Mar 02, 2008 3:28 PM GMT
I've been going about posting my experiences on various boards, just to see whether anyone else has had the experience I had. To make a long story short, I began seeing a personal trainer originally to aid in getting leaner and more defined, and the relationship eventually became sexualized as we realized that it turned us both on for him to fetishistically monitor and restrict my diet and to impose exercise quotas and physical standards upon me--a kind of secret dom/sub trainer/trainee relationship, in which I was weighed in daily, my food intake was dictated and sometimes highly restricted (2-3 days of fasting per week, at his request), and exercise/cardio quotas were imposed to meet ever more stringent standards of bodyfat percentage, waist size, muscle definition and appearance, with success rewarded with sexual activity, and failure punished by various penances. This relationship went on for 18 months, and since him, I have had two much shorter-term experiences of this kind, intentionally sought out, with dominant trainers. Has anyone else had this kind of experience with a controlling boyfriend, kinky trainer?