I am turning 25...a new Quarter Century...a new me...well maybe re-invented.

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    Sep 25, 2010 8:46 AM GMT
    so, I will be 25 on Tuesday the 28th, and I realzied this will be a new quarter century for me. I want to do things differently these next 25 years. I mean i like me, and I like the person I have become...but I want to start to love me. I mean appearance wise I work out, and I think I look handsome, but I will prob work out a bit more...and better, and eat better. The eating better part is not also about the physical outside change, but also the mental and inside change. I want to live...for a very long time...and I just feel that improving this, along with physical preperation, being careful and aware in almost anything and everything that I need to, and also not really taking my mental state to the brink of exhaustion and crazy, would get me to a place I in my life that I would like(super run on sentence, I know, but it's not a formal essay, so you can suck it). I also want to pursue my career in acting/writing/song writing. I think I can be a very good actor, and I think I am pretty good at writing stories and songs(this forum probably doesn't prove it, but I swear I am).

    I mean I know I am going on and on, but I just don't want to live my life just not seeing what could have been. you know, not giving your dream, if you will, a shot. so I am going to do whatever my heart desires when it comes to my life and careers...like Janet, and taking Control.(hell yeah i used a Janet song).

    Also I think, I mean I should, take a break from relationships/dating. In the past I have fallen in love, got shittied on for it, had the "Frankie Come Back Special", and just dated a shit ton of guys. I feel I need to just give it a break...maybe even stay celibate(spelled that wrong) for a while, and just start focussing on things..on me. I am not gonna force it, however, if a guy says hey, you are cool, let's go out, I would say sure, if I like him, but I know that priority number 1 is...GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER FRANK!

    So finally, I know that a lot of folks have had forums like this, or have given advice to people who stated these kinds of things, or just asked for opnions or encouragement, but I don't think this is like that. I think this is more of a " look out world, here comes momma!"(lol, yeah I went there, too). and Also kind fo like a "ah! I get it now(lightbulb:ideaicon_smile.gif".

    So, yeah Happy Bday to me, and Happy, Healthy, Successful, Next Quarter Century to me...giddy up!
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    Sep 25, 2010 8:49 AM GMT
    Good for you. Happy early birthday. 25 was a real tough age for me, but it taught me alot. I'm so ready for my 20s to be behind me now.
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    Sep 25, 2010 8:51 AM GMT
    Happy Un-birthday!

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    Sep 25, 2010 2:32 PM GMT
    Happy Birthday Dude! Er, well, almost birthday. Anyway, congrats on your new lease on life and good luck spanking it. I moved across the country a few months ago, quit smoking, and took a break from dating as well, in addition to a few other things because I has an ephiphany. Good luck bud.
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    Sep 25, 2010 3:02 PM GMT
    Actually, you will go thru a psychological passage in 3 to 5 years, when you will confirm your current life course or perhaps make radical changes.
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    Sep 25, 2010 4:21 PM GMT
    Lets hope you'll mature emotionally too. Some don't............. ^
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    Sep 25, 2010 7:40 PM GMT
    Caslon15000 saidActually, you will go thru a psychological passage in 3 to 5 years, when you will confirm your current life course or perhaps make radical changes.


    That's what happened to me!
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    Sep 25, 2010 9:10 PM GMT
    Hey, you have the same birthday as my Bill!

    -Doug
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    Sep 25, 2010 9:11 PM GMT
    Turning 25, eh? And you're gay? Sorry bub...


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    Sep 25, 2010 9:13 PM GMT
    meninlove said Hey, you have the same birthday as my Bill!

    -Doug


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    Sep 25, 2010 11:09 PM GMT
    Happy Birthday. And don't get bogged down with the quarter century thing. You should be happy with all you have accomplished in the past twenty-five years, and look forward to the next twenty-five years.

    You get major props for using Janet's Control in a sentence. I lover her.