Talking Dirty during Sex

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    Sep 28, 2010 3:51 AM GMT
    So I recently hooked up with a guy online; all things were hot except when he started to talk dirty to me and asked me to do the same. I didn't mind that he started talking dirty, but I always feel awkward doing it knowing I'm not into it and forcing it.
    Am I alone?
    Who likes to talk dirty? What do you like to say?
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    Sep 28, 2010 4:05 AM GMT
    Can't do it. I have to stop and make up something to say. All of a sudden, I'm writing, not having sex any more icon_sad.gif
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    Sep 28, 2010 4:30 AM GMT
    I'm not really into the dirty talking... but I always like to know what the other guy is feeling/thinking while I do what I do.
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    Sep 28, 2010 3:45 PM GMT
    It depends on the language. If it's in one of three romance languages, I don't care if they talk my ear off before and during ... but not after.

    In English, it all sounds kind of contrived to me, though.
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    Sep 28, 2010 3:52 PM GMT
    QuadraticEquation saidI'm not really into the dirty talking... but I always like to know what the other guy is feeling/thinking while I do what I do.

    ^ This ... And sex talk.

    What do you mean by dirty?
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    Sep 29, 2010 1:16 AM GMT
    "Fuck me! Yeah, fuck me man...fuck yeah!"
    "I love you so much. Oh you feel so good!"
    "That ass yours man! Yeah, take it...take that ass!"
    "Tell me you love me. Be my boy, tell me you're my boy and that you love me."
    "Talk dirty to me! Talk dirty to me daddy!"
    ...you can pick what's dirty to you or not. All of these were used on me btw. lol
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    Sep 29, 2010 2:48 AM GMT
    Some of what was said is understandable but the "love me" stuff could be an erection killer with someone you just met online.
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    Oct 02, 2010 7:59 PM GMT
    mindgarden saidCan't do it. I have to stop and make up something to say. All of a sudden, I'm writing, not having sex any more icon_sad.gif


    Same here!
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    Oct 02, 2010 8:10 PM GMT
    I fucking hate it when mother fuckers start all that goddamn dirty talking shit around me! I'll kick'em in their fucking man-cunt!
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    Oct 03, 2010 3:04 AM GMT
    I love dirty talk, if it's descriptive of what's happening. But nothing about love, that would be a boner killer for me unless it was someone I was seeing seriously.

    john
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    Oct 03, 2010 7:52 AM GMT
    KAT72 saidSo I recently hooked up with a guy online; all things were hot except when he started to talk dirty to me and asked me to do the same. I didn't mind that he started talking dirty, but I always feel awkward doing it knowing I'm not into it and forcing it.
    Am I alone?
    Who likes to talk dirty? What do you like to say?


    ha. It is very true. As much as one wants to talk dirty, they expect sex partner to do too. May be you can tell him that you are not comfortable. Else if he speaks 8-10 words, how about a one from you;)
  • JoeOak1

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    Aug 06, 2012 9:50 AM GMT
    can't stand it!