Have you ever had sex in a locker room? Gym shower? Steam/Suana room?

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    Sep 28, 2010 4:50 AM GMT
    I'm reading a book, Muscle Boys, which suggests that nearly half of gay men have. Seems high to me. Have you?
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    Sep 28, 2010 4:55 AM GMT
    Not yet...
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    Sep 28, 2010 4:56 AM GMT
    there's no way thats true... I don't think half of all gay people go to gyms... let alone fuck in the locker room/sauna. I know I would never do that and I highly doubt I'm the only one.
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    Sep 28, 2010 4:58 AM GMT
    I'd question the statistical veracity of your source. But hey, you never know, it's possible a sound and frank survey of gay sex practices could end up compiled under the name Muscle Boys.
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    Sep 28, 2010 5:07 AM GMT
    Most of the book seemed reasonable and insightful. I'm in the gym 5-6 times a week. I see some cruising, voyeurism, some exhibitionists but no sex. There are quite a few gay men at my gym. But I've never had or seen any actual sex there.
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    Sep 28, 2010 8:20 AM GMT
    No none of those places but I have in a gay 'sauna' (aka bathhouse) but it was in one of the private cabins, not the actual sauna/steamroom area.
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    Sep 28, 2010 10:26 AM GMT
    If the statistic was how many men have fantasised about doing it in a locker room/shower/etc, then 50% would be much too low ;-)
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    Sep 28, 2010 10:48 AM GMT
    uh, so am I the only one then?
  • massbuildah

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    Sep 28, 2010 11:06 AM GMT
    No your not! Been there, done that, good times!
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    Sep 28, 2010 11:25 AM GMT
    I have been cruised quite openly at gym a few times, but I would never even think of actually having sex at gym. I was cruised by a very good-looking man once. I noticed him staring at me and he smiled back. I tried to ignore him and to focus on my workout. When I went to the locker room to shower and get changed he was leaving. About 20 minutes later I left the gym and went to the store next door to get some fruit. Next thing I know he's choosing fruit next to me. I was caught off guard and when he asked if I wanted to "go somewhere private" I just told him to piss off. I never saw him at gym again.
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    Sep 28, 2010 11:37 AM GMT
    No I haven't, and I'm sure it happens a lot less frequently than the porn industry wants us to believe icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 28, 2010 11:43 AM GMT
    I have. Had it in my college's gym showers. It was hot.
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    Sep 28, 2010 11:44 AM GMT
    Yes......icon_smile.gif
  • Latenight30

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    Sep 28, 2010 11:46 AM GMT
    yeah. some of my favorite places
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    Sep 28, 2010 11:50 AM GMT
    jimib saidI'm reading a book, Muscle Boys, which suggests that nearly half of gay men have. Seems high to me. Have you?
    I have never seen it happen before but my manager use to catch guys all the time. I actually caught a guy rubbing on himself in the shower. As a manager, I use to have to go and check the showers and sauna for guys like that. Its funny, I never once heard anything like that from the women. I personally have too much self respect to do that. That is why they make bedrooms and hell maybe even a car. lol
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    Sep 28, 2010 12:04 PM GMT
    Oops I just remembered, I have had sex with my bf in the swimming pool showers, not sure if that counts though as it wasn't a random hook-up.
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    Sep 28, 2010 12:34 PM GMT
    "Muscle Boys: Gay Gym Culture is an inside look at the secret world of exercise and fitness that's become one of the country's fastest growing and most influential gay subcultures. The author, a personal trainer on the San Francisco gay gym scene for more than a decade, examines the history, sociology, and influence of bodybuilding, male body image, and beefcake media, and incorporates the results of an online study of nearly 6,000 gay and bisexual men for an in-depth look at gay body culture and its role in modern gay life. "


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    Sep 28, 2010 2:13 PM GMT
    Yep, at Gold's Gym in downtown Pittsburgh. I was in the sauna and started making eye contact with another hot guy across from me. We both dropped our towels and started going at it. Decided to go across the hall into the showers: black tile and very large, enough for two. Needless to say, after that cum shower we needed another shower to clean up! icon_eek.gif
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    Sep 28, 2010 2:18 PM GMT
    I would never even consider that. They had a sting operation a few years back here where I live. Vice actually posted on craigslist and a bunch of guys showed up to pig out in the gym and they were all arrested. It was about 12 guys total.

    The gym should be for working out, not having sex. If you want to have sex in a lockerroom or steam room, maybe a bath house is better option.......
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    Sep 28, 2010 2:22 PM GMT
    Yep, in an individual shower area after the place closed...icon_eek.gif
  • Kev67

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    Sep 28, 2010 2:52 PM GMT
    Yes, in the steam room, and a couple of times in shower stalls with the door or curtain closed.
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    Sep 28, 2010 2:56 PM GMT
    Nothing more than just viewing each other's hard cock. Can't cum standing up, plus too scared of getting caught. But damn, some guys are persistant.

    I always get aroused in the showers after a work out, and trying to stop is futile. On saturday the guy next to me whispers to me "let's go to the steam room". I told him no, but he wouldn't let up. I continued showering and he came back, looking all offended that I didn't follow him.

    Saw him on my way out....he definitely spends more time cruising than working out.
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    Sep 28, 2010 3:13 PM GMT
    No way people can have sex in either of the two gym (lockers, sauna, steam room) I go to. Lockers are fairly open and lighted, so I have never seen anything like that. Most that has happened with me is when I was in Hot tub and the guy sitting next to me started rubbing his leg against mines.
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    Sep 28, 2010 3:13 PM GMT
    Yes I have.
    I've fucked in the showers a few times, once in the steam room and a couple of times in the lockers when noone's around.
    Good times, but always play safe.
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    Sep 28, 2010 3:24 PM GMT
    No, never! The gym is for working out, you go in, get your fitness on, and then you leave.

    They already do not clean the gym hard enough to get rid of the body filth, there is no need to add jizz to it. That is unnecessary.

    Plus, there are straight people there who do not want to see that shit and I don't think they should be subjected to it. I don't even want to see it if it is two hot guys cause then the ooglies will see it and think its okay to do and... well then it just goes downhill from there.