Need Blow Job Advice

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    Sep 30, 2010 1:33 AM GMT
    I've been lurking and am a tad nervous about posting as there seems to be some hostility toward anyone not 100% into men. I don't care what you call me, I'm in mid-50s and totally comfortable in my sexuality, Well, except maybe being nervous as hell about how to give a good blow job icon_redface.gif

    Short story long: I had a couple of tame gay relationships while a teenager. Mostly a lot of touching and rubbing and coming all over each other. I went down on him once but he didn't come. He liked to fuck me between my legs, no penetration, but he had a huge load that soaked me. We both enjoyed it. I moved away, I think he grew up to be gay, I grew up to be straight.

    Except......I have never gotten over wanting to go down on guys and after many years of no opportunity, afraid someone would find out due to stigma, AIDs scares, etc., I finally hit a point where I don't care what people think if they find out. life is too short. I approached a gay friend and next week I get to give a blow job (and get one) and I'm excited icon_wink.gif

    My wife of many years gives incredible blow jobs and loves doing it, so I have a role model. She is supportive of me, so she has tried to give me pointers and of course I know what I like.

    But I am still really nervous because a guy blowing a guy has to be different than a woman blowing a guy (my wife says that a woman going down on her is different than when I do, both good, but different).

    I want to do a good job and blow him away (literally). I am open to any techniques (not sure about deep throat) and I want him to cum in my mouth.

    Any advice for me would be appreciated. I know I shouldn't be so nervous, this could turn into a regular thing for us and I know he will be understanding.

    Thanks
  • Bunjamon

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    Oct 02, 2010 7:22 AM GMT
    Only the guy you're blowing knows what he likes, and what will make the experience mind-blowing for him. A good lover says what he wants, and a good lover also takes constructive criticism in stride. So before you put his dick in your mouth, ask him how he likes it.
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    Oct 02, 2010 7:58 AM GMT
    "Only the guy you're blowing knows what he likes, and what will make the experience mind-blowing for him. A good lover says what he wants, and a good lover also takes constructive criticism in stride. So before you put his dick in your mouth, ask him how he likes it."

    That's exactly it!

    Lately I've been able to suck myself off and discover new things entirely. So I'm doing the same thing with myself as opposed to my ex-lovers (I'm kinda uninterested in being sexually active with another person right now, it's a novel idea).
  • Nizzo

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    Oct 02, 2010 1:47 PM GMT
    Be passionate, treat the tool with respect, no teeth, use enough suction for extra pressure, use your tongue to massage the head, most guys like their balls sucked and rubbed up on, keep your mouth moist, moan a little, breathe through your nose, relax, hand mouth combo is awesome too. And you don't have to swallow. I never do.
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    Oct 02, 2010 2:23 PM GMT
    Nizzo saidBe passionate, treat the tool with respect, no teeth, use enough suction for extra pressure, use your tongue to massage the head, most guys like their balls sucked and rubbed up on, keep your mouth moist, moan a little, breathe through your nose, relax, hand mouth combo is awesome too. And you don't have to swallow. I never do.


    I guess I haven't heard this in awhile. Good idea I guess. Some guys don't want to hear you sucking it. Most do. That's a whole research topic in itself.
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    Oct 10, 2010 4:43 AM GMT
    hauptstimme said"Only the guy you're blowing knows what he likes, and what will make the experience mind-blowing for him. A good lover says what he wants, and a good lover also takes constructive criticism in stride. So before you put his dick in your mouth, ask him how he likes it."

    That's exactly it!

    Lately I've been able to suck myself off and discover new things entirely. So I'm doing the same thing with myself as opposed to my ex-lovers (I'm kinda uninterested in being sexually active with another person right now, it's a novel idea).


    You suck yourself off?! icon_eek.gif
    Im a little intrigued...