forum, but just wanted to say it out loud hoping it might help.

    Today is just one of those days when am feeling too low and depressed.
    Miss my family but they are in a different continent and asleep.

    Feel as if am all alone and being single it sucks even more. On top of that my roommate is out of town and my good friend as well.

    God I don't know what I should do, just feel like crying.

    What do you guys do when you are having a day like this?
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    Sep 25, 2010 12:44 AM GMT
    Eat and watch a movie. Surprisingly easy and helpful.
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    Sep 25, 2010 12:50 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo saidEat and watch a movie. Surprisingly easy and helpful.


    Don't feel like eating, watching "Overboard", and even though I love the movie, its not doing anything.
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    Sep 25, 2010 12:55 AM GMT
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    Ciarsolo saidEat and watch a movie. Surprisingly easy and helpful.


    Don't feel like eating, watching "Overboard", and even though I love the movie, its not doing anything.


    omg that was so Goldie Hawn's magnum opus.
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    Sep 25, 2010 1:00 AM GMT
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    asnextdoor said
    Ciarsolo saidEat and watch a movie. Surprisingly easy and helpful.


    Don't feel like eating, watching "Overboard", and even though I love the movie, its not doing anything.


    omg that was so Goldie Hawn's magnum opus.


    It is and quite funny too.
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    Sep 25, 2010 1:02 AM GMT
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    Ciarsolo saidEat and watch a movie. Surprisingly easy and helpful.


    Don't feel like eating, watching "Overboard", and even though I love the movie, its not doing anything.


    I'm afraid to say that I am watching the same thing as that is publicly admitting I am watching We Television.


    Value your time alone. There might be a time in life when you look forward to it. I love my boyfriend love my friends and coworkers, but I sometimes really look forward to that 20 minute drive to work when I am alone in the car.
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    Sep 25, 2010 1:05 AM GMT
    heartrobb said
    asnextdoor said
    Ciarsolo saidEat and watch a movie. Surprisingly easy and helpful.


    Don't feel like eating, watching "Overboard", and even though I love the movie, its not doing anything.


    I'm afraid to say that I am watching the same thing as that is publicly admitting I am watching We Television.


    Value your time alone. There might be a time in life when you look forward to it. I love my boyfriend love my friends and coworkers, but I sometimes really look forward to that 20 minute drive to work when I am alone in the car.


    I do like my alone time, but more than alone I feel lonely right now.
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    Sep 25, 2010 1:08 AM GMT
    Try this- think of a friend you haven't talked to in ages and give them a call.
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    Sep 25, 2010 1:12 AM GMT
    asnextdoor saidWhat do you guys do when you are having a day like this?
    Honestly? I go to the club for a random hookup.
    It doesn't really help, but it passes the time by.
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    Sep 25, 2010 1:13 AM GMT
    heartrobb saidTry this- think of a friend you haven't talked to in ages and give them a call.


    That is a good idea, am also thinking about going out, probably someplace crowded and loud.
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    Sep 25, 2010 1:14 AM GMT
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    asnextdoor saidWhat do you guys do when you are having a day like this?
    Honestly? I go to the club for a random hookup.
    It doesn't really help, but it passes the time by.


    Not sure if hook up will help, but I hate going to club alone. Seeing if one of my friends would like to accompany.
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    Sep 25, 2010 1:41 AM GMT
    Well some good news, am finally going out with a friend and hopefully will come back in a better mood.
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    Sep 25, 2010 5:43 AM GMT
    Went to a club with friends and feel great icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 25, 2010 7:54 AM GMT
    Laundry, house cleaning, gardening, shopping, hardware stores, walk in a park, exercise, go to a museum, go to a library or a book store, read a book, crossword puzzles, masturbation...
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    Sep 25, 2010 2:56 PM GMT
    Webster666 saidLaundry, house cleaning, gardening, shopping, hardware stores, walk in a park, exercise, go to a museum, go to a library or a book store, read a book, crossword puzzles, masturbation...


    Laundry, House Cleaning, Shopping are the things I can barely do on a day feeling good lol.
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    Sep 25, 2010 3:05 PM GMT
    get out of the house and off the computer. Sometimes when you're just sitting around ur house, on ur computre all day it becomes depressing.

    Go to a barnes and noble or go do something active. Shopping always helps too.

    Buy a pack of cigarettes and smoke some.
    Go see a show, go hang out with someone. I'm sure all ur friends aren't out of town.

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    Sep 25, 2010 3:08 PM GMT
    Import saidget out of the house and off the computer. Sometimes when you're just sitting around ur house, on ur computre all day it becomes depressing.

    Go to a barnes and noble or go do something active. Shopping always helps too.

    Buy a pack of cigarettes and smoke some.
    Go see a show, go hang out with someone. I'm sure all ur friends aren't out of town.



    Oh I went out last night until 1am in the morning and came back with a much better mood, ahh the magic a drink and flirting with good looking men can do. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 25, 2010 3:10 PM GMT
    asnextdoor said
    Import saidget out of the house and off the computer. Sometimes when you're just sitting around ur house, on ur computre all day it becomes depressing.

    Go to a barnes and noble or go do something active. Shopping always helps too.

    Buy a pack of cigarettes and smoke some.
    Go see a show, go hang out with someone. I'm sure all ur friends aren't out of town.



    Oh I went out last night until 1am in the morning and came back with a much better mood, ahh the magic a drink and flirting with good looking men can do. icon_biggrin.gif


    oh ur such a tease Photobucket
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    Sep 25, 2010 3:53 PM GMT
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    asnextdoor said
    Import saidget out of the house and off the computer. Sometimes when you're just sitting around ur house, on ur computre all day it becomes depressing.

    Go to a barnes and noble or go do something active. Shopping always helps too.

    Buy a pack of cigarettes and smoke some.
    Go see a show, go hang out with someone. I'm sure all ur friends aren't out of town.



    Oh I went out last night until 1am in the morning and came back with a much better mood, ahh the magic a drink and flirting with good looking men can do. icon_biggrin.gif


    oh ur such a tease Photobucket


    No teasing here, but love flirting (batting my eye lids for you).
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    Sep 25, 2010 4:03 PM GMT
    Why not just feel your bad mood and feel your bad feelings and then voila! They'll disappear!
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    Sep 25, 2010 4:19 PM GMT
    xKorix saidWhy not just feel your bad mood and feel your bad feelings and then voila! They'll disappear!


    lol, it's not that easy, but interesting idea.

    Hey asnextdoor, glad you got a warm n tingly last night. Friends are wonderful.

    -Doug
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    Sep 25, 2010 4:21 PM GMT
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    xKorix saidWhy not just feel your bad mood and feel your bad feelings and then voila! They'll disappear!


    lol, it's not that easy, but interesting idea.

    Hey asnextdoor, glad you got a warm n tingly last night. Friends are wonderful.

    -Doug


    Thanks Doug. I really don't want to be sad coz sometimes that brings back the memories of some stuff from past that might put me in deep depression.
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    Sep 25, 2010 4:22 PM GMT
    On days like that I


    Clean my apartment

    Go to the gym or exercise or play sports and physically exert myself to get the blood flowing.

    Plow myself into a work project and make some progress.

    Call a friend or relative not to whine and moan but just to say hello.

    Have a drink at a local pub and then......

    Get intimate with someone.(however you define sex or intimacy).

    I feel shitty sometimes but I remember that it's not normal and it will pass.......but I have to DO Something about it, not be a victim.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 25, 2010 4:25 PM GMT
    KissingPro saidOn days like that I

    Clean my apartment

    Go to the gym or exercise or play sports and physically exert myself to get the blood flowing.

    Plow myself into a work project and make some progress.

    Call a friend or relative not to whine and moan but just to say hello.

    Have a drink at a local pub and then......

    Get intimate with someone.(however you define sex or intimacy).

    I feel shitty sometimes but I remember that it's not normal and it will pass.......but I have to DO Something about it, not be a victim.icon_biggrin.gif


    Going to gym in sometime, legs days woo hoo.

    But Nobody to get intimate with icon_sad.gif
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    Sep 25, 2010 4:29 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]asnextdoor said

    But Nobody to get intimate with icon_sad.gif[/quote]

    Oh yes there is.

    Instructions:
    Open eyes
    Smile
    say something
    smile again
    say something again